Blumine, to random German

#tradwife

Der neue Hashtag auf Insta und TikTok. Welle von Influencerinnen verbreitet, die aus den USA kommt und die ein extrem reaktionäres Frauenbild vermittelt. Natürlich alles nur hetero.

"Wenn der Mann "nein" sagt ist das "nein", ist zum Beispiel einer ihrer Devisen.
#Höcke freut sich, denn das wollen die der #noafd.

Für die nächsten Wahlen, bei denen auch 16 Jährige wählen dürfen, nicht beruhigend, da gerade junge Mädchen deren Zielgruppe ist

br00t4c, to internet
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▶ 'Tradwife' Trend Is Worse Than You Realize | Eviane Leidig | TMR

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SHZLPWYTZf8

Flipboard, to fediverse
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It’s — such a shame it’s been a slow news week! Just to refresh your memories, this is a day to feature work from newsrooms with an active presence in the . If you like what you see in the (long!) thread below, follow the profiles and boost their stories. If you’re a journo or newsroom that we don’t know about or if there’s a newsroom you’d love to put on our radar, please let us know in the comments below.

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Flipboard,
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@damemagazine covered the rise of the “trad wife” influencer — where it come from, and why it’s dangerous. “A 2022 Ipsos poll found that almost half of American men surveyed believe “traditional masculinity” is under threat. Many blame feminism, saying it has done more harm than good. One in five Gen Z and Millennial men now believe violence against women is often provoked by the victim,” writes Sarah Stankorb.

https://www.damemagazine.com/2024/05/30/the-insidious-trap-of-the-tradwife-movement/

miriamrobern, to random
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Okay I thought the family would enjoy enchiladas and made a big batch so there'd be leftovers but they just DEMOLISHED the whole thing.

Counting this as a victory.

We Did It Yes GIF by Girl Starter

damemagazine, to politics
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influencers are a sentinel, and we laugh at them to our peril.

These increasingly popular figures give polish to frequently with underlying elements of white supremacy.

They are emblematic of America’s retrograde swing. Algorithms pump their content, which is especially alluring to a breed of men drawn to the idea of wifely submission and

https://www.damemagazine.com/2024/05/30/the-insidious-trap-of-the-tradwife-movement/

br00t4c, to random
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So-Called Trad Wife Wasn't Even Kidnapped From Village By Rival Viking Clan

https://www.theonion.com/so-called-trad-wife-wasn-t-even-kidnapped-from-village-1851495214

mrundkvist, to random
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The right-wing extremist #tradwife trend reminds me of something. Women's place in Taliban Afghanistan.

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"At best, it’s a veiled attempt to reinforce regressive views about the role of women, and in doing so, walk back decades of feminist progress. Some argue that the tradwife “movement” is also intrinsically rooted in white supremacy. And yet I cannot stop watching." —Amy McCarthy for Eater

https://www.eater.com/24145665/tradwife-trend-ballerina-farm-housework-home-cooking

#Longreads #EditorsPicks #Tradwife #Eater #Feminism

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br00t4c, to random
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nus, to conservative
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Unsurprising, but very sad: conservative "#tradwife" influencer #LaurenSouthern discovered being in a "traditional" marriage felt like being enslaved, she felt compelled to rationalize her husband's abuse, & the "anti-feminist" life was incredibly lonely and made her want to die:
https://unherd.com/2024/05/lauren-southern-the-tradlife-influencer-filled-with-regret/

(Stolen from #NathanJRobinson on Twitter: https://twitter.com/NathanJRobinson/status/1787518162440708421) @liveposting
#TraditionalMarriage #conservative #feminist #feminism

There were warning signs from early on. “If I ever disagreed with him in any capacity he’d just disappear, for days at a time. I remember there were nights where he’d call me worthless and pathetic, then get in this car and leave.” But she didn’t see them, thanks to the simplified anti-feminist ideology she’d absorbed and promoted: “I had this delusional view of relationships: that only women could be the ones that make or break them, and men can do no wrong.” So she didn’t spot the red flags, even as they grew more extreme. “He’d lock me out of the house. I remember having to knock on the neighbour’s door on rainy nights, because he’d get upset and drive off without unlocking the house. It was very strange, to go from being this public figure on stage with people clapping, to the girl crying, knocking on someone’s door with no home to get into, being abandoned with a baby.”
For, she tells me, she’s not alone. She tells me she knows many other women still suffering in unhappy “tradlife” marriages. One of her WhatsApp groups, she says, “is like the Underground Railroad for women in the conservative movement”. Some of these are prominent media figures: “There are a lot of influencers who are not in good relationships, who are still portraying happy marriage publicly, and bashing people for not being married while being in horrendous relationships.” She hopes that in speaking out she can reassure “all of these women who are thinking in their heads: I’m uniquely terrible, and I’m uniquely making a mistake” that no: something is more generally amiss.
All of this was, Southern tells me, difficult to square with her religious beliefs. She would pray by his bed when he was angry with her, hoping that if she gave him grace one more time he’d realise the depth of her love and be kinder. And if this didn’t work, she was encouraged to persist by the way online life had conditioned these beliefs into “listicle” form. But as she discovered, distilling religious traditionalism into viral bullet points does not provide an adequate framework for navigating the complexities of a real-world marriage. She thought, she told me, that “as long as I put on the high heels and the lipstick when my husband comes home, as long as I cook the best meal, as long as I’m always submissive, and say yes, sir, whatever you want, things will go fantastic.” And if it’s not fantastic? The listicle version of traditionalism would just say she should make more effort. It was, she says, “an embarrassing wake up call, finding myself consistently applying these rules and instructions I found on Twitter, and then never getting the results they were supposed to get, in the real realm of relationships”.

