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mariyadelano

@mariyadelano@hachyderm.io

Founder of Kalyna Marketing.
Ukrainian in NYC 🇺🇦 | ADHD + BPD | Cat mom 🐱

Pronouns: she/her

Bigotry not allowed. I do not tolerate homophobia, transphobia, racism, misogyny, antisemitism, or fascism.

Art & creative writing account: ‪https://spacelase.rs/@Riakovbasa

tfr #fedi22 #marketing #content #tech #b2b #adhd

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natematias, to random
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I am finding LinkedIn's AI guided responses to be so insightful.

A real value-add to HR conversations that will help me follow employment law.

mariyadelano,
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@natematias oh my god that’s bad 😳

mariyadelano, to random
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I’ve had to make some very difficult decisions as an executive lately.

A team member who was a personal favorite of mine began underperforming and despite many second chances and attempts to help, kept getting worse in terms of their work until they nearly jeopardized the entire project. They also began lashing out at me and other team members in a way that was completely unacceptable.

And yet after letting them go I keep wondering if I was too harsh. If it was my fault. Ugh.

mariyadelano, to random
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Remember to do the things that make you happy.

Yes, even now. Even when you feel like you have a million obligations to get to. Even when you feel like you haven’t earned it yet. Even when it’s “not the right time”.

It’s your life, dammit. Enjoy it. Do the things that make life worth living.

If you’re happy, you’re gonna be able to take care of others and meet your obligations better. You aren’t helping anyone by hurting yourself.

Thank you for coming to my TED talk 😂

mariyadelano,
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@simoncox trust me you don’t want my slide decks I put too many memes on them

mariyadelano, to random
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What started out as one of the best weeks of my life ended up as a complete disaster.

I made one of the worst mistakes in my entire time in business so far, cost myself and my team money, lost trust of people important to me, ended up getting into a 5 day long BPD episode with panic attacks and full delusional paranoia, hurt people I love, and now I’m afraid that tomorrow will bring even more bad news as a result. My mental health is in shambles.

I am so glad to bid this week goodbye.

mariyadelano,
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@pablor thank you. Really hoping things will get better soon.

mariyadelano,
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Wanted to let all of you know that things have gotten much better. I started getting good news the literal next day after posting this.

Everything isn’t completely fixed yet, but on its way. I have a lot of hope!

mariyadelano, to books
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How did The New York Times, one of the world’s most famous and well-established publications, choose to review Geraldine DeRuiter’s ( @everywhereist) new book?

By illustrating her decapitated head on a plate, getting devoured by another woman. No, I’m not joking.

I got mad about it. I wrote about why:

https://www.admdnewsletter.com/platform-responsibility-in-defense-of-geraldine-deruiter/

#books #media #writing #literature #reading #ReadingCommunity #bookstodon

mariyadelano,
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@boby_biq it’s hard to say how successful the book would have been. But as it stands yeah thankfully there has been enough backlash to sell copies of the book, but at what cost? This is so distressing even as a spectator. Can’t imagine the trauma to the author.

mariyadelano,
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@jeromechoo @everywhereist i felt the same way. It was absolutely disgusting.

mariyadelano, to writing
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Platform responsibility.

It should be a basic factor for anyone publishing #content on the internet. “Are we being responsible with the reach and audience trust that we have by publishing this content in this way?”

And yet it seems like big platforms like the #NYT haven't heard of it.

In what world is it okay for one of the world’s biggest newspapers to publish a book review with a graphic of the author’s head getting EATEN????

I'm mad. So I'm #writing. Expect a #newsletter tonight.

#media

mariyadelano, to random
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Last week someone sincerely introduced me as “a LinkedIn influencer”

Idk how to feel about that 😅

mariyadelano, to marketing
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This is my new favorite company testimonial ever.

"This is a cool tool". Totally real. Very descriptive. Such praise. Wow. :blobfoxgooglyconfused:

#SaaS #marketing #funny #testimonial #website

mariyadelano, to internet
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#LinkedIn is down right now so if you're on Mastodon / the Fedi and missing your daily fix of bro content and hustle cringe... I've got the perfect read for you:

https://www.admdnewsletter.com/hustle-bro-culture-is-making-our/

Featuring screenshots of some peak LinkedIn cringe and multiple pyramid scheme references :blobfoxcrylaugh:

#socialMedia #newsletter #marketing #broetry #business #LinkedInOutage

mariyadelano, to random
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I just ran a first full company meeting for my agency and I’m still shaking that was terrifying

Wanted to cancel until 10 minutes before but I can’t really do that given I’m the CEO 😭

Thankfully it seems to have gone okay? I think people liked it????

mariyadelano, to random
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Don’t give up on the internet.

mariyadelano, to random
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Finding a good team really is a success hack.

I can’t share too many details publicly yet but I’ve brought people on into leadership positions and having someone to work with like that and actually lead the company along with me has already been life-changing.

I feel so cared for and supported 🥰 The past two weeks were filled with so much joy and love and gratitude.

And I get to work with such smart freaking people too!! I feel so lucky.

mariyadelano,
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I became a solo founder because I thought I couldn’t get along with others well enough to run a company together.

I’m so glad to have been proven wrong. Trusting others with your company is kind of like trusting them with your baby, and I’ve found it really freaking terrifying.

But it’s been worth it and I can’t even imagine how much better the effects from taking that risk will get over time.

I guess moral of the story is - believe in people? At least sometimes?

mariyadelano,
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I wish I could just tell you all who I’m talking about and what they’re doing, because they are so fantastic I could write public love letters about how great they are.

But I have to stick to this vague anonymous gushing for a few more months 🥲

mariyadelano,
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@GeePawHill it’s as good as some of the best NYC pizza. I truly didn’t think work could be so enjoyable and I could be this happy.

And thank you ☺️

mariyadelano,
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I really wish I could say more this is killing me 😭😭😭

This year I’ve been experiencing some of the happiest and most impactful changes to my business since I’ve started it, and I can’t even share the details 😫😫😫

I’m not good at containing my enthusiasm. This is very difficult!

mariyadelano,
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@pch thank you 🥹🥹

StillIRise1963, to random
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I'm not ceding the nation to these motherfuckers.

mariyadelano,
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@MiriShuli @MHowell @skykiss @StillIRise1963 I would highly suggest reading the book “Don’t Think of an Elephant” (second edition) because it goes into a lot of practical explanations for how to convince people at scale and how to promote particular political messages. It’s what the Republicans have been very good at unfortunately

mariyadelano, to ai
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Come on. This push to summarize all webpages and written content with is ridiculous.

See this example from Search - in what world is this an adequate summary for an 8,000+ word article that takes 43 minutes to read?

The amount of detail, specificity, narrative, and actual arguments that get lost is mind-boggling.

Everything is just… flattened to the most basic and bare-bones facts.

Every unique part of that piece, every voice, personality - stripped away.

Search Engine Land How to 'un-ruin' the internet: The ultimate guide for SEOs Amid unfair industry blame for the failings of the modern web, we aim to challenge stereotypes and spotlight real individuals in SEO. Mariya Delano on November 17, 2023 at 9:00 am | Reading time: 43 minutes

mariyadelano,
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I mean… don’t take my word for it. I know I’m biased as the author.

See for yourself if you think anything of substance was lost in that summary. Here is the original:

https://searchengineland.com/un-ruin-internet-ultimate-guide-seo-434764

mariyadelano,
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@astralcomputing interesting point of comparison, thank you!

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