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#RememberAaronBushnell #FreePalestine #ActuallyAutistic #LGBTQIAally #SJW #Ally2POC
I will happily comment, favourite, boost.
1 partner, 3 sons, 5 g'children, 2 g-g'children.
Love learning new things. Annoyingly helpful.
Self-realised August 2022. Taurean. Year of Horse.
So good at masking, I can even fool myself.
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timrichards, to random
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Intriguing. | Orcas have sunk another vessel off the European coast. Why won't they stop ramming boats? - ABC News
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2024-05-14/why-orcas-are-ramming-boats-and-sometimes-sinking-them/103843932

Tooden, (edited )
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@timrichards Why do scientists believe this is play? They're being quite selective re the size, and it's more interesting that they have only sunk 7, with no fatalities.

Sherifazuhur, to israel
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- Massive casualties feared as Israeli jets hit house sheltering nearly 100 Palestinians in Nuseirat refugee camp @palestine @israel

https://www.aa.com.tr/en/middle-east/massive-casualties-feared-as-israeli-jets-hit-house-sheltering-nearly-100-palestinians/3218753

Tooden,
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dgar, to random
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Handel was both wealthy and baroque.

Tooden,
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@dgar Boom Boom.

Tim_McTuffty, to actuallyautistic
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Diary of an ASD Squirrel. Day 198 , Monday 13/05/2024

Up early for some reason beyond this simple squirrels reasoning.
Tidied up after herself, did my chores & went for a walk in the warm early summer sunshine !

I cannot seem to find the impetus to get stuff done, I work best to a deadline & the only person pushing me at the moment is me, which would be fine but I have minimal motivation levels at the moment.

I’m wondering from day to day like a leaf blowing in the breeze, no direction, no purpose.
At least the days are warm now & a lot sunnier, saving energy is easier , my lone mission to drag our energy bills down is less onerous in the summer.

Final Thoughts.

I suspect that I am going through a depressive episode, I hope I come through to the other side soon.

Thank you to all those who are helping me on this journey, in a myriad different ways. I am thankful to each & every one of you! 🫂 🫶🐿️🖖

@actuallyautistic

Tooden,
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@Tim_McTuffty ((((hugs)))) and positive thoughts @actuallyautistic

ashleyspencer, (edited ) to actuallyautistic
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For AuDHD:

Which terms do you prefer to use?

Do you use ‘have’ or ‘I am’ to describe your autism and ADHD?

Personally, I’m the first one and use ‘I am’ to describe both.

Just curious to see how common each one is. 🙂

@actuallyautistic
@audhd

Tooden,
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@ashleyspencer If I had ADHD, I would be #AuDHDer. @actuallyautistic @audhd

LehtoriTuomo, to actuallyautistic
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Sitting in the bus after a day at work. Feeling tired. The meeting that ended the day dragged on and I stopped even trying to follow the discussion. I haven't listened to music in a bus in ages but now I find myself thinking that maybe I should buy a set of noise-canceling headphones.

The bus is hissing loudly, there are conversations that I can't hear which somehow makes them even more annoying. On top of all I'm sitting under a loudspeaker that plays the stop signal in a very loud tone. Shit, it rang again and startled me. Why does it have to be that loud?

Fortunately I'm not too far from home but still.

@actuallyautistic

Tooden,
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@LehtoriTuomo You do?? need to treat yourself to a pair of noise cancelling headphones. It is much harder to block irritants when you are tired. @actuallyautistic

BinChicken, to Eurovision
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I'm a huge fan of the Eurovision Song Contest, but this year I'm boycotting Eurovision.

Eurovision has always been political. Its purpose is political by seeking to unite Europe with the power of love of music over the power of hate and war.

In previous years, I celebrated the overt shows of support for Ukraine, LGBTQIA people, and other oppressed people.

But this year, the organisers of the Eurovision Song Contest have chosen ignore calls for BDS and allowed Israel to enter, and they have chosen to ban other participants from showing even support of the people of Palestine.

If you think the Eurovision Song Contest has chosen an appalling stance on this issue, you're not alone. The Israel singer was booed off stage, and there have been a record number of protests against Eurovision inside the auditorium, outside this year's venue in Malmö, and in many participating countries around the world.

Tooden,
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@BinChicken And they claim they are not political. HA!