nus, to conservative
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Unsurprising, but very sad: conservative "" influencer discovered being in a "traditional" marriage felt like being enslaved, she felt compelled to rationalize her husband's abuse, & the "anti-feminist" life was incredibly lonely and made her want to die.

https://unherd.com/2024/05/lauren-southern-the-tradlife-influencer-filled-with-regret/

(Stolen from Twitter - to be precise) @liveposting

There were warning signs from early on. “If I ever disagreed with him in any capacity he’d just disappear, for days at a time. I remember there were nights where he’d call me worthless and pathetic, then get in this car and leave.” But she didn’t see them, thanks to the simplified anti-feminist ideology she’d absorbed and promoted: “I had this delusional view of relationships: that only women could be the ones that make or break them, and men can do no wrong.” So she didn’t spot the red flags, even as they grew more extreme. “He’d lock me out of the house. I remember having to knock on the neighbour’s door on rainy nights, because he’d get upset and drive off without unlocking the house. It was very strange, to go from being this public figure on stage with people clapping, to the girl crying, knocking on someone’s door with no home to get into, being abandoned with a baby.”
For, she tells me, she’s not alone. She tells me she knows many other women still suffering in unhappy “tradlife” marriages. One of her WhatsApp groups, she says, “is like the Underground Railroad for women in the conservative movement”. Some of these are prominent media figures: “There are a lot of influencers who are not in good relationships, who are still portraying happy marriage publicly, and bashing people for not being married while being in horrendous relationships.” She hopes that in speaking out she can reassure “all of these women who are thinking in their heads: I’m uniquely terrible, and I’m uniquely making a mistake” that no: something is more generally amiss.
All of this was, Southern tells me, difficult to square with her religious beliefs. She would pray by his bed when he was angry with her, hoping that if she gave him grace one more time he’d realise the depth of her love and be kinder. And if this didn’t work, she was encouraged to persist by the way online life had conditioned these beliefs into “listicle” form. But as she discovered, distilling religious traditionalism into viral bullet points does not provide an adequate framework for navigating the complexities of a real-world marriage. She thought, she told me, that “as long as I put on the high heels and the lipstick when my husband comes home, as long as I cook the best meal, as long as I’m always submissive, and say yes, sir, whatever you want, things will go fantastic.” And if it’s not fantastic? The listicle version of traditionalism would just say she should make more effort. It was, she says, “an embarrassing wake up call, finding myself consistently applying these rules and instructions I found on Twitter, and then never getting the results they were supposed to get, in the real realm of relationships”.

br00t4c, to business
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br00t4c, to random
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br00t4c, to random
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Meghan's gone from royal upsetter to tradwife in three short years. Given what's out there, you'd do the same | Gaby Hinsliff

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/apr/19/meghan-royal-upsetter-tradwife

tinderness, to random German
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Natürlich, auch Kochen ist nicht frei von Gesellschaftspolitik. Wieder ein Trend, bei dem mir übel wird, diesmal den heimischen Herd betreffend: die - Die Hausfrau und Influenzerin, die für Kinder und Mann aufwendige Dinge zubereitet und dabei immer super aussieht. Im gleichen Atemzug vermittelt sie ein reaktionäres Frauenbild, ganz ungeniert.

🌀 https://www.woz.ch/2416/auf-allen-kanaelen/am-20-000-dollar-herd/

br00t4c, to random
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Why the 'Tradwife' Life Is More Dangerous Than Ever Before

https://msmagazine.com/2024/04/10/tradwife-feminist-divorce-women-home/

br00t4c, to internet
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A Debut Novel Obsesses Over Tradwife Mommy Bloggers and Toxic Mothers

https://www.jezebel.com/a-debut-novel-obsesses-over-tradwife-mommy-bloggers-and-toxic-mothers

nando161, to Funny
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This was the main act in a "scandal" some weeks ago (?) bc she is some famous bigshot in the online and it got 'leaked' that she is married to a pretty high up guy, and thats why she can live by making videos of her making all kinds of foods from scratch in vintage and original ass old kitchen.

But well, nothing more trad than the rich wife of a rich guy being able to be a stay at home mom and to as a . Even old time liked to do that from time to time.

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