fluffypaws

fluffypaws, 3 months ago to random

radical idea but hrt should not be gatekept by cis people

fluffypaws, 3 months ago to random

i hate you "click now to sync contacts". i hate you "sign in with facebook". i hate you "connect with your twitter". i hate you targeted ads. i hate you social media algorithms. i hate you brands and mascots with accounts. i hate you "upgrade to premium". i hate you free trials that require credit card info. i hate you pop up ads that take up half the screen. i hate you ads with sound. i hate you unskippable commercials. i hate you anti-piracy firewalls. i hate you late stage capitalism.

fluffypaws, 3 months ago to random

you are allowed to exist alone in public btw. you're allowed to go to the movies alone and go out to eat alone and hang out in a park alone and go for a walk alone and whatever else. it isn't weird or creepy, it doesn't make you lonely or a loser or whatever. you are allowed to just exist as yourself.

fluffypaws, 3 months ago to random

tv writers will come up with vaguely weird & awkward mannerisms for a character and unwittingly craft exemplary autism representation, then try to write an explicitly autistic character and commit a hate crime

fluffypaws, 3 months ago to random

i bought a dog from the local blacksmith today. as soon as i got him home, he made a bolt for the door

fluffypaws, 3 months ago to random

ok so now that finnster's come out as genderfluid and started taking hrt, can we stop trying to force people to choose labels and define their identity? everyone's always talking about support for queer people with unconventional presentations and identities but when someone's not sure about what their gender identity actually is, they get criticized for it. finn said in his video that part of the reason why he took so long with coming out was because he wasn't sure what label actually applied to him (and he still isn't even sure if genderfluid feels like the right label for him) and the debate surrounding it was making him uncomfortable. which kind of sucks tbh.

fluffypaws, 3 months ago to random

i desire a trip to the aquarium, at the end of which i am permitted to pick one toy for my good behaviour

fluffypaws, 3 months ago to trans

gotta say i don't like how many "how to pass ftm" guides are straight up just like. be monotone and uninterested and don't engage in your "feminine" hobbies and don't wear bright colors and don't be polite and don't smile at people and don't show emotion ever. like how precisely is this a healthy thing to be teaching people (especially the young people these are often targeted at)??? i am a bubbly boy. a cheerful chap. a merry man. a good-humored guy. a glowing gent. a veritable ray of fucking sunshine and i am NOT toning that down!!!! fuck you!!!!!!!

#trans #transmasc #transmen

fluffypaws, 3 months ago to random

if someone's liberation upsets you, there is a good chance you were benefitting from their oppression

fluffypaws, 3 months ago to random

people who insist on buying food for homeless people so they “know where their moneys going” instead of just giving them money and the autonomy to spend it how they need it are not making it to heaven

fluffypaws, 3 months ago to random

replacing "i don't want to live" with "i don't want to live like this" was very helpful for me because it helped me figure out what parts of my life i was trying to escape and reminded me there are absolutely versions of myself i want to work towards and ways of living i haven't experienced yet that i want to see

fluffypaws, 3 months ago to random

cis people owe trans people $50 for every "omg you're SO brave and SO strong" comment

fluffypaws, 3 months ago to books

i've made a queer bookclub group on telegram! if you identify as lgbtqia+ and love books (especially those with queer themes or authors), then this is the place for you!

https://t.me/+q1uyhBILKZdjYzhl

#books #reading #bookstodon #queer @bookstodon

fluffypaws, 3 months ago to transmasc

hello fedisphere! :BhjFlag_Transgender: :BhjFlag_TransMasc: :BhjFlag_Polytricolor:

i'm joshie, your local thirty something #audhd #transmasc puppy boy ( he / him ) from brisbane / meanjin.

i'm #achillean, #mspec, & #polyamorous & live with my anchor partner, @JigglyWyvern. we have four cats & i will definitely post a lot of pictures of them. my other partner, @CyberSaloperie, lives in france :neofox_heart:

i love #gaming! some of my current favourite games are #minecraft #BaldursGate3, #PathOfTitans, #PaleoPines #ffxiv, #palia, & #spiritfarer. i'm primarily a steam / pc gamer, but i also have a switch. hmu if you wanna be steam / switch friends!

#therian ( golden retriever ) & #furry ( also golden retriever, plus a few others ). i bark a lot and sometimes i bite :3 i will be posting a lot of thoughts about being both therian & furry.

i read like most people breath, mostly #fantasy & #romance, or as i like to call it, #romantasy. i also read a lot of #queer books. i'm a queer romantasy writer myself, currently working on a novel about a transmasc werewolf & a non-binary vampire that start a polycule full of other supernatural creatures. you can find more about my writing on @fluffypawswrites.

i love all kinds of #art, & i've been trying to get into #knitting & #crocheting of late. i love #drawing & #painting, though i'm not very good at it, but i have fun anyway.

i'm known to be a #kinky lewdposter, however i try to keep to contained to my after dark account, [i will add the link once my ad account has been approved]. feel free to follow me there for more hornyposting.

this is not the first instance i've been on, so you have likely seen me around the fedisphere before, but i'm hoping this will be the last for a long time :Blobhaj_Love:

i'd love to make connections with other trans, queer, autistic, adhd, therian, furry etc folks, so please give this a boost so i can find my people :neofox_flag_trans:

#introduction #intro