russellmcormond, to actuallyautistic
@russellmcormond@spore.social avatar

I'm regularly confused why anyone, especially parents of Autistic children, would think ABA (Applied Behavioral Analysis) is a good thing.

Sure, it might make your child compliant at moments when you want to do show-and-tell with your "friends", but you will be generating lifelong trauma.

https://neurodivergentrebel.substack.com/p/neurodivergent-rebels-neurodivergent

@actuallyautistic


youronlyone, to ADHD
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cliffjones, to Autism
@cliffjones@sfba.social avatar

As you may know, my dad passed away recently. Please help my mom get legal guardianship of my brother. He's unable to care for himself and is currently a ward of the state.

https://gofund.me/a7898115

nickythehero, to random
@nickythehero@mastodon.social avatar

Sometimes, Autistic and ADHD Burnout hits you automatically. It feels like fight or flight mode because it feels like everything is happening all at once. Here are some examples of Autistic and ADHD Burnout

youronlyone, to Autism
@youronlyone@c.im avatar

‘Neural noise’ could be a hidden advantage of the autistic mind

But some research, including our own study, has explored specific advantages in autism. Studies have shown that in some cognitive tasks, autistic people perform better than allistic people.

Autistic people face ignorance, prejudice and discrimination that can harm wellbeing. Poor mental and physical health, reduced social connections and increased “camouflaging” of autistic traits are some of the negative impacts that autistic people face.

So, research underlining and investigating the strengths inherent in autism can help reduce stigma, allow autistic people to be themselves and acknowledge autistic people do not require “fixing”.

The autistic brain is different. It comes with limitations, but it also has its strengths.

https://www.psypost.org/neural-noise-could-be-a-hidden-advantage-of-the-autistic-mind/

@autistics @actuallyautistic

youronlyone, to Autism
@youronlyone@c.im avatar

How do you define the term, “Openly Autistic”?

  • Is it an autistic person who rarely masks?
  • Or, an autistic who isn't afraid and/or shy to share that they are actually autistic?
  • Or, an autistic person who is active in the autism acceptance “movement” (if we can call it that)?
  • Or, perhaps, an autistic who were interviewed and disclosed they're autistic?

Maybe you have other considerations or criteria that defines “openly autistic” for you?


NOTE: Being openly autistic is a choice and is not for everyone. I think it is safe to say that we all face discrimination, stereotyping, and prejudice for being actually autistics, thus, most choose not to be open about it.

However, recently, there has been a slow growth in numbers of openly autistics, and like with most things in life, we have different criteria, definitions, and cultural considerations.

Thus, I am curious what you think, personally or maybe your immediate environment or organisation, is an openly autistic person. Or, when do you consider one as openly autistic.

Again, this is not about if an autistic person should be openly autistic or not. ^_^

Thank you for your interesting insights!


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autism101, to actuallyautistic
@autism101@mstdn.social avatar

It may seem like a small win, updating language from "autism awareness" to "acceptance", but it is important. Especially when the language change comes from a government.

@actuallyautistic

https://www.disabilityscoop.com/2024/04/03/white-house-embraces-autism-acceptance-over-awareness/30811/

russellmcormond, to actuallyautistic
@russellmcormond@spore.social avatar

Ugh, It's Autism Awareness Day. I'm Quite Aware That I'm Autistic. Is the System?

by Jim Hoerricks
https://autside.substack.com/p/ugh-its-autism-awareness-day-im-quite

April 2 is World Autism Awareness Day



@actuallyautistic



Carnivius, to Autism
@Carnivius@masto.ai avatar

Please don't as it supports the awful that has always seen autism as a 'disease' to be 'cured' and among many, many other issues, in their current '100 Day Kit for Parents' they advise parents of recently diagnosed autistic children to 'grieve for the loss of their non-autistic child' as if we are changelings that killed the 'real' child and replaced them. Please or gold instead

dramypsyd, to random
@dramypsyd@ohai.social avatar

Wow, the server went down during month? Ableist.

(I hope you like this joke because I'll be making it about every little inconvenience for the rest of April.)

russellmcormond, to actuallyautistic
@russellmcormond@spore.social avatar

It's my birthday.

6 years ago my 50'th birthday marked a huge transition as my former employer merged with what became my new employer the next day.

(More of that story: https://mcormond.blogspot.com/2023/09/resignation.html )

A few days later I learned my mother's health had turned for the worse, and she only had a few months left to live.

These transitions induced me to accept I'm Autistic. I wish there was a less dramatic path, but I'm thankful to finally be learning who I am.


@actuallyautistic

russellmcormond, to actuallyautistic
@russellmcormond@spore.social avatar

With @actuallyautistic discussing "AI", I thought this Embrace Autism article discussing "Valuing truth over conformity" which was sparked by a talk on "AI" is interesting.

https://embrace-autism.com/valuing-truth-over-conformity/

Personal note: I've been confused my entire life about why other people around me don't seek "truth", and also why so many people around me get upset at me when I speak.

