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msquebanh, (edited ) to random
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We had the entire patio to ourselves ๐Ÿ™‚
At Brown's Social in downtown with my friend, Natalie. She's a horticulturalist, living in Deep Cove. We had some eats & drinks before going across street for PechaKucha Night VOL. 20.

They played tunes, the whole time we were there. We lucked out on getting street parking, one block away. Then lucked out on empty patio, on arrival. We had our own fire table ๐Ÿฅฐ

toridas_,
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@msquebanh I hope it doesn't come across the wrong way but, you're really pretty

msquebanh, to Flowers
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toridas_,
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@msquebanh I wish I knew of native plants that are natural aphid controllers that I can grow in my garden. Aphids are such a nuisance.

nathanlovestrees, (edited ) to random
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1/6 โ€œAnimacy is an overdetermined word, but so is the idea of the Divine Feminine. The reason I have begun to shy away from the Divine Feminine and the Sacred Masculine is their unfortunate identification with gender and, more importantly, their overidentification with humans and their myopic classifications generally. Animacy is plushier. Springier. More mosslike. It seems a soft spot to rest on while I try to understand and explain how very sentient the world is to me these days.

toridas_,
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@nathanlovestrees yes to all of this AND I'm dropping all my other reads to go read Sophie Strand

geraineon, to random
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In case anyone's interested, there's an article about MDZS in Strange Horizons:

http://strangehorizons.com/non-fiction/feminising-culture-in-the-grandmaster-of-demonic-cultivation/

(No, I haven't read it yet. I was looking for something else and found this, but given the popularity of MDZS, maybe other ppl will be interested, also this serves as a bookmark for myself)

toridas_,
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@villainousfriend @geraineon @Forestofglory imo SH pushes the boundaries of BIPOC SFF writing and thought in a way that not a lot of other publications do all the time

liztai, to television
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Very few horror movies scare me.

This scared the shit out of me โ˜ ๏ธ

toridas_,
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@liztai YouTube has been recommending the trailer to me but I'm too scared.

skinnylatte, to random
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I havenโ€™t encountered a single vegetable-centered dish at any of the Thai, Japanese, Malaysian restaurants Iโ€™ve visited in LA. It is possible to eat differently from the rest of the world (re a conversation a few days ago about always having to order veggies)

(To be clear, I agree everyone should eat veggies if they want! But also that, there are many cuisines which simply arenโ€™t vegetable-centered)

(I had a very large raw papaya salad, lots of fiber but also enough chilli to kill a bear)

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toridas_,
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@skinnylatte they were all probably white, too, were they?

toridas_,
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@skinnylatte yikes, that's like, the definition of eco-fascist

toridas_,
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@skinnylatte absolutely

skinnylatte, to random
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A topic I know too much about: โ€˜typography and brand identity of apocalyptic evangelical Pentecostal and charismatic churchesโ€™

(Seen in Oakland)

toridas_,
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@skinnylatte have you seen Midnight Mass?

msquebanh, to random
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I will be starting to create home #exercise vids for fellow #PhysicallyDisabledFolks, starting this month. Exercises will be as #inclusive & #accessible as possible.

Several of them will be done in a chair. Some standing & others are laying down. I don't see many exercise vids made by & for #disabled folks available online. I got frustrated, trying to find exercise vids, made by fellow disabled folks.

So, I'm going to stop complaining about lack of them. I'll start to create them, myself.

toridas_,
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@msquebanh wonderful, looking forward to them! Us disableds gotta look out for each other โœŠ๐Ÿฝ

toridas_, to random
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Does anyone use handmade personalised calendars? I don't know if that's a thing, but I'm throwing this out hoping that it'll find someone who knows this stuff. I'm not talking about a bullet journal, just a calendar, but a layered one, with all sorts of stuff that one might find useful and interesting on a daily basis, stuff varying from person to person, and handmade (that can be hand sorted and illustrated or designed and printed).

Deus, to nature
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If you've ever wondered how a plantation looks like. The tree with the smallest girth will fetch roughly โ‚น10k or $120.

