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alexisbushnell

@alexisbushnell@toot.wales

Neurodivergent knot untangler - slaying your brain gremlins with practical, personalised help (and #Notion templates).

Social media manager at Time For Kindness.

Passionate about accessibility and #sustainability. Learning #BSL.
Learning to sew, grow and mend for a #SolarPunk future.

#ActuallyAutistic

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consumablejoy, to knitting
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When you get out of control with organization even though you know it will only last a short time and soon you will have another abandoned tool sadly languishing. Exhibit: Notion workspace that initially had just Stash in it and now has become my full-blown mini-personal-Ravelry-esque repository of knitting data. @knitting (remove group in reply)

alexisbushnell,
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@consumablejoy oh wow, yours is so much fancier than the one I'm designing through use to sell!

alexisbushnell, to bookstodon
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I finished reading Turtles All The Way Down by John Green and how I wish I'd had that book as a kid. Such an honest account of mental illness, you can tell it's written by someone who actually gets it.

@bookstodon

alexisbushnell, to actuallyautistic
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Any recommendations for Autistic coaches?

Ideally also:
A woman.
In the UK.
Queer.
Knowledgeable about trauma / cPTSD.

@actuallyautistic #ActuallyAutistic

eniko, to random
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For my birthday, I'd really like it if my beloved fedi could spread word far and wide of Kitsune Tails. It's a platformer with a heartwarming story featuring queer main characters and personal discoveries in classic SMB3 style. You can find trailer, screenshots, and wishlist links here: https://kitsunegames.com/kitsunetails

It's coming out this year and the team and I have been working hard on it for several years now. Most of the team is queer in some form so by boosting you'd not only be making me happy on my birthday, but supporting a bunch of queer creators making queer art as well

yuzu kitsune tails, a purple haired fox girl, picks up samurai armor in a tower that's rapidly filling with lava. she jumps away from the rising lava and sticks her spear in the wall, doing a dashing twirl to get on top of it. she walks off the spear and into a new scene, fighting a ghost fox with armor and spear. it stabs and she jumps over, but is caught by a follow up stab. the ghost fox over extends and its ghostly powers wane, giving yuzu a chance to bop on its head

alexisbushnell,
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@eniko oh exciting! Have wishlisted. Happy birthday

alexisbushnell, to random
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Kicked off my day with . Sun salutation B followed by some freestyle - way more than 1 pose just it doesn't track unless I do a workout. I also forgot to hit the button so missed the first 10 minutes!

Kept checking in with my knee as I work on healing my cruciate ligament.

Now icing it post - yoga to calm it down again.

alexisbushnell, to Facebook
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Erm, so when I open at the moment it tells me I'm not connected to the internet and my computer slows all the way down and starts overheating.

It is only on my personal Facebook account - client accounts work fine.
The site won't work at all for me.

I tried downloading the Facebook messenger app but it says my login details are wrong (they are not).

Any ideas?

alexisbushnell, to makershour
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A4 Literally everything I have created so far has been outside my skill set! lol!

@makershour

alexisbushnell, to makershour
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A3 Mending clothes is a super useful skill.

I wouldn't say I have learned this skill, but I am trying to learn to be better at making mistakes, being bad at something, and fucking up. Definitely a work in progress that though!

@makershour

alexisbushnell, to makershour
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A2 I'm a finisher by nature, so I'm actually more likely to obsess about one thing until it's finished than start a load of different things and not finish (not that that never happens, but it's not normal for me).
So I don't really have a strategy. Although for general focus and productivity I'm still loving this game I posted about: https://toot.wales/@alexisbushnell/112360529311058437 .

@makershour
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alexisbushnell, to makershour
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A1 Hi, I'm Lexi (she/her) and I delivered the hat I knitted to my stepdad, the scarf is still a work in progress.
Minimal making happening now because I'm in so much pain with my knee unfortunately.

@makershour

infinitesoleil, to bookstodon
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#BookReview

4 stars ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

This book was absolutely unhinged. That’s the best way I can describe it. The main character was unhinged, the way the book took a turn and nearly became a horror novel was unhinged. The way it ended was unhinged. I was getting so enraged at the main character’s behavior that I was live reacting as I read in a mutual’s DMs who had just finished reading the book the week prior.

Would I read this book again? Probably. Not anytime in the near future though. Aside from the insane plot line, this book touched on themes like interpersonal racism, discrimination, identity and authenticity, representation, cultural appropriation, and cancel culture.

#bookstodon @bookstodon

From: @infinitesoleil
https://federatedfandom.net/@infinitesoleil/112362438392855097

alexisbushnell,
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@elysegrasso @infinitesoleil @bookstodon It does for me, it links to a post saying "currently reading Yellowface by R. F. Kuang."

alexisbushnell,
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@elysegrasso @infinitesoleil @bookstodon I'm on desktop if that helps

alexisbushnell, to running
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Restarted today and my right knee and ankle and utterly fucked.

