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Joy_intl

@Joy_intl@mastodon.online

Global citizen; newbie web dev
Multilingual advocate

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Joy_intl, to random
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If I had any input with the media, I'd just preface anything quoting Trump with the fact that the man lies, all the time, and changes what he says from one day to the next - therefore, don't put any weight to what he says, knowing it can be a lie or change with his next breath -

You can trust nothing Trump says.

Joy_intl,
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@tantramar @soc_i_ety I get reporting on him, I mean, if they didn't, then we'd not know what he was doing..
But it's like there's not enough hours in the day to keep track of the nonsense and when I've seen the fact checking, it's exhausting.. but necessary..

Joy_intl, to random
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I love NPR's podcast "The State of the World"

  • I hope we can all see the world would be a better place with Ukraine intact. 🇺🇦
    Slava Ukraini

Listen to: Why Should the U.S. Send Aid to Ukraine? - https://one.npr.org/i/1196980598:1246443602

Joy_intl, to random
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I feel like Biden should not have it this hard; there is no comparison between them.

  • I hear people wanting Biden to do more, and all I can think is
  • Do you think Trump would do anything for you??

Biden campaign sends Rep. Ro Khanna to court college students in Wisconsin https://www.npr.org/2024/05/04/1248924726/wisconsin-college-students-biden-trump-khanna-gaza-protests

SocraticEthics, to Ukraine
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Joy_intl,
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@SocraticEthics Slava Ukraini 🇺🇦

Joy_intl, to sketch
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Anyone else lost their marbles? 😄

I just declared this finished.
Been experimenting with layering.

DeborahLeagueFineArt, to art
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Joy_intl,
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@DeborahLeagueFineArt oooohhh I love this 😍

Joy_intl, to random
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Has anyone seen an article predicting what life might be like in 2125 or anything like that?

Or have we all just accepted that humanity will no longer exist by then?

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I want to talk about Women's Pain. I've never had "good" periods, not since I was a teenager, but as I aged they got worse and worse. I was basically bedridden three days out of the month, and popping ibuprofen for a while after that too. I even got a prescription for Marijuana, because I knew the ibuprofen wasn't good for my stomach, and I needed something to ease the pain. Despite all of this, I just assumed that this was what it was like for most women.

I've always had a lot of anxiety about doctors, but it had ramped up since childhood. My Mom has been in and out of hospitals her whole life, and has had some pretty traumatic experiences. I watched my Dad die in an ER in front of me. But my best friend died suddenly of a preventable illness, and I decided I had to do better, regular Doctor visits was the top of the list, since I had only been going when I absolutely needed to. I casually mentioned to the doctor increased pain during periods and he (like a very good doctor) ordered an ultrasound just in case. This started months and months of tests and doctor visits, 4 ultrasounds, birth control pills that made me sick, an MRI, two different specialists, one of which let me know that I was a mess inside, but I would need surgery to find out exactly how, basically a nightmare. I was so ready to be done with it that when they said surgery I said Yes, immediately, I was so ready to be done. My surgeon was fantastic, but basically said they wouldn't know what the end result was be until they were in there could be just cyst removal, could be a total hysterectomy. In the end, they had to remove my right fallopian tube, right ovary, and some cysts, they also put in a Mirena IUD. I had endometriosis for years, and didn't realize it.

I tell this story, because in a way, I was lucky, my doctor believed me about my pain, but there are thousands more stories where Women's pain gets ignored by the medical establishment, they tell them they are just stressed and hysterical. The average endometriosis diagnosis takes about 7 years, because of this. Men get better care than women, period, and if you're a woman of color or LGBTQ, watch out, the stats are even worse for you. Men get treatment and pain management far more often and far quicker than women. And to top it all off, women are just told pain is normal and part of life from the time they are small children, your period will hurt, so will sex, pregnancy, menopause. We are expected to live in and accept pain our whole lives. Women don't have a higher pain tolerance than men, we are just expected to grin and bear it in a way Men simply are not.

So, final message, if something feels wrong, don't wait, go to the doctor, don't take no for an answer, if your doctor denies you, get another doctor. You know your body better than any other person, you deserve the best care for it, love yourself!

