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Cefr

@Cefr@beige.party

An allusion to my favorite RHCP song.
And pronounced the same way.
Image is a multicolored whorl of water.
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rootcompute, to random
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Adulthood is packing a bag with multiple electronic devices for a day trip and never touching any of them

Cefr,
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@rootcompute Can confirm.

Esp. the one time in a year I think it is needed and I am super eager to use it, when everyone else is like, "dude, it can wait for later, it's no big dea-- okay, fine." as I do it anyway.

StillIRise1963, to random
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Each non nazi white person needs to convert 5 white nazis.

Cefr,
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@StillIRise1963 Gotta say this: if someone else got them before you did, they don't count.

Otherwise every white person will claim "job's done" when exactly 5 former Trump supporters are bugged million of times to stop being racist.

theropologist, to random
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I know everyone hates AI and I get it, I really do. I'm not trying to diminish people's concerns. All I'm saying is I tried a month of Midjorney to see what all the fuss was about and I blew through my credits in two days generating pictures of people covered in spaghetti.

So perhaps this is a cautionary tale after all.

Cefr,
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@RickiTarr @theropologist Beige.party: Flying Spaghetti Monster Services and Mass Congregation at Sunrise every Sunday.

RickiTarr, to random
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It's so weird that we are all supposed to be ashamed for burping and farting. I deeply apologize to everyone for keeping my body from literally exploding, so uncouth.

Cefr,
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@RickiTarr I'll apologize for gas, that stinks.

Burps, belching and other mild forms of gastric distention, if someone gets miffed about that past a quick "excuse me", they are someone I don't want to break bread with ever again.

RickiTarr, to random
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Saw this in the bathroom of the Queer Friendly Coffee House:

Cefr,
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@RickiTarr @jwcph @done My former best friend and TERF adjacent (calling him feminist is a stretch, but definitely Trans Exclusionary) asshat I attended HS with would be in that camp. He would only see women as mating partners. (Same mindset of anyone who says "all women love me" or "I know how to talk to any black person"... Seeing people as monolithic, pigeonholed "others".)

The same dude bro mindset who reduce women who cannot reproduce (various cancers have this as an outcome) as "not wife material".

He passed away, so I can call him an asshole all I want now to everyone I know. While he was alive, I was pushed to backpedal by friends and relatives, "he's trying", "he's not as smart as you, give him some credit".

No, he was a dick. I was his friend because there was literally no one else in my neighborhood my age to be around. (And it was the 90s. I was as informed on transmisia as any kid who watched Sifl and Olly.)

nyquildotorg, to random
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I don't know who needs to hear this, but DuckDuckGo makes their money by selling the eyeballs of its users to the highest bidder. What you search for affects the ads you see, because they sell "show this ad to anyone searching for that."

It's still surveillance capital when your actions dictate how much money the search engine makes, even when the advertisers don't know who you are.

Cefr,
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@nyquildotorg IIRC DuckDuckGo is Bing, so there is no safe quarter from AI replacing search in any manner.

RickiTarr, to random
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Y'all I just made myself feel so old, hubs looked up top 100 music from 2001, 2011, 2021, and today and the amount of music I could recognize decreased by significantly. I recognized probably 70% of 2001 and decreasing as I went on. BUT I blame the internet, I can listen to exactly the kind of music I want with no dependence on the radio, but also I'm old!

Cefr,
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@RickiTarr As a Gen Alpha kid put it to me, "Rock is out of the mainstream. When I hear it, it's what people your age listen to on ads I know aren't meant for people my age. Classic Rock means nothing to us because that describes all rock music as far as we care."

I could shake my fist at it, or I can try to understand it. Rock isn't the language of rebellion to the young anymore. Why use your parents favorite genre to try to disassociate yourself from prior generations? There is a bit of sense in that.

"So what do you listen to that upsets your parents?"

"I'm not a big music fan."

If that was my kid, that would do it.

RickiTarr, (edited ) to random
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What advice would you give to someone just starting out in a relationship?

Mine might sound kind of dark in relation to the question, but here goes:

People change, and they should, it's part of being a person. Some people are lucky, and they change in the same direction, but some don't, and that's okay too. There's no shame in leaving a relationship or changing the nature of a relationship that no longer serves you. We are all taught that every relationship, whether romantic or friendship, is supposed to last forever, but nothing is forever, and forcing something that no longer works, just ends in anger and bitterness. Knowing when to let go is as important as knowing when to hold on through a rough patch, and how to know either of those things is the most cliché advice of all, COMMUNICATE.

Cefr,
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@krafty @RickiTarr Trust is probably the 2nd largest killer of relationships just behind money. And infidelity isn't even the main thought here. (That one is easier to say than do: keep your promises. If you can't, end it quick before your partner ends it anyway.)

