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EVDHmn

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Let’s share the experience, and the journey.♾️❤️

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EVDHmn, to fun
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What’s everyone listening today for their Sunday or Monday morning on the other side of the globe?

Boost for reach?

Does anyone have a goto playlist for fun? Any upbeat or soulful playlists the speak to your heart?

I’m in the mood for something different maybe some others would like to share some playlists for any occasion?

#musicsocial
#indie_playlists
#fun
@actuallyautistic
#socialmedia
#dance
Please add other hashtags if you know of any!
Pls and thanks I appreciate you!

EVDHmn,
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@tuckerteague @actuallyautistic
Thanks sooo any specifics lol.. years? 😅lotsa stuff

EVDHmn,
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@DrSuzanne @actuallyautistic

Oh interesting im not worried about platform as i have quite a few I’ll just deal with commercials haha so share away 😊wow that’s such a great idea!

EVDHmn,
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@DrSuzanne @actuallyautistic
Ohh it’s already starting out fabulous thank you! 😊

EVDHmn, to books
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So today’s question?

it’s a reading thread!

Have you read any books lately that have changed your perspective on life?
Expanded your world view?

@bookstodon
@academicchatter
@actuallyautistic

Looking for a good book this weekend while I’m outside in the yard.

Also I’m looking for a book by Camilla pang called breakthrough!
Has anyone read it yet?


eo, to actuallyautistic
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"high functioning autism" is basically bulimia for executive functioning.
What do you think about this analogy, @actuallyautistic?

EVDHmn,
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@eo @actuallyautistic
…idts…I can explain why later..

it’s more complex.

Bottom line it was an inaccurate description;us as a whole.

Which is why we moved to fluidity and levels.

Which is more accurate.
This is just my take POV

Ultimately it’s bad representation.

Support need levels kinda:

“Interactive fluid dynamic layering system suspended in locus relative to environment and objects with it ”

Which are then translated onto all other fluid supports and needs of every system.

RickiTarr, to random
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I'm going to start writing all my posts on old English, and daring people to correct my grammar and spelling.

EVDHmn,
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@RickiTarr
or a librarian who’s a retired professor at my local Librairy.

When they recite verse with cadence, it’s kinda magical.🧙‍♀️

I however struggle with regular english, and perspective, living life with a multifaceted lens, makes explaining anything difficult at times

Awareness is sometimes too much!
👀 for slooo

It’s why I stare at a tree or a flower, I get transported to a world few see.

Where life plays out at a different scale and speed that’s a bit more soothing, and healing
😅

EVDHmn, to photography
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EVDHmn, to psychology
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The goal: to have a comprehensive data driven understanding how multi-generational trauma shapes implicit bias in institutions, groups, familes etc and how it intertwines DK in community leaders.

So that we can work together to address these issues together!

Reliable studies or sources
Boost for effect! 🙏

Here’s one below. I’m going through now

https://doi.org/10.3390%2Fijerph19105944

@academicchatter
#psychology
#science
#sociology
#bias
#multigeneration
#trauma
#misinformation
#disinformation

EVDHmn,
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@academicchatter
Also this would be great if if we could expand into marginalized groups and cultures, intersectionality POC, etc,

This is the last weekend for autism acceptance month going into Asian American Pacific Islander month next week!

Any sociology studies with good sampling across cultures would be useful as well.

Please and thank you!

MLE_online, to random
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I see a lot of stripped arcade cabinets given away for free on Craigslist, and it makes me wonder why people are stripping arcade machines of their internals.

What do they do with the internals? What do they use them for in absence of the cabinets?

EVDHmn,
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@MLE_online
I can only say what I know.

often times they are up-cycled .

Meaning there’s a market for vintage arcade.
Mostly it’s the outside that’s damaged, but if it’s the internals it’s parted out and sold to a collector or someone who has a family dream of ABC game.

Some have externals no cabinet that’s useable.

Then there’s people who have hobbies at finding faults in logic systems and fixing or replacing a problem part etc.

Then there’s just recycling electronic components etc.

EVDHmn, to actuallyautistic
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@actuallyautistic

Thanks for the feedback on several questions I asked yesterday.

I saw a question reframed and answered in several different ways even some who perhaps didnt want to answer directly.

Reframed it in words I understood that appear in my timeline as I do follow people.

Autistic signaling, answering without injuring yourself on a perspective . Regardless all those who tried to help me and many of us in whatever way. Thank you immensely.🙏

batichi, to Autism
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I think the wildest thing about Pathological Demand Avoidance is that folks don't realize that we don't -just- do it to other people. Where we resist doing tasks asked of us. We also do it to ourselves and that's what causes a lot of mental paralysis. Our own heads make so many demands our body only has the energy to resist.

