@kelidanovus@hachyderm.io
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kelidanovus

@kelidanovus@hachyderm.io

🏳️‍⚧️She/her

If we're going to be damned, let's be damned for what we really are. - Jean-Luc Picard

Get busy living or get busy dying. That's goddamn right. - Ellis “Red” Redding

That is the exploration that awaits you. Not mapping stars and studying nebula, but charting the unknown possibilities of existence. - Q

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kelidanovus, to random
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Ewwphoria: accused of “too much emotion” in a daily scrum. 🙄

Impossible_PhD, to random
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So I'm pitching a talk about Stained Glass Woman for a major conference next year.

In the Queer Caucus' featured panel.

Wish me luck!

kelidanovus,
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@Impossible_PhD Good luck!

Impossible_PhD, to random
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I was seasoning my new corset today and accidentally created A Look that I will ABSOLUTELY be reproducing.

kelidanovus,
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@Impossible_PhD I swoon seriously! 😍

@OftOverthinking

kelidanovus, to trans
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Entering my hot girl era 20 years late is infinitely better than never.

Impossible_PhD, to random
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I grabbed lunch with a friend and she snapped a casual shot of me. When I asked why, she showed me the shot. 🤭

kelidanovus,
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@Impossible_PhD Beautiful!

Impossible_PhD, to random
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It came with a typo, saying associate (which I already was) instead of full, but it came today.

I am officially a full professor!

Big day today, that's for sure!

kelidanovus,
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@Impossible_PhD Congratulations!!!

Impossible_PhD, to random
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Gosh, I can't even do butch without femming it up, can I?

kelidanovus,
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@Impossible_PhD You’re just drawn that way.

Impossible_PhD, to random
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Well, it's been two months.

Looks like my novel didn't make it with Bindery Books. 😢

kelidanovus,
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@Impossible_PhD Sorry to hear that. I hope it finds a different route to success some day. 💜

Impossible_PhD, to random
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I absolutely love what my body does to this top. 🤭

kelidanovus,
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@Impossible_PhD Oh that shirt was absolutely made for you! 😆

DivineKestrel, to random
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Me: I'm so sick of this i'm three months post surgery why do I have so much wound separation and pain?!

Also me: Look at this pretty flagstone walkway I laid last weekend with an ajoining stone-walled succulent garden. I didn't want to rent a Bobcat so those two large 600 pound boulders I had to roll into position and stand up by hand.

kelidanovus,
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@DivineKestrel Terra! I swear we need someone to handcuff you to your bed.

Impossible_PhD, to nonbinary
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One of the scariest parts of coming out is coming out at work. Unlike your family--blood or chosen--work is just a bunch of people who get thrown together, mishmash, and have to make things work out.

This week on #StainedGlassWoman, it's a guide to give to your coworkers when they get that wide-eyed look and think "Oh, s#!t, my coworker just told me they're trans." At least, it should keep people from asking what's in your goddamned pants.

#FtM #MtF #Nonbinary #Trans

https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/p/oh-st-my-coworker-just-told-me-theyre

kelidanovus,
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@Dani “increasingly implausible boymode” is such a mood. I remember staring at a boy-mode selfie shortly before I came out at work and thinking, “Girl… who do you think you’re fooling?”

@Impossible_PhD

Impossible_PhD, to random
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Transition: the more things change, the more things stay the same. 🤭

kelidanovus,
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@Impossible_PhD You look beautiful as always, but also it strikes me how at peace you are in this shot. Like there’s just no tension whatsoever apparent. All is right with the world. 💜

kelidanovus,
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@Impossible_PhD I know exactly what you mean. 💜

kelidanovus, to trans
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It’s unseasonably warm so I broke out a summer dress while it lasts. Not going to lie: I’m feeling kind of pretty today.

Impossible_PhD, to random
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...wow.

I was driving into work and saw a car with a license plate that read "Mice T."

Way to live your life out loud, friend! That there's some confidence, but I guess it's not like anyone can call you on it without admitting that they know the game too.

kelidanovus,
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@Impossible_PhD OK, I’m clueless. What does that mean?

kelidanovus,
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@Impossible_PhD Ah thank you. 😊

kelidanovus, to random
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TFW you only realize your pajamas are inside out because the Starfleet insignia is on the wrong boob. 🫣

kelidanovus, to random
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Ugh. My white blood cell count was high during my pre-surgery clearance exam two weeks ago. Doctor had me re-blood draw today and it’s still high. If this screws up my surgery, I’m absolutely gonna scream.

I had pink eye during the week between the blood draws. My kids, like all kids, are germ favorites. Not sure if that’s related. I was asymptomatic the days of both tests.

kelidanovus,
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So the doctor waits two days to call me back, finally does so after 5 o’clock on a Friday from a number I’ve never seen before, and when I call back, he’s already gone for the weekend. Like I needed this stress for the rest of the weekend. 🤦‍♀️

kelidanovus, to trans
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Every morning that I get up and see Her in the mirror is a gift. It’s never too late.

kelidanovus, to random
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So bottom dysphoria actually increases as you approach bottom surgery? It seems that a lifelong coping strategy of repression and numbness doesn’t work all that well once some actual hope creeps in.

kelidanovus,
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@DivineKestrel I remember you talking about it. At the time I couldn’t grok but now…

kelidanovus, to trans
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People like to give folks shit for going overboard with their gender exploration, but I’d argue that we’re owed. Every day, month, and year that we hid away in the closet the universe accrued a debt to us. Time to pay up. Compound interest is a bitch.

And now so am I… 😘

Willow, to random
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Weird HRT question: does anyone else have less eyelid crease? I feel like I have slightly more lip and slightly less eyelid crease than last summer.

kelidanovus,
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@Willow Oh yeah and it gets even better with time. I submit exhibit A for the court’s consideration. HRT is bonkers.

kelidanovus, to trans
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Every morning I look into the bathroom mirror and find a girl looking back at me. It’s somehow wildly surprising and the most natural thing in the world all at once.

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