Left knee has healed and is doing well, just a bit stiff but that felt like a tendon from knee to hip issue.

My right knee feels like an ankle and knee issue and it's also the ankle I sprained quite badly last summer and has been weak since. And unlike the left knee, running on it has definitely made it worse. Also the inside of my knee feels bruised.

alexisbushnell,
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Well shit. One of my (small) dogs just jumped up at my leg and hit my right knee and the pain. Omg I can't tell you. I just screamed and then stood there frozen in pain trying to breathe through it enough to be able to move and get some anti-inflammatories.

alexisbushnell,
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Knee update.

Saw a physio today. She said I've damaged a cruciate ligament. Says it's common when people start a new sport - like me with .

She's given me some resistance training to do and said crack on with yoga, just not on the knees.
I can walk but mostly rest it, ice it and keep taking anti-inflammatories.

I'm seeing her again on Wednesday for more acupuncture and massage.

LehtoriTuomo, to actuallyautistic
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Someone asked whether I ever played Doom. No, not really. I told that I've never liked first person shooters and then it hit me. I never liked them as there's too much going on. In fact, I've never been a big fan of any types of shooters, the only exception being Cannon Fodder. Now, with the new-found autistic perspective, it makes perfect sense. Sensory overdrive all the time equals no fun. How about my fellow autistics, any fans of shooters?

@actuallyautistic

alexisbushnell,
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@LehtoriTuomo @actuallyautistic I'm not. I'm too jumpy (not sure if that's Autism or cPTSD) but I got Quake 2 as a gift way back when and was determined to complete it, so I printed the walkthrough and did it that way, following it!

alexisbushnell, to makershour
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Big thank you to @makershour attendees and special thanks to @Maker_of_Things for organising the chat and bringing together such a wonderful group of people to talk about awesome, creative stuff!

alexisbushnell, to makershour
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A5 I think the giant mouse, but I'm not scared of horses. I used to have a horse and ride regularly, and I've lived around horses for most of my life too.

I don't have digital versions of the photos of me with Gene (my horse) but I can offer you me befriending a neighbour's horse and Morrie wanting to play with some horses at the horse breeder down the road from where I used to live.

@makershour

Alexis standing one side of an electric fence with a fat horse and donkey on the other side.

alexisbushnell, to makershour
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A2 oooh good question. To be honest, I think most kids are crafty and creative by nature so the main solution is to stop shaming them out of it, and focus on encouraging them and giving them the opportunity to try things.

Outside of that though, I think giving them skills that empower them and make them more self sufficient is a good way in. Can't afford that super amazing outfit you want? Make it! Jealous of that cool decoration? Make it!

@makershour

alexisbushnell, to makershour
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A1 Hi, I'm Lexi (she/her) and this week I've been taking up speed knitting to try and finish my stepdad's scarf in time for him visiting tomorrow!

Spirit City Lo-Fi is really helping me to do that actually, I raved about that some here: .

And this is the last progress pic, kindly modeled by Morrie: https://toot.wales/@alexisbushnell/112293764490425486 .

Also lots of gardening happening here. I've planted some apple seeds, avocados, herbs and flowers.

@makershour
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alexisbushnell, to Notion
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tip - don't overcomplicate it.

It's super common with Notion newbies to make a really complex system, maybe using several different templates, that seems great because it includes literally everything.

Trust me when I tell you, you don't actually need everything!

Start small and simple - it can be as simple as a blank page with a check list on it!

alexisbushnell, to ai
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OMG it is so hard to avoid music now.

Everything I choose to put on client videos turns out to be AI generated and I don't have the capacity to keep deleting and redoing the whole video because stolen music is infiltrating absolutely everything.

(They don't have the funds to work with a musician or pay brain blank the rates to rent music).

alexisbushnell, to running
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Urgh. I slept so badly and so little that I've woken up with a headache.

Today should be a day but I'm not sure how sensible that is when my body is already completely drained from my period being due and now also from only getting 4 hours sleep.

alexisbushnell, to running
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My knee continues to be completely fucked and the physio only accepts phone calls to book, so I'm going to have to wait until at least Friday to book because I'm not working then so I can afford to lose a load of the day to recovering from making a phone call.

I guess its compression, rest and anti-inflammatories in the meantime but I miss already, and actually running is the only time it doesn't hurt.

alexisbushnell,
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So I decided fuck it, I'm going and once again, knee was fine on the run and, mysteriously, fine doing yoga (including one legged pigeon) - so I ran (jogged) almost the whole time to avoid walking setting it off.

It was a mistake to take the dogs despite the fact they were very excited to go! It has perked them up though.

alexisbushnell,
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@johne unfortunately no, it continues to be an issue. I did it about 10 days ago now. It does seem to be easing slowly but it's still not happy.

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