My has helped me better understand the previous 5 decades of life.

russellmcormond, to actuallyautistic
@russellmcormond@fosstodon.org avatar

Observations about (a review of)^2 Autism Employment https://mcormond.blogspot.com/2024/03/autism-employment.html?spref=tw

In the context of a UK study on Autism Employment, I discussed my experience employed by an organization with “executive dysfunction” that didn't mix well with me being Autistic.

@actuallyautistic

KatyElphinstone, to Autism
@KatyElphinstone@mas.to avatar

Subject: Outcome vs intentions

Research on 'outcomes mattering more than intentions to people with autism' is interesting 🤔

I personally way prefer outcomes!

Most people are not outcome-oriented (and I think we need to be more so) 🧵

KatyElphinstone,
@KatyElphinstone@mas.to avatar

Ok, so the study is here: https://livescience.com/35428-autism-morality-outcomes-intentions.html

And astonishingly (forgive the sarcasm) portrays autistics as failing in some way because of this preference for outcomes.

#Autism #AutismAcceptance

🧵

russellmcormond, to actuallyautistic
@russellmcormond@fosstodon.org avatar

Autism & the double
empathy problem
https://embrace-autism.com/autism-and-the-double-empathy-problem/

Great new article providing summary of the Double Empathy problem.

@actuallyautistic

serpicojam, to Autism
@serpicojam@mas.to avatar

A great event in support of the Fredi the Pizzaman Foundation

Motor City Rockers hoping to score big at Saturday’s Autism Awareness Night

https://www.macombdaily.com/2024/01/24/motor-city-rockers-hoping-to-score-big-at-saturdays-autism-awareness-night/

geographile, to accessibility
@geographile@sfba.social avatar

I've been in barely ♿️ towns and very accessible towns but so far, is the most fake-accessible I've been in. It's modern, it's beholden to the , it should be easy to use its sidewalks, but between all the pedestrian overpasses trying to feed us* through casinos instead of down the sidewalk and adding lots of distance, and the constant construction tearing up sidewalks, rarely marked before we headed down them, it's barely accessible. Quito, with its cobblestones and narrow sidewalks, was easier.

We're here for a family wedding, but won't be coming back as tourists.

*Us:
One nearly 13 multiply person who is overwhelmed by some kinds of visual and auditory simulation. And yeah, shoulda grabbed ear protection, but it would have been too much regardless.
One 60 year old disabled by pain, deformities, and poor balance due to 2+ decades of medication-resistant disease.

AutisticWave, to Autism
AutisticWave, to Autism
  • "But you're establishing eye contact with me; how can you be autistic?"

You'd be surprised what compensatory mechanisms developed in sophisticated ways throughout those years I went undiagnosed can do.

  • "Don't worry, we're all on the spectrum nowadays."

Well: https://medium.com/@undaautistica/no-were-not-all-on-the-spectrum-a319b0619308

@actuallyautistic

johnnyprofane1, to actuallyaudhd

An update on my artistic portfolio, focusing on raw, unfiltered autistic experiences with brand new illustrations.

isual metaphors to represent the autistic experience, cognition & individual identity.

@actuallyautistic @actuallyautistics @actuallyaudhd

http://autisticaf.me/2023/12/20/recent-artwork-fall-2023-pt-1/

AutisticWave, to Autism

While the phrase "we're all on the spectrum" may be well-intentioned, it is potentially harmful to us, autistics.

Here's how: https://link.medium.com/zjV6w9mgFFb


@autisticadvocacy @autistic.me@a.gup.pe @neurodiversity

AutisticWave, to Autism

"I’m autistic," I say. A brief pause ensues, a furrowed brow from what I can see from the mirror, and then an unexpectedly humorous response: "Is that like a professional auto driver?"

https://medium.com/@undaautistica/on-explaining-ones-being-autistic-551e50871970


@actuallyautistic

AutisticWave, to Autism

Thoughts based on Michelle Garnett and Tony Attwood's article on "Autistic Flourishing" and how we, autistic adults, can thrive in this life without changing who we are.

https://medium.com/@undaautistica/beyond-norms-unleashing-autistic-flourishing-207a9f104afd

@actuallyautistic

johnnyprofane1, to Podcast

EMBRACE the Spectrum

🌒One night that redefined a life.
🚨Dive into identity... embrace rebellion, break ALL the rules.
🎙️🎧No masks, just raw authenticity. Click to enjoy

&

@actuallyautistic
@actuallyautistica
@actuallyadhd
@actuallyaudhd

👉 https://autisticaf.me/2023/11/03/the-night-this-autistic-adult-broke-free-an-autisticaf-halloween-tale-%f0%9f%8e%83/

hamlin81, to LGBT

Are there Mastodon instances with more gay folks? I'm not seeing many on here. I looked into Mastodon.lol but I can't seem to join it for some reason.

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