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EVDHmn

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Let’s share the experience, and the journey.♾️❤️

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EVDHmn, to random
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@futurebird

Hello, hope you’re having a great day/weekend. I was wondering do you happen to have friends. I was wanting to start breeding red wrigglers for my community bins.
I know I can search and read which I have done but I like to talk to people who do this method. My friend gave me a couple aquariums. :) just thought I would check.

EVDHmn, to actuallyautistic
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@actuallyautistic
I had this very odd conjecture thought to my self.

In a sense could there be no such thing as Neurotypical?

As everyone is Neurodiverse.🙄

People are just trying to pretend to do social norms as kids.

People get to adult age, they forget they are pretending.
Get to living
As they get older they don’t care about pretending as much.

Unless they are fundamental pretenders, which are advocates for social norms and traditions.

Perhaps?

EVDHmn,
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@_L1vY_ @actuallyautistic
I was talking about how it plays out over populations so 🤷‍♀️ . from what little I know :) it could look the same in your circles if that was the case 😅

EVDHmn,
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@actuallyautistic
Perhaps NT is just the label for those fundamentalist.

neurodiverse and neurodivergent largely has to do with the way people think of how they see the world feel the world, to some extent.

Without getting into neurobiology and pathological origins most of us hate.

Perceptions do shape reality.

If everyone is mirroring social norms to each other it’s recursive learning as we are all models?

WilliamRobert, to random
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A deep dive into Ursula K. LeGuin's classic novels through the lens of her 'dangerous' philosophy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vRC0cK_MSA0

EVDHmn,
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@WilliamRobert
What is her philosophy style?

RickiTarr, to random
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Sometimes when you learn how something works, you think, Thanks knowledge, that really helped, everything makes more sense, and other times you look up how wrists turn, and it's like WTF?!

EVDHmn,
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@BashStKid @RickiTarr
Ohh yeah.

https://www.britannica.com/animal/Tiktaalik-roseae
I’m constantly amazed. Trying to do a course on evbio. It’s not easy as there’s sooo sooo many variables and variation even within species.

The above according to Neil Shubin is our relative about 375 Mya I think.

EVDHmn,
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@BashStKid @RickiTarr lol…yeah evbio and behavior ecology has what seems are like 10-15 majors to it. Luckily some overlap kinda sorta… then there’s philosophy

ashleyspencer, to actuallyautistic
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Why do they do this.


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EVDHmn,
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@ashleyspencer @actuallyautistic
People like to compare things, I think.
Since we are social creatures.
I mean the species.
They compare social things in their head or outloud.

My partner asks if they are weird, I reply,“ofc not.”
“You are simply fantastically eccentric. I wouldn’t have you any other way”
They reply back “noo do I appear weird to normal people..”

🤔🙄😬😄

9to5Mac, to random
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Bing down for many; Copilot, DuckDuckGo, and ChatGPT search too https://9to5mac.com/2024/05/23/bing-down/?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=mastodon

EVDHmn,
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@9to5Mac @_L1vY_
Www4.bing.com…seems to work for search :)

drcaberry, to random
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So when #MuskyTwitter was purchased I joined Mastodon, Post, Spill, Spoutible and BlueSky. Post is going belly up on 5/31. I left Spill because of members policing the way I engage on social media. If I wanted to be critiqued and criticized in my downtime I could go read my course evaluations. Now spam complaints on Mastodon?? I may need to just delete everything except the dark place. #BlackSTEM #BlackFedi #BlackTwitter #BlackMastodon #BlackFediverse #NoireSTEMinist

EVDHmn,
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@drcaberry
😮 noo Your posts often brighten my days! 🥺

aral, to DuckDuckGo
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EVDHmn,
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@aral @Faintdreams Kagi will net you a free 100 searches I think. don’t know how it is?

RickiTarr, to random
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Sometimes the way people phrase things is so telling. For instance, telling women they should be "taking care of" their husband and children. Another adult doesn't need taken care of like a child, what you want is for women to be a Sex Mom.

EVDHmn,
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@RickiTarr wake up all the zombies pls Ricki! Wtf is wrong with people..everyone needs mattering in my mind. Please wake up all the sexdabombmoms let them out of the dungeons out to dance and play with the rest of us lol 😆 👀🫣😅 So weird that people still think in traditional roles, yes support is needed it’s called team work and collaboration.

EVDHmn, to nature
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Friendly reminder to your neighborhood troll or hate group.

Please don’t harass people in general, life is hard enough for all of us. 😉

https://www.nature.com/articles/d41586-024-01468-9

EVDHmn, to nature
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Question so what’s everyone’s take on this nature article?

Just curious?

https://www.nature.com/articles/d41586-024-01465-y

RickiTarr, to random
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I'd like to think our genetics don't define us, and then I'll meet a herding dog, and start thinking, "Well, maybe..."

EVDHmn,
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@GreenRoc @RickiTarr You are accurate. it’s true @LeeDugatkin
His book tells you all about how it was done https://press.uchicago.edu/ucp/books/book/chicago/H/bo25568406.html

RickiTarr, to random
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The most ridiculous thing about cop procedural shows is when they ask where a person was, and what they were doing at a specific time the person always has perfect and immediate recall. I'd be desperately trying to remember what day of the week that was, and trying to open my phone calendar. If I was the cop, I'd immediately be suspicious of the person who remembered exactly where they were and what they were doing.

EVDHmn,
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@RickiTarr ohh I just can’t watch reality tv, it breaks my brain , I mean close as I get to watching reality tv is some YouTube lectures or music videos lol.

