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benjamincox

@benjamincox@writing.exchange

Aspiring screenwriter, widowed depressive, occasional film critic, advocate of common sense & defender of what idiots call 'woke'. User of too many emojis. 😁

Discovered my autism last year at 43 & now understand why I’ve been a square peg in a round hole all my life.

Eager to find beta readers & anyone who can help me improve my craft as well as readers of my work.

#Screenwriting #GTTO #ActuallyAutistic #MentalHealth #Depression

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RickiTarr, to random
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Alright, lots of heavy discussions today, so let's talk about something silly!

What is a movie that always makes you laugh?

Personal pick:

Anything Mel Brooks, but Robin Hood: Men in Tights, it's just funny every time I watch it.

benjamincox,
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@RickiTarr Team America: World Police. Such an underrated satire with all the subtlety of a pipe wrench to the face! 😆

DemocracySpot, to animals
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📷 Oliver the Aussie, 2023.

benjamincox,
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@DemocracySpot He looks so worried… 🫤

dyani, to actuallyautistic
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Any other autistic kin struggle with speech and articulation when they were little?

I'm recording an instructional voice-over today and my mom just told me I used to have a lisp when I was little. That's news to me!

I definitely notice sludgy articulation around L and S sound as an adult. Outside of voice over recording, I could not care less about my articulation. But it is interesting!

@actuallyautistic

benjamincox,
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@dave @dyani @actuallyautistic I hate having my photo taken for this very reason. 🫤

benjamincox, to random
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43 days until Rishi goes! Not that I'm counting or anything... 😁

benjamincox, to random
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I have so little spoons that I just can’t give a fork today. 🥱

LehtoriTuomo, to actuallyautistic
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I'm currently reading Unmasking Autism by Devon Price and it's super interesting. It surely resonates and I recognize myself in many places.

Reading about "female autism" -- which Price criticizes as a label -- was a real eye opener. I too am a very sensitive and likable person who adjusts to new situations quickly.

For instance, I've noticed ages ago that I take cues from the situation, mirror verbal and nonverbal expressions and mannerisms. I might not give much of my real self if the situation doesn't feel safe. It often doesn't. Plus I'm introverted so there's that.

Another example. When writing to others, I tone my reply to fit the recipient or forum. I've loved using emojis but if the recipient doesn't use them, I haven't used them either.

And now I read this is masking. Mind blown.

@actuallyautistic

benjamincox,
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@LehtoriTuomo @actuallyautistic I actually struggled with that book. Do you have any other recommendations?

grimalkina, to random
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I have enough followers on here (👋 💞) that I think it is worth a little thread on how I relate to social media and online conversations & try to cultivate community

  1. I am a person, not an object. I have personal thoughts, feelings, experiences, a family, & a life. Angry interactions from strangers & esp those interested in exploiting me as An Example Of Some Battle of Yours are dehumanizing & will get blocked (e.g.: "this is why those Ex Twitter people should be banned by default")
benjamincox,
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@grimalkina To be fair, we have had plenty of PMs recently so I wouldn’t blame them for not knowing. Frankly, I’m almost jealous. 🫤

benjamincox, to BBC
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Listening to the 1800 Seconds On Autism podcast from the , which is far less dry than a number of other podcasts on the subject I've tried. Can recommend for any people looking for an informal chat about their ND-ness.

benjamincox, to HashtagGames
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You’ve got to know when to hold ‘em, know when to fold ‘em…

grammargirl, to random
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We're the best!!! Grammar Girl just made the Writer's Digest list of 101 Best Websites for Writers! 🎉🎉🎉

We've been on the list before for the website, but this year is special because it's the first time we're on the list for the PODCAST. (Yes, the list of websites has a category for podcasts and YouTube channels.)

It means so much to me to know that people love and appreciate the show. Thank you to Writer's Digest and to all the people who listen! 1/2

benjamincox,
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@grammargirl @novelx456 Congratulations!

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