EVDHmn,
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@batichi @pathfinder
Yeah, it’s difficult to explain so ways irl, to me I’m sorting my own pda, will be finally starting something then someone calls me away to x.

I’m swearing like a sailor until I get there, then I’m like ok we are all humans, we perceive differently for the life of me trying to explain that feels like it’s soo complex, to a person who doesn’t have those issues.

even if they do have a grasp of psychology and ND, then it’s still catching and receiving foreign concepts.🐘

Mollysdailykiss, to bookstodon
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If you have not read either of these books, then you really should.

Regardless of whether you like Non fic or not, if you are using this here big old interwebs, then honestly read them both. Start with Doppelganger and then read Code Dependant.

Is technology gonna destroy democracy? What about the whole of humanity?

These books made me worry, but both also gave hope for the future and the power of humanity and most of all communities.

@bookstodon

Front cover of the book Code Dependant by Maghumita Murgia which shows a Control keyboard button lit in purple and red

EVDHmn,
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@gimulnautti @Pappy @bookstodon
Mmhhmm I see them, I know some are my ND kin, how do I know because well the older ones I meet we talk special interests everything under the sun but politics, etc. ci pretty high

EVDHmn, to actuallyautistic
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@actuallyautistic

So question.

Do I type like a person who is ND?

I have autism and adhd. Diagnosed late in life 42. Soo…

Feel free to go through my posts!

I believe they are unlocked😊
I really have nooo clue.

I don’t recognize autistic text so much as I do patterns from a human behavior that give off that vibe or a combo of factors. Maybe, a public event or something similar 🤔.

In text not so much, I mean sometimes in authors I will suspect possibly but I’m not sure.

thanks much!

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  • EVDHmn,
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    @nathanlovestrees I voted in my mind and in this statement and didn’t reply and saved a copy in my drafts.

    RickiTarr, to random
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    Okay, a little mystery also for today. After the Toxic Club, my
    brother and I got a strawberry limeade at a little drive inn, and drove around this Conservation Area, but then we start seeing this fence with these signs, it's like 8 foot tall with lots of the fence totally blacked out, and these signs placed on them that say:

    Saline Valley Ranch, No Hunting, No Trespassing

    This fence went for miles, and miles had to be incredibly pricey to put in, it reminded me of the fence they'd have at a minimum security prison, but we didn't see cows, horses, crops, nothing but woods and hills and miles and miles of giant fence.

    We try to find information about what it is, but there's basically nothing. My husband looks it up on Google Earth, and finds Little Saline Ranch, and I look it up, and it says permanently closed, and even less information is available about that. Google Earth shows lots of wooded land, a lake, and a few open fields, but we couldn't see any buildings or animals, nothing like that.

    So, looking up that I find this article about mysterious happenings in the area:

    https://www.cjonline.com/story/news/local/2018/10/31/hunting-ghosts-miller-county-other/9408986007

    It mentions several people seeing a Bigfoot type cryptid in the area, so obviously the fence is to keep it in. My other guesses involve a government blacksite, as it isn't too far from and airforce base, or a doomsday cult, what do you all think?

    EVDHmn,
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    @RickiTarr @SNerd mozzies killl
    More than humans but not if you count pollution.

    Humans are about 425,000 so 460ish with a conservative 10percent variation.
    Mozzies or mosiquito kill about 770k with the same variation.
    Or 700k according to old data.

    ai6yr, to random

    The Mainichi: "Hippo-larious mistake: DNA test reveals Osaka zoo hippo 'Gen-chan' actually female" https://mainichi.jp/english/articles/20240422/p2a/00m/0na/034000c

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    @jqheywood @ai6yr
    Just fyi sexing a Hippo or not you should still be cautious around hippos and mosquitos.. and apparently humans.

    The diseases that mosquitos carry and transmit to people they bite, on the other hand, kill 725,000. Pollution kills more I think 🤔 just slower.

    https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/mosquitoes-kill-more-humans-human-murderers-do-180951272/

    ashleyspencer, to actuallyautistic
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    I did a very autistic thing and bought summer clothes in 2 to 4 packs.

    I am now the proud owner of:

    • 9 capri leggings in 4 colors.

    • 10 of the same tank top all in different colors.

    • 4 bike shorts in different colors.

    • 17 autistic t-shirts from my store in 5 different colors (they come in more colors, I just buy the same colors lol)

    I will officially wear the same outfits every day in various colors when both sleeping and being outside in the heat lol

    @actuallyautistic

    EVDHmn,
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    @pathfinder @ScottSoCal @ashleyspencer @actuallyautistic

    0.o
    (Checks clothes Rack) My partner could care less about my fashion I think.🤔

    Is it affordable? Absolutely!
    Is it practical? Yes
    Now…
    Our catfood selection on the other hand seems to be widely varied though, we even have 6 different types of treats!

