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CuriousMagpie

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🪶 Welcome 🪶

I'm unabashedly curious about everything. Wandering the hills of western Massachusetts (🌎 USA) with my canine companion Sadie.

#nobot #noai #noindex #nobridge

❣️Lover of 🤔speculative fiction, 🏞️ biodiversity, 👩🏻‍🦯long rambling strolls, 🌾 flora & 🐙fauna, 🏔️mountains & 🌊ocean, ☸️ethics, 📝 words & 🎁 meaning-making, looking outward & 🔭inward🔬 ... 🌀 AuDHD Elder

Living on unceded land of the Muh-he-conneok ~ People of the Waters that are Never Still.

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RickiTarr, to random
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I remember when I was a kid, if someone was in therapy, people talked about it in hushed tones, like it was a shameful secret, and now people talk about it casually in every day conversation. It's good to see that things can change, even if it's just a bit.

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@RickiTarr When I was a kid (1960s), people talked about cancer in the same way - hushed whispers, as if they might catch it by talking about it out loud.

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CuriousMagpie,
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@Pinchy63 @RickiTarr And she is middle aged at 34?! 🤣
I am 66 and have a hard time thinking of myself as middle aged, even though I am well on the way to officially ‘old’.

CuriousMagpie,
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@Richard_hoperestored @RickiTarr Even my dog, who will chase anything, avoids ‘encouraging’ geese 🙄

GottaLaff, to legal
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The Supreme Court on Tuesday seemed unlikely to limit access to , a key medication used in more than 60 percent of U.S. abortions and first approved more than two decades ago -WaPo

CuriousMagpie,
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RickiTarr, to random
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Getting tired of being a bipedal, please give me other options.

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GottaLaff, to animals
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Hamilton is always on top of things, checking the road conditions for us. 👍🏻

CuriousMagpie,
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@GottaLaff ❤️🐶

GottaLaff, to random
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👋🏼Bye rainy Oregon. Hi drier Washington!

CuriousMagpie,
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@GottaLaff After moving back to New England, I sometimes forget how big the western states are!

CuriousMagpie,
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@GottaLaff I tried to think of it as timeless and eternal 😉 when I was driving from one end of Montana to the other.

GottaLaff, to random
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Personal update for those who are following my house saga:

Our twins and our agent saw the house. We FaceTimed from Oregon. 👎🏻 Big disappointment. We’ll explore more homes when we get to BC. Not expecting to buy anything this trip.

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@GottaLaff Here’s hoping you find an unexpected jewel!

GottaLaff, to random
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Why yes, I am already packed, and yes, we did already walk Hammy.

I'm bursting out of my skin.

This could be a huge deal and an unusually lucky break on finding a house... or a total bust.🇨🇦

Let's concentrate on the lucky break part. We WILL make this happen, and the house WILL be as good as it seems in photos.

We'll know Saturday night. I'll post Sunday.

Til then, I'll post from the car when connection's poss. & from hotels.

I'M SO EXCITED.

🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

CuriousMagpie,
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@GottaLaff 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

RickiTarr, to random
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This cat's human fell asleep while petting him. My how the tables have turned.

CuriousMagpie,
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@RickiTarr Their eyes are such a beautiful green!

GottaLaff, to random
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Surgeons in Boston transplanted a kidney from a genetically engineered pig into an ailing 62-year-old man, the first procedure of its kind. Organs from genetically engineered pigs one day may make dialysis obsolete —NYT

CuriousMagpie,
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@GottaLaff It’s a slippery ethical slope - how far a leap would it be to shift from pigs to humans?
If the ChristoFacists take control, they would not accept animal parts but would farm humans to save themselves. Killing for organs already happens on the black market.

RickiTarr, to random
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Trans people are "forever patients"?

So is literally everyone!

Fuck off.

CuriousMagpie,
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@RickiTarr
🙋🏻‍♀️ 5 pills plus insulin

CuriousMagpie, to random
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This is beyond obscene

says ’s ‘waterfront property could be very valuable’ https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2024/mar/19/jared-kushner-gaza-waterfront-property-israel-negev

RickiTarr, to random
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Silly Story Time:

My husband has always been scared of spiders. If a spider needed removed I would be the one to deal with it, as I've always admired their work. For whatever reason, spiders love our Bathroom, and there always seems to be one or two in there no matter what hubs has tried to keep them out. So, I started naming them, I called one Henry, and I told hubs that he was really social, because every time you'd sit down on the toliet, he would pop out of his hole and just sit by your feet until you were done, then he'd crawl back. Another one would crawl out by the wall when you'd shower, and I told him that was Henry's wife Helena, and she was kind of a pervert, because she liked seeing people naked, but Henry didn't mind, because he liked them freaky. Whenever we would come out of the bathroom, we started giving updates about what Henry and Helena were up to. One day they disappeared, and we were both kind of sad, but last night hubs comes out of the bathroom, and says, Come look! He points to the wall by the toliet, and there is a little spider, and he says, Henry, he had a son! We are very excited about this development!