Melissabeartrix, to random
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I have been given some sad news, JK Rowling is still alive ... 😭

Hugz & xXx

Tooden,
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@Weanerdog I loved the books, & I loved the movies. I despise the author for her bigotry, transcrappery, and attitude. I can't think of many who have ever so comprehensively trashed their brand after achieving fame and fortune. Narcissism is weird, sometimes. @Melissabeartrix

DenisCOVIDinfoguy, to auscovid19
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‘Fear more deadly than AstraZeneca’s Vaxzevria COVID vaccine’ | The Australian

"A leading infectious diseases physician says overblown fears about the AstraZeneca COVID-19 vaccine probably caused more deaths than the vaccine’s rare ­adverse side effects"

@auscovid19

Source: https://archive.md/l0Ifk#selection-439.141-439.167

Tooden,
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@DenisCOVIDinfoguy Peter Collignon? Leading expert? In whose fevered brain was this thought engendered? Dumbarses at the australian have probably got him, and Bennett, on speed dial.🙄 @auscovid19

dgar, to random
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My neighbour lost a quarter of their roof in the storm last night.

Oof.

Tooden,
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@dgar Are they okay?

Tooden,
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@dgar Miile pardons. Was there one that I missed?

Tooden,
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@dgar Ah! My half-asl gaffe.

DenisCOVIDinfoguy, to auscovid19
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COVID-19 and flu update Ballarat: Masks Still Matter in 2024 | thecourier.com.au

"MASKS still matter is the advice from the region's public health leader as the community faces rising cases of COVID-19 and influenza."

"If everybody who is symptomatic tests themselves, many will show they have COVID-19." - Dr Rob Grenfell, Grampians Public Health Unit chief strategy and regions officer

#COVID19 #Ballarat #Masks #COVIDisAirborne #COVIDisNotOver @auscovid19

Source: https://www.thecourier.com.au/story/8607418/covid-19-and-flu-update-ballarat-masks-still-matter-in-2024/

COVID-19 cases continue to impact bed availability and staffing at Grampians Health Ballarat Base Hospital with 14 COVID-positive patients in hospital as of Monday morning. This did not include patients with influenza. Dr Grenfell said both viruses were a serious concern, particularly for those at a higher risk of severe outcomes - and many people had loved ones under threat. "The issue for people out there are those with impaired immunity," Dr Grenfell said. "We're continuing to bring outbreaks in aged care centres under control...we're testing inpatients and those across our cancer wards. "If everybody who is symptomatic tests themselves, many will show they have COVID-19." The nation's drug regulator, the Therapeutic Goods Administrator, has also been urging people to check their rapid antigen tests (commonly known as a RAT) and to not use a kit after its expiry or use-by date. City of Ballarat's free RAT program finished at the end of 2023. Dr Grenfell said all the health and hygiene lessons from COVID-19 still mattered to prevent viral outbreaks: social distancing; hand hygiene; good ventilation; wearing masks when in closed spaces and unable to social distance; and, keeping vaccinations up to date. He said masks do work as a line of protection and people should consider masking up once more. If sick - even with a sniffle - Dr Grenfell urged people to stay at home.

Tooden,
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@DenisCOVIDinfoguy But WHYYYY those crappy surgical masks? Every damn time, it's the least effective mask they wear, for the photo.🙄 @auscovid19

timrichards, to random
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Has anyone ever passed through an airport that wasn't partly under construction?

Tooden,
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@timrichards Brisbane Domestic, 6 years ago.

luciedigitalni, to auspol
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They seem to have left off a zero

"At the upcoming Budget, we are committing $100 million to a new national Active Transport Fund that will upgrade and deliver new bicycle and walking paths."


https://minister.infrastructure.gov.au/c-king/media-release/national-active-transport-fund

Tooden,
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@luciedigitalni ...or a few! They're a joke.

jeffowski, to random
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Tooden,
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@jeffowski I wish I could boost this many times.

pathfinder, to Autism
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@actuallyautistic

Much to my shock I realised that I could be autistic when I was 53, roughly 7 years ago. And it was a shock, even though I suspect a very small, well hidden and very much ignored part of me, might have suspected. No one told me about it, or suggested that it might be the case. I did not see myself in relatives, the way so many of us do. I just happened to come across an autism test online and for no particular reason, took it.

It was that, that started me on my path to realising and finally accepting the truth that I was autistic. But, looking back, I sometimes find it hard to understand how I didn't know earlier. So much of my life now, just screams autism at me. But even ignoring the horribly ableist and medieval view I had of what autism was, the main reason why I didn't was probably because I could mask, both from myself and others, so well.