People are constantly advised not to plant them but who can control human greed, it always takes over. Nothing but the teak grows in these plantations - no birds nor rats, insects, or snakes. Depressing to be honest.

toridas_,
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@Deus but don't the teak trees themselves attract any wildlife? Not contradicting, just asking.

toridas_,
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@Deus That's honestly terrifying.

qurlyjoe, to random
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toridas_,
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@qurlyjoe omg babies!

skinnylatte, (edited ) to food
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Mango season is coming. Here's my short S Asian mango primer, and some ideas on where to buy them (I'm only focused on the ones you can buy outside S Asia, so if you're like 'the type that drops in my grandma's garden in the Konkan coast is the best', great, keep some for me)

https://buttondown.email/skinnylatte/archive/mango-madness/

toridas_,
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@skinnylatte a lot of Bengalis (myself included) will drop everything for a succulent Himsagar mango. But people are saying the harvest will be small this year because mangoes fruit best in alternate years, and last year had been a good mango year ๐Ÿ˜ž The only mango that comes anywhere close to Himsagar is the Dussehri.

toridas_,
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@skinnylatte do drop by West Bengal as well, and let me know if you do!

toridas_, to random
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Today for I:

๐Ÿ€ made เฆฒเง‡เฆฌเงเฆฐ เฆถเฆฐเฆฌเฆค for myself and BFFs (they've never had it with tulsi before)
๐Ÿฆ‹ helped a black and white butterfly trapped in my home escape into the garden on the back of my black umbrella patterned with pink roses and green leaves
๐ŸŒฟ a bundle of fresh jute leaves BFF#2 bought me that I can make a soup of, with one perfect yellow flower
๐Ÿชฎ got a pair of wood combs that I'd bought myself for Pรดyla Boishakh (great scalpfeel)

Closeup of very soft and green jute leaves, one leaf among them with noticeable tears in it, with one dainty little yellow flower blooming on the green stalk.
Against a background of yellow walls, black granite counter and shelves, a bit of window and bicycle, a brown hand (mine) with short squarely rounded nails holding a pair of wood combs. They're shortish but hefty. One is a wide-toothed "post-shampoo detangler" and the other is a fine-toothed "styling comb". The combs have got a company brand carved on them.

msquebanh, to random
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Almost every live hip-hop show I worked at (was nightclub DJ) - felt so unsafe! Seriously, male DJs got more protections & those fuckers never needed extra guards! It was me & fellow female DJs who got fucked over too many times!

toridas_,
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@msquebanh way to go โœŠ๐Ÿฝ

mehluv, to random
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whatsapp's new update made the whole thing so fucking ugly man, do they actively want to discourage people from using it

toridas_,
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@AmbaAzaad @mehluv I opened the app and my eyes hurt. Took me a minute to realise why ๐Ÿ˜‘

toridas_, to magASEAN
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After two glasses of limeade with added sprigs of fresh tulsi in twelve hours, and prayers to those who listen (my pain medication alone doesn't do much anymore), my fatigue and chronic pain is much more within control today ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ So I've been able to cook lunch again! after over a week!! I wanted to cook dinner in advance and clean as well, but the only work I've got any spoons left for is cleaning the kitchen.

Figures that today is an auspicious day ๐ŸŒ’โœจ

Deus, to food
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Since it's the season, decided to whip up a 'tauh' of Chakawk (Diplazium esculentum). In English, 'Tauh' would simply be 'salad'. in alt text.

Tidbit: The ferns we get in these parts are not carcinogenic as opposed to the ones consumed/found in Korea, Japan, and other other countries (e.g. Bracken fern and Fiddlehead fern). There are about 10500 species of ferns. Found it interesting when I first heard about it so felt like sharing.

toridas_,
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@Deus wait, if bracken is carcinogenic, how come they continue to eat it over at Korea or Japan?

skinnylatte, to SanFrancisco
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there's a restaurant in my neighborhood that blasts obnoxious anti-homeless sounds. the goal i think is to repel homeless people from loitering, but i think they've ended up repelling any guests (it's so loud you can't stop hearing it from the seated parts of the restaurant)

looking forward to hearing them whine about how it's the bike lanes or the anti-car measures that have led to their demise, soon

toridas_,
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@skinnylatte there's anti-homeless sound, too??

skinnylatte, to food
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As someone whose home food is mostly coastal southern Chinese food, steaming is one of the cooking techniques Iโ€™m most familiar with. I feel I can steam anything (fish, meat, vegetables, tofu, eggs, even breads and dessert) and I donโ€™t think of that food as โ€˜plainโ€™.

Thinking Iโ€™d like to write about this. What would you like to learn about steaming food?

toridas_,
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@skinnylatte I'd like to read more about steaming fish! Over here the simplest version of a chicken curry that can be eaten in summer is chicken marinaded in ginger, onion, garlic, oil, salt, turmeric, and lime/yoghurt, and steamed with plenty of water in a pressure cooker. But I don't hear much about steamed fish that's as simple. Usually steamed fish recipes have a lot of mustard and poppy seed paste going in as well, and eating that much mustard in the summer is, um, not great for everyone.

skinnylatte, to random
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EARTHQUAKE

toridas_,
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@skinnylatte again? this is like, 3 earthquakes across the globe in a week. are you okay?

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