chetwisniewski, to random
@chetwisniewski@securitycafe.ca avatar

With this wave of unrepentant mediocre garbage overwhelming the internet due to SEO and generative AI models it feels like enshitification might be here to stay.

I'm feeling some optimism today. We seem to be entering an age of authenticity. We are rejecting mass produced junk and much of the drive toward social media, TikTok, and their ilk seem to be a way of seeking real people and real things. Of course influencers are no more real than ChatGPT, but I think is on the rise.

apodoxus, to mentalhealth
@apodoxus@mastodon.online avatar

This is what I've been thinking about a lot: congruence. It's a lot easier to be yourself when you become who you want to be (or change who you want to be.) I think a lot of insecurity comes from our own awareness that we are not doing what we know we're supposed to be doing. People often ask how not to care about what other people think and I think the first step must be to live according to your values.

https://youtu.be/oynKj-1m6Hg

#selfdevelopment #authenticity #mentalhealth #confidence

apodoxus, (edited ) to random
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Do you find it difficult to be yourself on social media?

For those of you who say yes, do you fight against it to try to be more authentic? How's it going?

paninid, to history
@paninid@mastodon.world avatar

“Men who would not trust the Massachusetts rabble-rousers, would trust George Washington.”

@histodons

jiujensu, to Palestine
@jiujensu@mas.to avatar

1/7
Nothing is more annoying than influencers giving themselves permission to dehumanize Palestinians. Here are two examples, but I've seen many more. These are definitely two of the most defensive, lol.

Maybe it says more about the pitfalls of influencer culture (than the individuals), the need to be seen by millions as "authentic," ...

Amanda Palmer's Instagram: A note about the calls for ceasefire and how we talk about it. People have been commenting and criticizing me for not saying more/posting more. At the bottom: It was too long for a single post, please swipe. I love you all.
Amanda Palmer's Instagram 7/9 We are all aiming, I hope, for a better and more peaceful planet. Let artists make their art and posts and do what we can to help, in our way. I want to believe my art indirectly is helping people who are in other zones: political, activist, war, healthcare, mother. Sometimes I'm overtly political. Not always, and not every day. You need us artists to make art. Don't chase us offline. Many of my artist friends have left the internet because they cannot post in peace about their art or their politics. We lose them. We lose their art.
Amanda Palmer's Instagram 8/9: Do your work. Shine in your zone. Activate. Don't shame your artists. We are smart. We know what's going on. Let us do our work...

jiujensu,
@jiujensu@mas.to avatar

2/7
the need to build a brand on empathy, scatter a little so that you can receive it back a million fold from adoring fans, the craving to be at the top of the parasocial relationship. We all present different faces or code switch irl, so discussing authenticity (that the influencers seem fake) gets complicated. Maybe the online version of it is still new enough and just lends itself to more (unwarranted?) microscopic evaluation. Idk why I'm annoyed.

jiujensu,
@jiujensu@mas.to avatar

4/7
In contrast, it's comforting to see celebrities support justice for Palestinians without qualifying it with their statement against terrorism and solidarity with Jewish people. Neither of these things have anything to do with justice for Palestinians (unless you reflexively think all Palestinians are terrorists and you want us to celebrate your good work of trying to overcome that personal deep seated bias as some grand act of charity-see below).

jiujensu,
@jiujensu@mas.to avatar

6/7
This isn't about the Jewish people, Hamas or what a celebrity believes is terrorism. The people that love to discuss those things can't seem to talk about reparations, right of return, right not to live under occupation and apartheid (or the fact that the result of a ceasefire is always a status quo of daily Zionist violence against Palestinians).

jiujensu,
@jiujensu@mas.to avatar
SingleBass, to bass
@SingleBass@musicians.today avatar

Oh it's Bandcamp Friday again already!

If you like songs & you like bass guitar, you might like my stuff.

Hmm maybe I'll do a thread later if I'm not too busy, with a few words about each of the 11 songs I've got up on Bandcamp so far, so people are more likely to find one they like.

https://single-bass.bandcamp.com/

SingleBass,
@SingleBass@musicians.today avatar

A song about the weight of social/commercial manipulation insinuating that yr not good enough. Yes it is an allusion to the classic fairytale :-)

Ugly Duckling

"In the mirror of the world around you
"Reflections every day show you you're wrong
"Feeling ugly like the Ugly Duckling
"You never realised you were a swan"

"It's time to fly"

https://single-bass.bandcamp.com/track/ugly-duckling

appassionato, to books
@appassionato@mastodon.social avatar

The Culture of the Copy: Striking Likenesses, Unreasonable Facsimiles

A novel attempt to make sense of our preoccupation with copies of all kinds—from counterfeits to instant replay, from parrots to photocopies.

@bookstodon







TheMetalDog, to random
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fosslife, to datascience
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mikecarter, to random
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Being True to Yourself is Essential for Living a Fulfilling Life, So Don't Let the Fear of Others' Opinions Hold You Back from Expressing Your True Self.

paninid, to random
@paninid@mastodon.world avatar

“The only thing we must fight for, is to be allowed to be ourselves.”

  • Scarlett, Gone With the Wind

mikecarter, to random
@mikecarter@mastodon.social avatar

The Key to a Fulfilling Life is to Live it Authentically and Passionately.

deborahh, to random
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\o/🎉👏

""Authentic" was selected as the 2023 word of the year by the Merriam-Webster dictionary, landing among the most-looked-up words in the dictionary's 500,000 entries, the company said in a press release Monday."

https://mastodon.social/@WarnerCrocker/111488491688634370

deborahh, to random
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Ahh! I hope you've had a great weekend, to decompress and to enjoy your world.

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remixtures, to random Portuguese
@remixtures@tldr.nettime.org avatar

RT @gerry_sasha
It's publication announcement time! The 23 of January will be out 'The Hipster Economy', edited by
@UCLpress. It will be . In it, I discuss the new paradigm of in consumption, the frenzy for and products, , and much more.

https://www.uclpress.co.uk/collections/open-access/products/230902

CharlieMcHenry, to random
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paninid, (edited ) to privacy
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jake4480, to Creativity
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"...algorithms of the online world are pushing creators and creatives towards quantity and formulas and away from quality or creativity."

"Sure, we can chase algorithms in an effort to grow our audience. In the long run, however, authenticity will prevail."

From this excellent read, "The cult of productivity": https://uxdesign.cc/the-cult-of-productivity-2c1b40abfba8

deborahh, (edited ) to random
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When fiction shrinks to memoir we all lose out - Dina Nayeri (www.fictionable.world)

We’re told that discretion equals compassion, but has this ever been true, in life or in literature? That we should bury character flaws in complex protagonists if those blemishes – however empathetically rendered – might fuel racist, xenophobic, or other hateful rhetoric. And yet, survivors understand viscerally how...

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