    Looks further
    Bedroom:
    2bed..
    Cat chairs or beds:14

    Human bathrooms: 2
    Cat Bathrooms:7

    Cat toys: Two storage Tubs under bed
    😞

    Ok, Now I see who is really 🥰

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    @pathfinder @ScottSoCal @ashleyspencer @actuallyautistic
    I just brought it up to them.

    They told me it’s still budget friendly,because our cats were born with their clothes on.”So it all works out”
    😳
    They also replied shortly afterwards, “besides laundry detergent takes most of my budget money as I eat like a 4 yr old”.
    So there’s that. 😢
    😒!

    (They must have known this day would happen)👀.

    Krisss, to art Dutch
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    Philosopher's Path
    By Erin Hanson ©

    EVDHmn,
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    @Krisss I love this🥰

    Tim_McTuffty, to actuallyautistic
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    Diary of an ASD Squirrel. Day 174 , Friday 19/04/2024

    TL:DR Friday - happened ! ; went for walkies; dizzy spells have returned 🙄🤦‍♂️ ; super clean extraction fan !
    Morally corrupt energy companies & PMs !

    Friday dawned bright but with the threat of rain on the horizon. With this firmly in mind I leapt semi athletically out of bed , hobbled downstairs , sorted breakfast & got ready to venture forth.

    The clock had barely registered 7am when I braved the cold & romped into the great outdoors.
    I have to say our hill is a killer ! It’s not massively steep (at least not until you get near the top) but it is a constant gradient for the first 500m & I always know how fit I am by how fast I climb this initial stage & how knackered I am when I reach the road that runs at right angles to ours. Currently I am not very fit at all !

    I kinda speed walked the first Km as I wanted to avoid the impending downpour , & as I was ahead of schedule I tagged on an extra few metres to prove I was making progress.

    Back home again I hung the laundry out & tidied up after herself. She was in the office today so peace reigned supreme!

    I really wasn’t feeling like joking the human race this morning so I lurked at the edge of the Fediverse while watching 2010 - the sequel to 2001 A space odyssey.

    I went wild after lunch & cleaned the bathroom extractor fan - a job that has been delayed by MH & physical health issues. I nearly came to a bad end today when a dizzy spell caught me on the way down the ladder.
    Yes sadly a mix of last weeks EDF conflab & todays attack on those suffering from MH issues by the UK PM has set my dizzy spells off again. By happy coincidence the ENT consultant my GP referred me to called for an update today , she reckons a trip back to the cardiologist is a really good idea - if my GP can get their finger out !

    I felt more myself late this afternoon & ploughed headlong into my TL , much fun was had by all involved !
    I am awaiting the result of a poll to see if I should have a name change even as I write this .

    Final Thoughts.

    Flipping EDF - their morally bankrupt behaviour is even now affecting my life !

    I find the folks in the Fediverse a constant source of wit & support , luvs yer all !

    Thank you to all those who are helping me on this journey, in a myriad different ways. I am thankful to each & every one of you! 🫂 🫶🐿️🖖

    @actuallyautistic
    #TimsASDjourney #ActuallyAutistic #Neurospicy #TheMammutMoves

    EVDHmn,
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    @Tim_McTuffty @actuallyautistic
    Gl you two! Always in our thoughts!

    Perhaps response. The trick is thinking about it when you’re not 😡.

    If you can! I bet if you think about it. They don’t deserve your time.

    So the next time it happens you know they aren’t worth your energy.

    You pick your emotions not them. 🤔💭
    Your worth it!

    It helped me out a lot doing things that way.

    Kind of preempting a thought. Inception. I believed it would work so I guess it did. ☺️.

    GL

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    @Tim_McTuffty @actuallyautistic
    Hey Tim, I hope it works some, working at all helps some. It helped me during some tough times. I hope it helps you my friends something to try perhaps at least! Have a most wonderful day my friend!

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    @Tim_McTuffty @actuallyautistic
    Oh I thought this may give you a good laugh as well

    https://youtube.com/shorts/nBKb_z4_tGY?si=223dMt822ZD4fZkl

    I forgot to send earlier!

    RickiTarr, to random
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    https://youtube.com/shorts/2jajLTrjIsg?si=IbJgabbMLqMCjFZN

    OMG, my husband does this, but he just sits in silence!

    EVDHmn,
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    @RickiTarr @venya
    Ok I feel seen. 🫣Sometimes it takes my brain awhile.

    Partner:
    Seriously you still don’t have a read? I asked your opinion on what I should do and hour ago? about how we are going to do this?

    Me: 👀 “You know I don’t do this on purpose.”

    “Umm. Let me check…(mind, brain any updates?(crickets) Can you put a rush on this? Thanks I’ll check back whenever it pops up again”)
    Also me: “Can you ask me in the morning at breakfast?
    I think better first thing”

    Partner:😭🙄

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