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benjamincox

@benjamincox@writing.exchange

Aspiring screenwriter, widowed depressive, occasional film critic, advocate of common sense & defender of what idiots call 'woke'. User of too many emojis. 😁

Discovered my autism last year at 43 & now understand why I’ve been a square peg in a round hole all my life.

Eager to find beta readers & anyone who can help me improve my craft as well as readers of my work.

#Screenwriting #GTTO #ActuallyAutistic #MentalHealth #Depression

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RickiTarr, to random
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Alright, lots of heavy discussions today, so let's talk about something silly!

What is a movie that always makes you laugh?

Personal pick:

Anything Mel Brooks, but Robin Hood: Men in Tights, it's just funny every time I watch it.

benjamincox,
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@RickiTarr Team America: World Police. Such an underrated satire with all the subtlety of a pipe wrench to the face! 😆

DemocracySpot, to animals
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📷 Oliver the Aussie, 2023.

benjamincox,
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@DemocracySpot He looks so worried… 🫤

dyani, to actuallyautistic
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Any other autistic kin struggle with speech and articulation when they were little?

I'm recording an instructional voice-over today and my mom just told me I used to have a lisp when I was little. That's news to me!

I definitely notice sludgy articulation around L and S sound as an adult. Outside of voice over recording, I could not care less about my articulation. But it is interesting!

@actuallyautistic

benjamincox,
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@dave @dyani @actuallyautistic I hate having my photo taken for this very reason. 🫤

benjamincox, to random
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43 days until Rishi goes! Not that I'm counting or anything... 😁

benjamincox, to random
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I have so little spoons that I just can’t give a fork today. 🥱

LehtoriTuomo, to actuallyautistic
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I'm currently reading Unmasking Autism by Devon Price and it's super interesting. It surely resonates and I recognize myself in many places.

Reading about "female autism" -- which Price criticizes as a label -- was a real eye opener. I too am a very sensitive and likable person who adjusts to new situations quickly.

For instance, I've noticed ages ago that I take cues from the situation, mirror verbal and nonverbal expressions and mannerisms. I might not give much of my real self if the situation doesn't feel safe. It often doesn't. Plus I'm introverted so there's that.

Another example. When writing to others, I tone my reply to fit the recipient or forum. I've loved using emojis but if the recipient doesn't use them, I haven't used them either.

And now I read this is masking. Mind blown.

@actuallyautistic

benjamincox,
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@LehtoriTuomo @actuallyautistic I actually struggled with that book. Do you have any other recommendations?

grimalkina, to random
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I have enough followers on here (👋 💞) that I think it is worth a little thread on how I relate to social media and online conversations & try to cultivate community

  1. I am a person, not an object. I have personal thoughts, feelings, experiences, a family, & a life. Angry interactions from strangers & esp those interested in exploiting me as An Example Of Some Battle of Yours are dehumanizing & will get blocked (e.g.: "this is why those Ex Twitter people should be banned by default")
benjamincox,
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@grimalkina To be fair, we have had plenty of PMs recently so I wouldn’t blame them for not knowing. Frankly, I’m almost jealous. 🫤

benjamincox, to BBC
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Listening to the 1800 Seconds On Autism podcast from the , which is far less dry than a number of other podcasts on the subject I've tried. Can recommend for any people looking for an informal chat about their ND-ness.

benjamincox, to HashtagGames
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You’ve got to know when to hold ‘em, know when to fold ‘em…

grammargirl, to random
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We're the best!!! Grammar Girl just made the Writer's Digest list of 101 Best Websites for Writers! 🎉🎉🎉

We've been on the list before for the website, but this year is special because it's the first time we're on the list for the PODCAST. (Yes, the list of websites has a category for podcasts and YouTube channels.)

