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please help wren with their utility bills before they get shut off! their internet already went out and their data is low. almost funded, just needs $50!
"Trans people come in all shapes and sizes. The ones I have met are nice and just want to get on with their lives. It is wearing to have to justify your existence every time someone wants to call you out on something someone has read or heard." Louise
please help wren with their utility bills before they get shut off! their internet already went out and their data is low. almost funded, just needs $50!
One of the fun parts of being nonbinary is trying to find a frame of reference that uses established concepts to communicate and explain identity while hammering those old concepts into a new shape.
So, there's the good old deconstruction: unpacking the two buckets of conventional binary gender, tell people what's in them is largely arbitrary. A social construct - not meaningless, but at the same time infinitely changeable and renegotiable.
There's one problem that remains: While we may deal with a space of unknown dimensions, we're seemingly still left with only two defined points, and the intuitive approach is, draw a line as axis through that, and try to put any nonbinary gender somewhere on that. Which leaves the whole thing rather... one-dimensional, literally. And enforces a certain androgyny as nonbinary "ideal" as inbetween. Which is wrong.
So, reconceptualizing that male-female axis is in order. Let's find some new axis for the same old things.
We can put both male and female as endpoints of their own axis between those, and their lack. Like, 0 - 100 on both of them, independently. And instead of connecting that on one axis, take the two, and make 0 on both axis an origin of a Cartesian grid. Suddenly, we're moving in a plane of known things instead of a line. A lack of "female" doesn't mean a gain of "male" anymore. And we can suddenly express more by dropping that.
Of course, that still doesn't describe every nonbinary identity, but it does describe better every identity that consists exclusively of male and female components. #nonbinary#howToExplain
@mutualaid My friend ended up getting kicked out and had their food thrown away bcuz their relatives didn't consider it "real food". If you could give anything to help them get back their room, it'd be a great help. It's the only place they've been able to secure, but their roommate losing their job this past winter made things harder for them financially. @seelpah/$SeelpahC (please, include 🏘️ in memo). #MutualAid#MutualAidRequest#eviction#TransCrowdfund#lgbtq#Trans#Nonbinary#poverty
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Looking for a trans inclusive book, film or TV programme? Have a look at TransActual's entertainment library for recommendations. We're just getting started with it, so let us know if you've got suggestions of things to add!
Psssssstt - June is coming <3 And it's time to celebrate your beautiful queer asses with some queer self love and support to friends and family gifts:)
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please help wren with their utility bills before they get shut off! their internet already went out and their data is low. almost funded, just needs $50!
#IDAHOBLIT is a great day to remind you about TransActual's crowdsourced definition of transphobia. It was designed to explain some of the subtler more nuanced forms of transphobia. Find it at https://transactual.org.uk/transphobia
please help octo! she needs to pay her monthly bills including rent, debt payments, and college expenses. she's struggling with parental abuse. anything helps!
If you're struggling, reach out and seek support. You'll find the details of some trans and/or LGBTQ+ specific helplines on the TransActual wellbeing hub. Type in https://transactual.org.uk/wellbeing/ to find them.