If you have any other advice for women, and dealing with the medical establishment, or just want to share a story, please feel free!

Joy_intl,
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@KimberlyN @CppGuy @RickiTarr @Aviva_Gary
I still remember going to get new tires & the young man started walking to my car - I asked where he was going "to find out the size " I told him the size.
"Are you sure?"
I just walked out. I will not spend money on misogyny.

Joy_intl,
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@olav @dbc3 @Crystal_Fish_Caves @KimberlyN @CppGuy @RickiTarr @Aviva_Gary
I'd like to say I appreciate the men in this thread being supportive of the ladies.
It's even worse when you live that experience and the men in your life say you're exaggerating.

Alice, to random
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Thanks to everyone who attended my seminar on embracing unconditional love and acceptance for all!

Also, F-U to all of the jerks who didn't bother to show up.

Joy_intl,
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@Alice YOU DIDN'T INVITE ME.

I already love everyone unconditionnally, except the ones who don't deserve it, so I prob didn't need to attend.

jhilden, to cyberpunk
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Someone using the wreck of a MacBook Pro with a tether as a bike lock

Joy_intl,
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@jhilden Maybe it was a threat to the user's current MacBook 🤔

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I have just been tweaking the auto subtitles of a video of me, and for once I don't hate my voice!

Joy_intl,
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@sarajw Win!

Joy_intl, to webdev
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In the search for becoming an actual -

I need advice: What's the best domain extension for a budding webdev creating my personal site?

Joy_intl,
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@sarajw Oh wow, Sara - Thank you for your thoughtful input - I aspire to be like you one day!

*bookmarking

Joy_intl,
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@sarajw Ok, let's say - I aspire to have projects like you - ?

I love the idea of having multiple domains :)

Joy_intl,
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@sarajw I recognize a fellow creative - so many ideas! 💡
..so little time ! ⏲️

senanthic, to random
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as I stare, exhausted, at the bathroom wall, I note a decent-sized spider. "oh," I think, "that's good. we've had such a problem with fruit flies."
then I look over and see the considerably larger, quarter-sized spider sitting across the room. apparently the problem is worse than I thought if we're holding a spider convention

Joy_intl,
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@senanthic We counted 18 spiders in our dining room.
..but no flies.

Joy_intl, to webdev
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I'm going to throw this out there:

I'm looking for a internship for 6mos to complete my bachelor's here in France - this can be remote, I mainly hope for kindness.

I've worked with & more - I'm very open :)

mattwilcox, to random
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That thing when you accidentally find a great minor feature in your "I use this every day" application.

It's like a little Xmas surprise.

Anyway, I was editing CSS and accidentally Cmd+R in PHPStorm, thinking I was refreshing my browser... What's this?! An outline of the selectors in my file? And you can type to narrow it down?!

Delightful.

Joy_intl,
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@mattwilcox Eeexxxcceeeellleeentttt :)

Joy_intl,
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@mattwilcox I am stuck with VS code because trying to finish projects in limited time says - I do NOT want to be bothered by another unfamiliar thing.

*I had to use IntelliJ for a Java project and hated switching..

PHPStorm is there, I will get to it..

THANK YOU for sharing your enjoyable journey!

Joy_intl,
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@mattwilcox I have developed quite an affinity for PHP, so it makes sense that I should migrate to PHPStorm.

I am ..still.. soooo... new...

I am longing for the day I actually feel like - oh, I know how to do that..

You rock. Keep inspiring me.

Joy_intl,
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@mattwilcox The "a lot of it is way beyond me, but also familiar" = is my entire existence at the moment..

Right now I am freaking out about trying to find an internship for January...

Cross your fingers for me..
(please.. someone wants me, right?)

Joy_intl,
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@mattwilcox *humble cry: Thank you!

Joy_intl, to CSS
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Right now, I'm procrastinating because I am fighting with

Come on guys, some smart person has GOT to come up with an easier way..

Joy_intl,
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@mattwilcox I would much prefer to get groceries on a Wed night, but we have our big weekly meeting Thurs, so I'm betting I'll want to finish stuff ..

but you're right, looking forward to the down time - dinner, kids, etc

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