It was, I realise now, a life lived in denial. A denial of how much things bothered me, how much effort I had to put into things. Even a denial of the things I knew I couldn't do. Because this is the thing about appearing to mask so well, for so long. It is, in a sense, a lie. I couldn't mask well, if at all. Not all the time. Not in all situations or circumstances. There were things I just couldn't cope with, or even begin to deal with. But the trick was, that I either knew about them, or learnt the hard way about them and then I could manage my life to avoid them. Because they were things I could live without, without affecting how I appeared to be coping. Things that didn't affect the way I lived, even if they did affect my sense of worth. Because, how broken did you have to be, not to be able to go to crowded events, like a sports match, or a concert? Or to be able to deal with the socialising of a large gathering, or a family event, without having to hide in the kitchen, or forever outside, or break down in a toilet?

It was all part of how I masked myself from myself. The internal masking, as I like to call it. If I couldn't cope, then I was broken. If I couldn't stand something, then I was too picky, or sensitive, or I simply needed to learn to ignore it. And somehow I did learn. I learnt how to cope with noise and smell and visual overwhelm. I learnt to not let things bother me. To a point at least. There was always a step too far, when I couldn't, or didn't have the energy any more to maintain it. And this did take energy, a lot of it. Something I've only realising now that I don't have the energy to spare to even try it. Or the ability to, in many respects now that I know what I was trying so desperately to hide from.

Because when the truth is known, it's far harder to deny it. It's far harder to live the life where appearing to cope, is as good as coping. Where blaming yourself, is easier than seeing others faults. Where ignoring the pain, makes the pain go away. It's hard to see the mask as a benefit and always a good thing, rather than the shield and tool it always was.


Tooden,
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@pathfinder How well you tell the story of self-realisation, Kevin. I am still only capable of responding to certain experiences of others, as they relate them...perhaps because I am not quite 2 years into my own self-realisation. Thank you. @actuallyautistic

Tooden,
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@pathfinder Too true. Already, pushback from those who reject 'political correctness', has thrown new barriers up. Disability of any description is bad. When governments actively create disability through neglect, then punish those who they've disabled, there doesn't seem much hope for us😕. It looks like we'll just have to keep muddling along, as we've learnt to do.😳 @Susan60 @actuallyautistic

Tooden,
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@pathfinder Lawks, yes. Libertarians are allergic to any form of disability. They're afraid that it's contagious. They certainly seem to have made official diagnoses far too expensive, and convoluted. @Susan60 @actuallyautistic

Tooden,
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@pathfinder With everything, that's their solution. We had a state government that simply 'erased' the waiting list for elective surgery - thus 'fixing' the problem🤦‍♀️ The same party is now attacking the present government for 'ramping' at hospital Emergency Departments,(caused by Covid, RSV, & reduced staff...see Covid, RSV, etc.) and the growing Waiting List.🙄 (what's hypocrisy?) @Susan60 @actuallyautistic

luciedigitalni, to random
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Just remembered to get the recycling bin out and the truck came a few short minutes later.

This is going to be a good week

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luciedigitalni, to Dogs
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Tooden,
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@luciedigitalni 'who is autistic', that should read.🙄 Dawg, I can't believe his Mum is a DSW. Surely, she must know the correct terminology, or that saying 'with Autism' is belittling?
I am now 70, an . I still can't handle noisy shopping centres, or go to cinemas, or pretty much anywhere I can't control the volume, or competing spruikers.
I am glad that Jaiden will have a 'relatively' quiet job. It quite probably will provide work for other autistics who can't handle 'noise', and who like dogs. There's a tip for Employment agencies! Suit the person to the work...a revolutionary concept, I know.🤨

Tooden,
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@luciedigitalni Embarrassing, if so. We just had Autism Awareness Month.🤦‍♀️

KarenDorman, (edited ) to Fashion
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Hey friends, does anyone know what either of these objects are?
(They were found in a deceased relative's jewelry box.)
Please boost for added eyes, thanks! 😊

The lettering on the object on the left says:
Hadley Made in USA
Both ends open up to 90⁰ and the main body expands and contracts about a centimetre.

A clever person has said that the object in the right is a Writescope telescoping mechanical pencil. Thanks!

@sewing

Tooden,
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@skydog I wonder. Are they connected to Hadley company from Toledo, founded in 1945?@KarenDorman @sewing

Tooden,
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@skydog Some companies back then, did make novelty items as give-aways to business customer reps. Looks like they made a lot of things with brass. @KarenDorman @sewing

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