Also I either know, what happened or where I was roughly or I don’t. Going back a year ago today, not the way my brain works so. Planet earth I answer and I was alive or I’m alien controlling this body from another universe and can’t tell 😆

EVDHmn,
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@RickiTarr
Oh and also we humans have so many cognitive biases I’m not sure why they ask, https://www.visualcapitalist.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/all-188-cognitive-biases.html

haui, to actuallyautistic

@actuallyautistic controversial thought:

calling an autistic person naive is an ableist slur as it is negatively connotated and targets a persons unchangeable traits.

Feel free to disagree and explain if you think another definition would make mote sense.

As always please refrain from ad hominem attacks.

EVDHmn,
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@haui @actuallyautistic
Nearly everyone over estimates ability or underestimates ability dunning Kruger https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning–Kruger_effect

pathfinder, to Autism
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@actuallyautistic

Burnout is a bitch. I think all of us who have experienced it, or are experiencing it, will agree with that. But, how it presents and how long it maintains its hold over us, seems to be as variable as so much else about us.

I can now recognise the many times I have experienced burnout in my life. Each one marked by my constant refrain of, "I'm just tired" and with me doggedly plodding on with my life as best I could. Even now, in the deepest and longest burnout of my life, I am still doing the same.

Of course, I at least know to try and pace myself now. To let the unimportant things slide until their time comes and to spread out what has to be done, to the best of my ability. I know to dedicate time to self-care, to rest and recreation and to acknowledging my needs as an autistic person. This much, realising you are autistic can teach you. It can also help you to spot the signs of burning out sooner and hopefully mitigate its effects that way.

When that's possible, of course. For what caused my current burnout was unfortunately a series of overlapping events that I could not avoid, or do anything about. It was almost as if life chose to keep throwing things at me, each more intense and impossible to avoid, until I broke. But then life can be like that sometimes.

Autistic burnout is, of course, different from normal burnout, in what causes it and how it presents. It is, more often than not, a breakdown of our ability to cope with the demands being placed on us and not with how much we can carry. We are used to carrying insane loads and with having to work so much harder than most other people, just to keep putting one foot in front of the other through life. In fact, I know that I never really rest, not even now. My life is one long and continuous assessment and checking on whether the routines I have in place are being maintained. Whether I have done everything, on what needs to be done and finding new ways to blames myself for why it hasn't been done yet. There is no such thing as not working as far as my brain is concerned. And because I never stop, I don't know how to stop. How to heed the signals of tiredness and exhaustion and how to not knuckle down and continue anyway. It has been the story of my life. In work and everywhere else, always push, push, push.

And perhaps this is why autistic burnout is so common and possibly even inevitable. The sheer effort that life already is. The constant raggedy edge we walk just to get through a day and how in doing this day after day, all we end up doing is teaching ourselves to ignore the warning signs and that our needs are even important. And end up learning instead, that all that really matters is the next plodding step, no matter the load we are already carrying.


EVDHmn,
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@pathfinder @actuallyautistic
Time scales are relative to system. Meaning if you have 1000 spoons and you burn 1500 spoons for awhile you may be able to handle it for awhile. Only by juggling mental health. I think it’s easier to juggle life than my touchy system. Great post Kevin.

EVDHmn,
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@pathfinder @actuallyautistic
Yes the body keeps score sometimes kneecaping us later.

EVDHmn, to books
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@ct_bergstrom
😍Finally Librairy came through

Got my new reading list.

Massive science stuff happening . I ordered Professor Dugatskin book. The well Connected animal! https://press.uchicago.edu/ucp/books/book/chicago/W/bo212549914.html
On a side note
Here’s one for you I think you will find fascinating and quite enjoyable and relatable.
I like the authors playful but candid style of writing.

Camilla Pang, a computational biologist, cancer researcher and writer :)

the link:

https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/639332/an-outsiders-guide-to-humans-by-camilla-pang-phd/
🥰
@bookstodon

EVDHmn,
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@aggualaqisaaq @ct_bergstrom @bookstodon
A professor reccomended Professor Neil Shubin books as well. I’ve read all three and it really gave me a better perspective on life. Neil Shubin “Your inner fish”. Sooo much fun!

EVDHmn, to random
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On a side note. I bought a mountain bike at a yard sale for 5 dollars it’s a GIANT made Rincon I think it says it’s a custom. https://www.giant-bicycles.com/ee/rincon-1-2022
Fixing the tire and oiling the chain… and gears do I need special oil?

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Current letters E or F

JOIN IN friends of the birds:

THREAD: A to Z of birds.

The idea is to create a thread of birds starting with A and ending with Z (if we get that far).

Rules:

  1. Common names not Latin names
  2. Flexibility with common names (i.e.. American Robin (A) or (R)
  3. IMPORTANT: You can post the same letter bird or the next letter forward but not backward.

(Only photographs please of any quality)

use tag

EVDHmn,
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@JimsPhotos
Egret, not sure of spelling duck as well. Cheers

futurebird, to random
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Has anyone read any good math and science history nonfiction books recently? (pop nonfiction please) Are there any really good ones out?

EVDHmn,
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@futurebird
Umm… here’s my top 3

The Outsiders Guide to Humans

Camilla Pang
https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/639332/an-outsiders-guide-to-humans-by-camilla-pang-phd/

Evolution
by Carl Bergstrom and Lee Dugatkin

https://a.co/d/dwks29j

Entangled Life by: How Fungi Make Our Worlds, Change Our Minds & Shape Our Futures
By:
Melvin Sheldrake

https://a.co/d/0q2hGY3

Number 4 selection is especially for you, I’m a fan of Doug Tallamy’s works!

Nature's Best Hope: A New Approach to Conservation That Starts in Your Yard

https://a.co/d/1crc9HC

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