@malcircuit@thingy.social
@malcircuit@thingy.social avatar

malcircuit

@malcircuit@thingy.social

Fledgling trans girl that likes to talk nerdy, perform tech wizardry, do mad science, post occasional anti-capitalist and climate-rage induced rants, and show off her latest Lego builds. There will be selfies.

Swears like a sailor, so you best be okay with that.

My views are my own and are likely wrong.

This profile is from a federated server and may be incomplete. Browse more on the original instance.

malcircuit, to random
@malcircuit@thingy.social avatar

@Tweetfiction @Terra

You have no control of how others think or feel. You do not owe them an explanation. An explanation implies that one is needed — that you have to justify yourself. There is nothing wrong with being trans, no need to justify anything. Either they accept you, or they don't, and that's completely up to them.

malcircuit, to random
@malcircuit@thingy.social avatar

It's always a good start to the day when you wake up from a dream that's so intense and pointed that you just start crying immediately 😭

malcircuit,
@malcircuit@thingy.social avatar

Want to be permanently obsessed with excellence and achievement, to your own detriment? Simply go back in time and fill your youth with feelings of intellectual inadequacy and failure.

Soon you too will be compelled to move to ever greater levels of "success" because nothing is ever "good enough" to fill the void in your soul

hazelweakly, to random
@hazelweakly@hachyderm.io avatar

For some reason I completely missed that this video came out and is a thing now

https://youtu.be/Y7S6wLP_vsY

And let me tell you, I am obsessed

Janelle Monáe's Lipstick Lover is the queer sexy bop I didn't even know I've been craving but damn

malcircuit,
@malcircuit@thingy.social avatar

@hazelweakly :blobcateyes: :blob_heart_eyes:

malcircuit, to random
@malcircuit@thingy.social avatar

Abi knocks it out of the park again

https://youtu.be/lSvKNNtkUSU

malcircuit, to random
@malcircuit@thingy.social avatar

A freshly-minted Mallory appears!

wren, to random
@wren@chaosfem.tw avatar

Okay here we go. I am weirdly very nervous and excited to see what happens, much more than even when I started hrt.

malcircuit,
@malcircuit@thingy.social avatar

@wren I'm sure you'll be fine. I hope it helps :QueerCatHeart_Trans:

Tweetfiction, to random

Well the good news is I'm a good candidate for facial hair removal. The bad news is the full guaranteed treatment is 3900 dollars! I can afford it, but then I think about how that could be payments towards a car or things we need for the house. It just makes me feel like such a burden.

malcircuit,
@malcircuit@thingy.social avatar

@Tweetfiction

You aren't a burden! Yeah, you could spend money on something else, but is that something else going to make you feel as good as getting rid of your facial hair? Don't be afraid to do something for yourself. You're worth it :QueerCatHeart_Trans:

neil, to internet

I appreciate that this is going to upset some people, and I thought I was too shy to say it, but I prefer over :

Here's why:

https://neilzone.co.uk/bluesky_over_mastodon.html

malcircuit,
@malcircuit@thingy.social avatar

@neil You make some very compelling points :blobthinkingcool:

malcircuit, to random
@malcircuit@thingy.social avatar

Are you trans? Are you looking for a new job? DM me your resume and I'll review it and offer any tips on what I see.

I'm not an expert, but I want to help my friends get the best job they can :trans_heart:

malcircuit, to random
@malcircuit@thingy.social avatar

Employee, to HR: Hey, I'm having a mental health thing right now and it's interfering with my job. I already have a doc and therapist that are helping me. I'm literally doing everything I can on my end to get past this. Is there any other options to help mitigate the impact to my job (i.e., ways to help heal without getting fired)?

HR: Check out our EAP website! It's super helpful!

EAP website: Have you tried eating healthier and exercising? Ever heard of this great thing called "mindfulness"?

malcircuit, to random
@malcircuit@thingy.social avatar

There's a lot about me that has changed about me in 5 years (2 years HRT), but one thing that hasn't is that I still like blue 💙

malcircuit, to random
@malcircuit@thingy.social avatar

Okay, so Top Gun: Maverick is actually pretty epic

malcircuit,
@malcircuit@thingy.social avatar

I just realized that calling something "epic" probably instantly identifies me as a millenial lol :blobsweat:

TheLetterTen, to random

I purchased this pin specifically for Pride. I will admit that my name is unusual and makes people think they misheard me when they ask me for my name.

What do YOU think of my first name?

malcircuit,
@malcircuit@thingy.social avatar

@TheLetterTen 10/10 would recommend

malcircuit, to random
@malcircuit@thingy.social avatar

I've been struggling with this myself, so I thought I'd repeat it for other people that might be dealing with the same thing:

Not every hobby needs to be a project. Not everything needs to be a whole thing with a goal and an endpoint. It's okay to not finish something. It's okay to pick up something for a bit, explore it, start making something, and then drop it without making any "progress".

Productivity is capitalist bullshit that doesn't need to infect your free time too. Have some fun

malcircuit, to TransJoy
@malcircuit@thingy.social avatar

Being trans is:

The joy of looking in the mirror and seeing yourself for the first time in your life.

The joy of having clothing that you genuinely enjoy wearing for the first time in your life.

The joy of having your sexuality align with your body for the first time in your life.

The joy of letting parts of yourself shine that you have hidden or minimized for your entire life.

malcircuit, to TransJoy
@malcircuit@thingy.social avatar
  • All
  • Subscribed
  • Moderated
  • Favorites
  • JUstTest
  • cisconetworking
  • thenastyranch
  • GTA5RPClips
  • everett
  • Durango
  • rosin
  • InstantRegret
  • DreamBathrooms
  • magazineikmin
  • Youngstown
  • mdbf
  • slotface
  • ethstaker
  • megavids
  • kavyap
  • normalnudes
  • modclub
  • cubers
  • ngwrru68w68
  • khanakhh
  • tacticalgear
  • tester
  • provamag3
  • Leos
  • osvaldo12
  • anitta
  • lostlight
  • All magazines