Everyone deserves to be safe and protected, of course. What isn't discussed often is that people who have a very rigid standard of how they want to be treated beyond self respect and Mazlow's Hierarchy who don't put that up front typically, and if you aren't aware of that due to infatuation, once that glass breaks, it can turn love into resentment and loathing overnight.

And when it's made known, trust issues that appear from nowhere can feel like a lie but if they're not aware of what they're imposing on their partner when they do it... I mean how well does anyone know their self?

It's a trap of sorts; spending more time with someone helps reveal trust issues. And while you are blind to their real desires, it's all too easy to move too fast. (This goes for men as well as women.)

So the best advice is also the lamest because it doesn't help very much: be careful.

Cefr,
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@3dogcouch @RickiTarr Excellent points.

People can change. They change every day in ways you can never expect. But they'll never change how you want them to.

Teasing is mutual. One might be up for it when the other isn't and it ends quick once that is made clear. Bullying is not; it ignores a partner's needs and doesn't stop.

Cefr,
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@econads @3dogcouch @RickiTarr In my experience, coincidental change confuses the perception. You want someone to appreciate something you do, they do, and it seems voluntary when it's mutual interests in alignment.

But that is a very pessimistic view of human relationships and analyzing my own failed engagement to a large degree. You might be right about him for all I know.

Alice, to random
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I bet Charmin only uses those weird bears because they couldn't get the rights to Beavis.

Cefr,
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@Alice He'd be the first paradoxical spokesperson. He needs TP for a bunghole, yet has no bunghole.

RickiTarr, to random
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Seriously heard someone saying they don't listen to many black artists, because they aren't really into rap. Bitch please, feel free to share songs from Black artists from any genre. Here is one of my favorites, if you like this song please check out her other work:

https://youtu.be/KovrJ8HXI1Q?si=HOYIG7YMuAUTsJz6

Cefr,
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@RickiTarr Kamasi Washington's "The Rhythm Changes". After 8 minutes, that buildup... I DGAF if a building is on fire, if someone I love is in there, and I'm hearing that, I'm going in.
https://youtu.be/5gqaZwsaqD0

Rap? Hell, Lajon Witherspoon I think raps FAR less than Morgan Rose does in Sevendust. Here's something he did that is the furthest from Rap.
https://youtu.be/WhtEusYxATQ

Olivia Dean is so damn talented and so young. I can't wait to see what she makes next.
https://youtu.be/rAcTpnfhYAM

RickiTarr, to random
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You are going to make love to a Cereal Mascot, who do you choose?

I'm going Snap, Crackle, & Pop.

Cefr,
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@RickiTarr Can't say Chex, Crispix or Kix because no mascots?

Fine, I'll go with the Snuggle bear. No sex, just sleeping until lunch. Fuck breakfast. 😝

RickiTarr, to random
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So, what's the thing, what's the big thing no one can help you with? How do you cope with it?

Cefr,
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@RickiTarr Damn near everything. Coping is basically self-care and taking care of my car with a rigid timeline of fixes, because without it I am completely helpless. Something goes wrong at all and I am on my own.

Hearing everyone’s advice on the matter:

“Ask someone from your family to move in.” I did, repeatedly. No takers.
“Get another job to speed up your plans.” I’ve got three. At the same place, but maximizing my earning potential has already been realized. Extremely privileged I am in a position to do this, and still have weekends completely off.
“Get a 2nd Car.” Doesn’t change the fact I can only rely on myself (and AAA) if things go bad. Also double the expenses in several places: maintenance, registration, insurance, etc.
“Quit and do something else.” Uh, tech jobs are on the decline. If I do, it’s eating minimum wage at entry level jobs all over again hoping to get back to where I am now.
“Move somewhere else.” Oh, I’m trying. Especially when November comes around if the Darkest Timeline reaffirms itself, to hell with my plans and just get to safety.

Jyoti, to random
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Cefr,
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@mxtthxw @Jyoti @skypunch Their current approach is allowing iOS apps onto Mac.

I'd be a little happier if some Mac apps work on an iPad if you attach a Bluetooth Keyboard and Mouse or their Magic Keyboard thing. (File saving needs a look before they try that. The Files app remains clunky.) Close the app, back to iOS... I mean iPadOS, the totally different and not alike system.

RickiTarr, (edited ) to random
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Why do you follow me?

Cefr, (edited )
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@RickiTarr Sister, myself. Depends on where you land on the "youbetcha" and "Amish Furniture in my house" indices. (Born in Indiana. Shipshewana kept us rolling in rocking chairs and hope chests.)

