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Susan60

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Lifelong learner, leftie, AuADHD, Bunurong country, Australia. She/her. Won’t boost photos without alt txt (unless I forget!).

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augieray, to random
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Take advantage of every opportunity to socialize safely. On a gorgeous (but windy) 80-degree day in Milwaukee, we dined in an empty restaurant next to open window ( 2:30 pm lunch with CO2 at 500), had cocktails in a bar with open garage doors (CO2 450), and enjoyed an electric cello concert outdoors at a bar. There's never zero #COVID19 risk, but I believe I can effectively minimize risks with smart decisions.

Susan60,
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@augieray

Years ago someone said that the problem with taking the middle ground is that you get shot at by both sides. 😏

dave, to actuallyautistic
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@actuallyautistic Saw this at the pharmacy and picked it up... curious to see what it says.

Susan60,
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@dyani @dave @actuallyautistic

Or the marketing department.

bojacobs, to histodons
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Chernobyl, 38 years ago today.

Human "bio-robots" had to make homemade lead lined suits to then spend 40 seconds to 2 minutes on the roof of reactor #3 shoveling bits of the reactor core into the hole where reactor #4 used to be. 3,500 people did this task.

@histodons @sts

video/mp4

Susan60,
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@bojacobs @histodons @sts

How many of those people have died of radiation related causes?

Susan60, to actuallyautistic
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What do people read?

I was an avid reader of fiction when I was a child. Novels about challenging issues or strange fantasy worlds. In many ways reading was an escape to a safe place, but those books were also places where I could learn about how “people” worked. How they thought, felt & behaved. The diversity in those things.

I loved The Little Princess and The Secret Garden, by Frances Hodgson Burnett, because they were about children who were different & how they coped. I loved The Chronicles of Narnia because, although quite dated now, the girls had real adventures alongside their brothers. There was a series of books about witches, good & bad, which I loved but can’t remember the titles or author.

I loved Ivan Southall’s books, where tweens & teens faced dangers, often without the support of adults. (Marsden’s Tomorrow when the War Began is reminiscent of Southall.)

And as an adult, I still like youth & YA fiction, probably for the same reason, because I’m still learning how humans work. I also like adult fiction, but the naivety of youth fiction appeals.

And TBO, I read much more non-fiction than fiction nowadays. Obviously there’s the Autism & ADHD stuff that is currently dominating my reading, but also social commentaries of all sorts, by feminists, sociologists, etc.

@actuallyautistic

Susan60,
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@feather1952 @actuallyautistic

Ooh yes, liked those too. And yes, I’ve had a few delves into nutrition, fermenting etc.

Susan60,
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@pathfinder @actuallyautistic
I was burnt out after I finished high school, & barely read a book or newspaper for a year. This has happened a few times. Some sci-fi is incredibly dark & depressing. I think this is why I’ve liked youth & YA. Serious subjects sometimes, but with more hope.

Susan60,
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@stevenray @actuallyautistic

As a history student & teacher, I’ve always read lots of NF, & historical fiction appeals too, (not romance!)

Susan60,
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@ginsterbusch @actuallyautistic

Fair enough. For me, it’s more about understanding people. Biographies, history, politics…

Susan60,
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@ginsterbusch @actuallyautistic
My oldest is writing fantasy & I do some proof reading for them. My partner is nuts on fantasy & some sci fi. I got lazy & just read from his collection, but I think I overdosed.

Susan60,
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@pathfinder @actuallyautistic
😁I haven’t actually read any. I know! My oldest loves Pratchett but my partner is ambivalent. I’ve been meaning to read Good Omens for ages because I loved the tv show. (The fact that I love Tennant & Sheen didn’t hurt. Also loved Staged.)

Susan60,
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@pathfinder @actuallyautistic

I’ve read quite a bit of fantasy over the years. Wheel of Time, Kate Elliott, Robin Hobbs, David Eddings, Guy Gabriel Kay, Charles de Lint… mostly off my partner’s shelves. It’s on my list!

Susan60,
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@ginsterbusch @actuallyautistic

I guess you could say that history & politics are among my special interests.

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@pathfinder @actuallyautistic

This is the first in the trilogy self published by my oldest. I read the 2nd when I did a grammar edit, but haven’t seen the 3rd yet. 2 & 3 are available as e-books, but I prefer to drop a hard copy into the bath.

