Thing is, people should also be able to join beehaw.org or other Lemmy or Kbin based sites and have basically the same experience with the same content. And they should be encouraged to do so, because having everyone on one server is unnecessary, likd of awful for the server admin, and also kind of generally bad for the ecosystem as a whole.
But once you tell people that, they start asking questions about how that's possible, and, well...