NotImpressed, to Palestine
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This is funny and tragic at the same time.
John Oliver destroys Eric Adams and the NYPD.
Brilliant.

video/mp4

Cefr,
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@NotImpressed I had an ugly sob on that video of a Palestinian woman saying her university was destroyed. It's terrible their country is being wiped off of the map and she's still thanking US students for the moment against the inevitability of either dying or facing an uncertain future as a refugee.

Thanks for sharing that. ♥️

RickiTarr, to random
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Young people wanting to eat good food?! What's next?! Are they going to want to get paid more, own houses, take vacations?!

https://www.businessinsider.com/millennials-gen-z-splurge-groceries-spending-inflation-gen-z-boomers-2024-4?amp

Cefr, (edited )
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@RickiTarr I think their perspective is because millennials and Gen Z do everything wrong (as far as we all are told that boomers and Gen X believe). So millennials and Gen Z would do best not to exist because every single other option for them has negative feedback, including nothing.

Alice, to random
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I broke up with someone because they tried to say that "Crash Into Me" by Dave Matthews Band was "our song."

Cefr, (edited )
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@Alice @RickiTarr Crash Into Me lyric: "Hike up your skirt a little more and show your world to me" is 90's rock for "Why don't we get drunk and screw?" You made the right call.

futurebird, to random
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I think most people are writing the rabbit r1 by Teenage Engineering as "another AI no one asked for" that might be true... HOWEVER LAM "Large Action Model" sounds interesting. An assistant to be able to use apps, not use APIs... literally use the apps by clicking buttons & such. But, the reason it sounds interesting is that fleeting hope it might, at long last, help me to avoid the little UI bugs/failings that drive me nuts in many apps.

Which begs the question: why not just fix the UIs? 1/

Cefr,
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@futurebird @hazelnot Yup. https://www.theverge.com/2024/4/30/24145838/rabbit-r1-android-app-pixel-6a

Edit: my hope-- just as much 'work' went into the boot loader and someone hacks together a cloud music player or something more useful out of the hardware.

Cefr,
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@futurebird @hazelnot That was my thinking, Teenage Engineering probably had this slated as a music toy of some sort that never made it to production. They just shed some buttons and knobs for Rabbit R1.

GrimmReality, to random
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I think we tend to be quick to judge people who drive down the avenue blasting music with the windows open and that is why I will send props to whoever just drove down the avenue blasting Chris Isaak with the windows open because it's like WOOOOO I AM SAD MOTHERFUCKERS BE SAD WITH ME, to which I respond "yup, ok."

Cefr,
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@mentallyalex @GrimmReality Oh, Gabriel Iglesias taught me the joy of drive throughs.

Cefr (in Spongebob-like cartoon voice): "I'D LIKE A CHICKEN SANDWICH, NO FRIES, AND A LARGE ICE TEA NO SUGAR!"
Drive-Through Lady (giggling): "Is that all?"
Cefr (cartoon mode): "YUP-SEY-DOODLE!"
Drive-Through Lady (and other staff cackling): "That'll be $12.86. Pull on through."

I show up with a straight face. Not a smile. Serious business. Respond to everything with nods and mouthed words.

Drive-Through Lady: "Do you want a receipt?"
Cefr: (shakes head, no.)
Drive-Through Lady: "Okay, here's your food."
Cefr (cartoon voice, full volume): "THANKS, HAVE A GREAT DAY!!!" (Driving off, cackling out loud in laughter...)

Cefr, to random
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After panning the Humane AI Pin, a MKBHD review of Rabbit R1 had the same conclusion even at $200 and no monthly sub needed: don't buy a product based on a feature roadmap, buy it based on what it can do today.

And what the Rabbit R1 can do today... is very little and just as erroneous as the Humane Pin. Same as that device, he suggests holding off.

I think it is safe to say that MS, Apple and Google are likely not going to release competitor hardware in the AI hardware space just yet.

A lot of iterations and venture capital will need to make these find any direction at all, if not a pivot away from public sector to specialized use (Remember GoTenna? Now unless you are a military contractor, they're done with hikers and outdoors people.)
https://youtu.be/ddTV12hErTc

Alice, to random
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A/S/L?

I'll go first.
45/tomato bisque/California

Cefr,
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@Alice ("Fuzzy Blanket" I've been informed is no bean chilli with a melted layer of cheese and cool servings of mild salsa and sour cream on the top.)

Alice, to random
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The worst thing about having a birthday the day after Cinco de Mayo is that everybody is always like "Here's a present for both Cinco de Mayo AND your birthday."

Cefr,
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@Alice My brother (no longer with us anymore) felt that pain. Birthday four days after Christmas. So many years part of the gifts relied on another, so he'd get the wrong stuff first that would give away his birthday.

Or result in a key gift with zero accessories and him wondering if they're coming or Dec. 26th he needs to make returns to get what he wanted only to open a duplicate on Dec. 29th.

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