kelidanovus

kelidanovus, 1 year ago to random

If you want to be a girl you can be a girl.

If you want to be a dude you can be a dude.

If you want to be neither you can be neither.

You’re allowed. Fuck anybody who tries to tell you otherwise.

kelidanovus, 6 months ago to trans

“Most changes are done after the first 1-2 years.”

Uh huh. Tell me another.

Just keep swimming. 😘

#Trans #TransJoy #TransTimeline

kelidanovus, 7 months ago to random

There is no feeling quite so wild as pushing to production after hours and then immediately clocking out for PTO.

kelidanovus, 6 months ago to random

People watching at Disney World has taught me one thing on the very first day: my hair is not nearly gay enough.

kelidanovus, 3 months ago to random

When you find your people hold on to them like your life depends on it. Because it very well might.

kelidanovus, 3 months ago to random

Early #transition is a procession of profoundly uncomfortable experiences. Every step, no matter how small, feels laden with terrible consequence.

The first times I went out in public presenting as myself I had to fight a nearly overwhelming urge to run home and hide. My imagination was on overdrive conjuring up nightmare scenarios. It was terrifying.

But we power through. We find reserves of strength we didn’t know we had, and it gets better.

Keep the faith. You’ll get where you need to be.

kelidanovus, 6 months ago to random

Modern computers: connecting us in a globe encircling mesh of high speed communications enabling heretofore unimaginable leaps in productivity, entertainment, and commerce.

Also modern computers: wasting 3 days of my time with cryptic error messages because I used a dash instead of an underscore.

kelidanovus, 6 months ago to TransJoy

Just take the hormones babe. I swear you won’t regret it.

#TransTimeline #TransJoy #Selfie

kelidanovus, 6 months ago to trans

A tale of four Thanksgiving’s with more to be thankful for with each passing year. Finally starting to feel like I’m getting the hang of this thing.

#Trans #transitionTimeline #thanksgiving

kelidanovus, 5 months ago to random

Dysphoria often has little to nothing to do with our actual appearance. It’s a warped self-perception filter, and it’s entirely possible to intellectually know you look great while simultaneously fighting desperately against a part of the brain that insists you are everything you’ve always feared.

kelidanovus, 4 months ago to random

Words for the year ahead borrowed from one long since passed…

“The world is indeed full of peril, and in it there are many dark places; but still there is much that is fair, and though in all lands love is now mingled with grief, it grows perhaps the greater…

Do not trouble your hearts overmuch with thought of the road tonight. Maybe the paths that you each shall tread are already laid before your feet, though you do not see them.”

-J.R.R. Tolkien

kelidanovus, 4 months ago to random

Living as yourself is not selfish. It’s a fundamental need. Damn anyone who would try to deny you that.

kelidanovus, 1 year ago to random

Trans women early in your transitions: when you look in the mirror consider that you’re seeing the equivalent of a 10-12 year old cis girl. Give yourself all the time and grace to grow up that you would naturally afford her. Judging yourself against grown women is cruel and unfair.

kelidanovus, 3 months ago to trans

How will you know? You won’t. That’s all it is. A leap of faith.

#Trans #TransTimelime #TransJoy

kelidanovus, 10 months ago to random

Become the girl that you would have been too scared to speak to in high school.

#TransGoals

kelidanovus, 3 months ago to trans

Trialing some new #CurlyHair products today. I’d call this a tentative success?

#trans #selfie

kelidanovus, 3 months ago to Nails

Winter #nails can still be pretty nails. 💅

kelidanovus, 2 months ago to trans

People like to give #trans folks shit for going overboard with their gender exploration, but I’d argue that we’re owed. Every day, month, and year that we hid away in the closet the universe accrued a debt to us. Time to pay up. Compound interest is a bitch.

And now so am I… 😘

kelidanovus, 3 months ago to trans

Every morning I look into the bathroom mirror and find a girl looking back at me. It’s somehow wildly surprising and the most natural thing in the world all at once.

#trans #TransJoy

kelidanovus, 2 months ago to trans

Every morning that I get up and see Her in the mirror is a gift. It’s never too late.

#trans #selfie #TransJoy

kelidanovus, 25 days ago to trans

Entering my hot girl era 20 years late is infinitely better than never.

#trans #transjoy #selfie

kelidanovus, 1 month ago to random

TFW you only realize your pajamas are inside out because the Starfleet insignia is on the wrong boob. 🫣

kelidanovus, 6 days ago to random

Learned from a Jewish friend yesterday that there’s an argument to be made that what was taken from Adam to make Eve is not accurately translated as a “rib”, but rather “side” or “aspect”.

So that would mean God took the feminine from Adam to make Eve, leaving behind the masculine.

Working backwards then, if Adam was originally made in the image of God and encompassed both masculine and feminine, God is enby, and by embracing both we can draw nearer to the divine.

kelidanovus, 6 days ago to random

Witness protection ain’t got nothing on the transition timelines of my friends.

Willow, 2 months ago to random

Weird HRT question: does anyone else have less eyelid crease? I feel like I have slightly more lip and slightly less eyelid crease than last summer.