Susan60,
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@pathfinder @actuallyautistic

Editing on a computer was a drag. Give me paper & a red pen any day.

I liked it, but I am biased. The non-binary grammar is a little challenging at first, but you get used to it.

Susan60,
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@pathfinder @ginsterbusch @actuallyautistic

I will! I promise! Reading this right now.

Susan60,
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@Uair @actuallyautistic

Depends on whether she’s merely a love interest. Female characters whose presence is defined solely by their relationship to the males in the story, & not by who they are & what they do/think/feel independently of the men, are an enormous source of aggravation.

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@ketmorco @actuallyautistic
Sounds like something I’d give to my nieces. Not that they need any encouragement to break gender traditions. 😁

Susan60,
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@pathfinder @actuallyautistic

Us I particularly like them. Their work is a bit different from “quest” fantasy.

Susan60,
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@pathfinder @actuallyautistic

Yes… the idea of getting around a corner & seeing something or someone wondrous. I loved the scenes in Narnia tales where the Pevensies transitioned from our world to the other. And Kay’s characters are real people I can imagine & relate to.

VeroniqueB99, to random
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My problem exactly. You can't teach empathy to a full grown adult...simply by saying 'you should care about others'.

Susan60,
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@VeroniqueB99

I saw a tv show years ago where an asylum seeker, a POC, went & spent a night or a few in the home of a white woman who opposed accepting refugees. She wasn’t openly bigoted or hateful, just very much that it wasn’t our problem & was problematic. She didn’t object to him personally.

Then she went & stayed in his home. She picked up a collection of stories by refugees, detailing their experiences. At the end of one of them, a traumatic tale, she realised that he was the writer. She broke down, & was overwhelmed by grief & guilt about her ignorance & resultant lack of empathy.

The fact that she was open to participating in this program says something about her willingness to try & learn new things, which definitely isn’t typical. But it suggests that a few at least can be won over.

timrichards, (edited ) to melbourne
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Oh dear, she's started drinking cappuccinos. Exile from the inner-city is the logical next step.

I live in Brunswick East and drink flat whites. Now I’m engaged in a sordid affair

(maybe paywalled) https://www.theage.com.au/lifestyle/health-and-wellness/i-live-in-brunswick-east-and-drink-flat-whites-now-i-m-engaged-in-a-sordid-affair-20240424-p5fm9m.html

Susan60,
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@timrichards
People still drink cappuccinos?

dramypsyd, to actuallyautistic
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Hello @actuallyautistic friends! My next article is about managing autistic meltdowns: how autistic people can manage our meltdowns safely, and affirming ways our loved ones can support us.) If you're comfortable, please drop quotes here, and indicate how I should refer to you in the piece if I use your quote. You can also drop them on my contact form (resiliencymentalhealth.com/contact/) if you want to share but prefer not to post it on the internet connected to your account.

Susan60,
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@pathfinder @dramypsyd @actuallyautistic

That must’ve been doubly frightening.

Susan60,
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@pathfinder @dramypsyd @actuallyautistic

Shut down, disassociate…

dyani, to actuallyautistic
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Hmm is this an ND thing?

Ever since I can remember, I have strongly disliked pranks and have been against humor at the expense of someone else (making fun of them).

I know nice NT people also feel this way but I've felt this strongly since a very young age. Anyone else?

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Susan60,
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@alexisbushnell @dyani @actuallyautistic

Some people, especially children, think that being funny is all about being mean.

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@homelessjun @alexisbushnell @dyani @actuallyautistic
Oooh, I remember the name, but yes, there was so much really nasty “comedy” around.

timrichards, to random
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The big price rises at cafes and restaurants are helping me save money, because there are red lines I will not cross.

Eg I'm not paying more than $15 for a sandwich or $25 for a pub/cafe main. And I'm definitely not paying double figures for a slice of cake! Jesus.

Pubs and bars are getting a bit cheeky with pricing zero-alcohol beers too. I don't mind $9-$10 for a Heaps Normal, but no way am I paying $12. It's soft drink after all, get real.

#CostOfLiving

Susan60,
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@timrichards

Oh definitely, but I’ve never had much soft drink. It was always too hard to get something that wasn’t too sweet, although that’s changing now.

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