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@RickiTarr One summer, when I was a kid, a praying mantis would wait by our front stoop when it was time for my dad to come home from work. My dad would pet its head for a few moments and the mantis would hop away until the next day. It was sweet.

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@RickiTarr We must have been very repressed children, no one thought to name it. 😆

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@purplepadma @RickiTarr My sister has always been afraid of spiders also - one day she came screaming out of her bedroom because what seemed like thousands of baby spiders had hatched and were all over the place. It didn’t help her fear.

CuriousMagpie,
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@purplepadma Sorry, I should have done a content warning - will do now (I didnt much like my sister so I thought it was extremely funny)

GottaLaff, (edited ) to Texas
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' SB4 immigration law: Alito extends order barring Texas from detaining migrants under SB4 immigration law for now 1/...

https://cbsn.ws/3PqpXZh

CuriousMagpie,
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@GottaLaff I think it’s stopped again per Chris @chrisgeidner.

purplepadma, to random
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I had to get Tom to come and close the bedroom curtains for me as it felt beyond me. Ridiculous, I know. I did manage to clean my teeth, which is major challenge when I feel like this. I really hope this low mood only lasts days, not weeks or months, my mood cycles are usually quite rapid but who knows. I’m heading to bed now, thank you for all the warmth that has been shown towards me on here today 💜

CuriousMagpie,
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@purplepadma I’m in the same state - here’s hoping this is a short lived challenge for us both {hugs}

RickiTarr, to random
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My state's motto is "Let The Welfare of the People Be the Supreme Law". IF ONLY!

CuriousMagpie,
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@RickiTarr The official state motto of Massachusetts is "Ense petit placidam sub libertate quietem" (Latin translation; "By the sword we seek peace, but peace only under liberty”)
Welp. That’s appalling.

CuriousMagpie, to animals
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Happy Birthday ! She’s 5 years old and a joyful puppy at heart. Here is the birthday girl with her birthday stick - glaring at me for taking her picture 😆

JeremyMallin, to actuallyautistic
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Apparently, rewatching television shows and movies a million times is an autism thing.

That's me. 🙋‍♂️

@actuallyautistic

CuriousMagpie,
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@JeremyMallin @actuallyautistic Sometimes when we’re very stressed we might read the same book over and over and …

Mux, to actuallyautistic
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@actuallyautistic
I often hear about temperature dysregulation, but I don't think I experience that myself. Rather, I experience sensory sensitivity to heat.

I was wondering how this manifests in the community. Are you sensitive to cold? To heat? To dryness? Humidity? Or are you generally dysregulated? And what does that mean for you?

CuriousMagpie,
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@Mux @actuallyautistic Heat and humidity are really difficult for me - every bit of energy drains out and I get shaky and queasy. Climate change is playing havoc with my health - the New England winters are shorter and warmer every year and I don’t get the relief I need.

Susan60, to ADHD
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I just had my 2nd session since realising my autism, the 1st since 5 weeks with my partner with his family. So mainly a catch-up & info dump. Will clarify goals next time.

In the past therapy has been about me info dumping & them validating, helping me to clarify & a few strategies, but I struggled with clear goals.

I feel so much clearer now.

Previous therapy focussed on the impact of external traumas, the loss of loved ones, sexual assault, divorce etc, but ignored my internal pan that wasn’t explained by those traumas. I learned a lot that was useful, but so much was left unexplained. I was still in survival mode.

She reflects back & asks questions to confirm, clarify & express her understanding, & her very expressive face helps with that. I used to feel that I must look the therapist in the eye for the whole session, but I now allow myself to look out the window.

The waiting room is dim lights, soft music…

I used to feel that I had to work hard to convince the therapist, to get them on board with me, to understand, & maybe to like me so they’d be motivated to really work with me.

I think that having a somewhat better understanding of myself means I’m much clearer about boundaries, & that helps soooo much.

@actuallyautistic

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@Susan60 @actuallyautistic How wonderful!!! I am still looking for someone to work with, you give me hope.

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