It means so much to me to know that people love and appreciate the show. Thank you to Writer's Digest and to all the people who listen! 1/2

benjamincox,
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@grammargirl @novelx456 Congratulations!

purplepadma, to random
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Went to the pub with Tom and a close friend. I felt quite normal and was able to engage in the conversation well. Heaps better than this morning. We were all annoyed though by the shrieking cackling women at the next table. My tolerance for drunken noise has greatly diminished since I gave up alcohol myself. Getting ready to go upstairs and read my book in bed now. Thank you to everyone who’s been so lovely today. Wishing you all a pleasant evening/goodnight

benjamincox,
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@purplepadma Sending you strength, positive vibes and support. Hope you have a great day tomorrow. 👊🏻

benjamincox, to HashtagGames
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The Golden Ghosts 👻

Skepticat, to random
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🕊RIP my sweet niece 💔

benjamincox,
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@Skepticat Sorry to hear this. You & your family have my sympathies. 😔

benjamincox, to HashtagGames
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Goldilocks, Stock And Two Smoking Barrels

purplepadma, to random
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Just cried to my psychiatrist for 1/2 an hour. He says that he thinks there is something more than just bipolar going on for me to be having such significant mood shifts within a day. IDK, it’s happened before. He was concerned by how much I have deteriorated since we last spoke.

I told him that living on this rollercoaster is untenable, and that although I don’t have any active plans to end my life, I feel that I can’t be expected to live like this. I’m in a hopeless place right now. He agrees I need more support and is going to raise my case in the community MH team’s multidisciplinary team meeting and with psychological therapies. I told him I really miss having a CPN/therapist to check in with/offload to. He doesn’t want to tweak my meds but will get me some more diazepam. He was sorry to hear my condition, I’m usually so stable when we speak.

benjamincox,
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@purplepadma Glad to hear they’re taking you seriously. Just look after yourself and if you wanna talk, I’m here for you.

JeremyMallin, to actuallyautistic
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As someone who is actually autistic, should I use the ActuallyAutistic hashtag every time I talk about autism, or only sometimes, for more serious philosophical posts about autism? Or maybe only for my own personal experiences as someone who is autistic?

What do you do?

@actuallyautistic

benjamincox,
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@JeremyMallin @actuallyautistic I’m wary about using the hashtag as I have had negative comments, which aren’t good for me. ☹️

mraharrison, to actuallyautistic
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@actuallyautistic Hi all adults over 40, who were late diagnosed like me to share experiences. What's the best thing you did once you knew?

benjamincox,
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@mraharrison @actuallyautistic Once I figure this out, I’ll let you know. 🫤

usluck, to OldSchoolCool
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benjamincox,
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@usluck @silentbeauties I had no idea Snoopy was voiced by Joseph Stalin! 😱

benjamincox, to random
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I don’t think my manager has had his coffee this morning…

benjamincox, to random
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Is it normal to be wide awake at 1am, mentally drafting the hatchet job you’re going to write later when you review Ghost Rider: Spirit of Vengeance? Especially when you’re up super early for work later this morning?

Asking for a friend… 🤔

RickiTarr, to random
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Important Question: Why is this image so overtly sexual?

benjamincox,
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@RickiTarr You know that finger has been places. 😳 Also, why is ET wearing George Lucas’ shirt? 🤔

benjamincox, to random
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Queen - Bohemian Rhapsody

Bon Jovi - Living On A Prayer

Scouting For Girls - She’s So Lovely

The Feeling- Fill My Little World

Elton John - Crocodile Rock

Please don’t come at me! 😬

orci, to random
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There was a really loud frog outside my bedroom window. Turns out he was drowning in the pool. Don’t worry. He was rescued.

benjamincox,
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@orci That frog sounds like my spirit animal. 🫤

skaly, (edited ) to random
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Hi beautiful people. Today I did my audition to Berklee. I hope I get it but more than that I hope to get a scholarship as I can't afford the tuition fees. I know it's not likely, such a scholarship is rare and I didn't perform as well as I wanted to if the past few months weren't as heavily challenging as they were since the massacre. I did what I could and hope for the best. Whatsoever in the meantime I'm gonna put my focus back on both projects and jewellery making. More coming soon ❤️

benjamincox,
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@skaly Keeping fingers crossed for you! 🤞

Alice, to random
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The worst thing about having a birthday the day after Cinco de Mayo is that everybody is always like "Here's a present for both Cinco de Mayo AND your birthday."

benjamincox,
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@Alice Happy birthday! I’m all out of edibles though, sorry! 🥳

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