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elmyra

@elmyra@wandering.shop

Rogue scholar, warrior poet; #trans, #bi, #ace, #queer af; #migrant; #disabled/, #adhd; they/them.

I care (toot/boost) about #socialjustice, #disability, #mecfs, #adhd, #plants, #crafting, #videogames, #scifi, #popularculture, #transrights, #consent, #climatejustice, #fandom, #fanfiction.

The personal is political.

Profile pic alt: selfie of olive-skinned human with dark brown hair looking up skeptically at the camera.

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elmyra, to random
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Semi-regular reminder that using ableist language, not using accessibility accommodations like alt text, and not doing everything in your power to prevent covid transmission makes you ableist, no matter how "liberal", "left-wing", or "radical" you think you are. You are participating in the structural oppression of disabled people.

SallyStrange, to scifi
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10 authors, of whose books I've read at least five:

Ursula Le Guin
Kim Stanley Robinson
Octavia Butler
N. K. Jemisin
Becky Chambers
Iain M. Banks
Martha Wells
M. R. Carey
Lois McMaster Bujold
Vonda McIntyre


@bookstodon

elmyra,
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@SallyStrange @bookstodon I find Novik a little hit and miss but Spinning Silver is very good and the Scholomance series is a good effort at the genre my friend calls "screw you jk rowling". Yoon Ha Lee is superb.

elmyra,
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@SallyStrange @bookstodon

10 authors marginalised on at least one axis of whose books I have read at least 5 and am broadly happy recommending:

Neon Yang
Martha Wells
N. K. Jemisin
Alix E. Harrow
T. Kingfisher
Charles Stross
Alexis Hall
Naomi Novik
Ursula K. LeGuin
Yoon Ha Lee

elmyra, to random
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Am I the only one who's bothered by the "covid is making everyone stupider" discourse? Yes there is credible research showing significant post-covid cognitive slowing (even in the absence of other long covid symptoms). But there's something particularly and insidiously ableist about the way it keeps getting presented as a gotcha.

elmyra,
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I think part of it is the "well even if you're not one of those people with long covid it's still bad" - it feels like further marginalisation of folks with long covid. And the other part is the way intellectual disabilities are still treated even in parts of the disability rights community, let alone in wider society. It's still acceptable to insult someone at stupid or an idiot, and this just feeds into that.

elmyra,
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To be clear, covid is bad, we should be using all available mitigations and working to eliminate it. But we should be making sure our fight against it breaks down rather than shoring up existing power structures.

elmyra, to trans
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Oh hai, we have many new folks! time again.

I'm , , , af; ; / , ; they/them.

I care (and toot/boost) about , , , , , , , , , , , , , , .

I live with Murderface (Coffee-cat).

Come say hi.

elmyra, to random
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Unpopular opinion: I like daylight savings time. I live far enough north (52°) that without it the sun would rise at 3 am in summer and set at 3 pm in winter.

Having said that, a lot of the problems people have aren't actually with DST, they're with the fact that we're being forced to comply with Capitalist Time rather than being able to listen to our bodies and live with nature.

elmyra, to random
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Watching German mastodon going "we need fewer nazi cops but more of the right sort of cops" is painful.

elmyra, to random
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Anarchist accounts, I really need you to start using alt text.

cstross, to random
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Plotting the curve of increasing home broadband speeds I've had since I first got cable in 1998, I expect this to be the speed of my home hook-up some time around 2040. I wonder what I could use it for …?
https://social.edu.nl/@SURF/112274114167483854

elmyra,
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@cstross transferring data from your home particle accelerator, obviously.

elmyra, to trans
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Hello wandering.shop, thanks for having me! time:

I've been on the fediverse since autumn 2022 but had to move over from a Stux instance.

I'm , , , af; , /; ; they/them.

I care (and toot/boost) about , , , , , , , , , , , , .

Come say hi.

elmyra, to mecfs
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crowd, what is your experience with meds?

@mecfs
@adhd

elmyra,
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@hauchvonstaub @mecfs @adhd thanks, that's helpful

elmyra, to random
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Folks I need tech help. I want to be able to see who's outside my front door before I open it. Ideally, before I get up from the sofa. I do not wish to give any data to amazon or the cops. Does a solution exist?

elmyra, to random
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Unpopular opinion: The censorship of the 2023 by the administrators is appalling. But the smug, self-congratulatory language employed particularly by Chris M. Barkley in the report, only just stopping short of declaring that only majority-white western countries should be allowed to host a Worldcon, really fucking grates.

elmyra,
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These alleged bastions of truth, freedom, and free speech include the United States where police kill political dissidents with impunity, and the UK which has recently banned face masks (notably life-saving in a still ongoing pandemic) anywhere near a protest, i.e. anywhere a cop decides they don't like them. I'd like a touch more self-awareness from western commentators please.

elmyra, to disability
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folks, can you point me at some reading on power dynamics in care/caring relationships please?
@mecfs

elmyra, to random
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Murderface has had a productive night of eating mice, giving other cats face bites, and whatever other clever things they do in the out, and now is the snoozing time. Happy

elmyra, to mecfs
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Re LB: 10% of those covid cases (possibly more as protection from boosters has waned) are going to end up as . Half of those long covid cases are going to end up as . Even mild cases that resolve quickly will carry life-long risk of complications, other diseases, and an earlier death. We have cut everyone's life expectancy, and continue to do so the longer we "live with" this preventable disease.

Aleenaa, to art
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Boring classes actually bring out the artist in you 🥰

@mastodonindians

elmyra,
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@Aleenaa @mastodonindians this is wonderful

cstross, to random
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That thing where your publisher sends you a congrats card for making an award shortlist. And it comes with a gift box full of amazing artisanal macaroons.

Which would be great if not for the fact that (a) I'm diabetic and (b) my spouse is vegan (hint: macaroons contain eggs, which are not vegan) and (c) spouse is also allergic to eggs.

(This is a subset of the "my aunt always sends me a pair of socks she knitted for Christmas, and they don't fit" etiquette problem!)

elmyra,
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@cstross how does @Menhit feel about macaroons?

Binder, to random
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    @Binder one true password

    MsHearthWitch, to knitting
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    On repeat 10 out of 21 for this shawl, then a large heavily beaded border section.

    This section has beads too but they're small and frosted and harder to see, but I'm hoping they'll catch sunlight nicely.

    ~220 stitches per row at this point, +2 every RS row. Each repeat is 12 rows total, so an increase of 12 stitches.

    It's gonna be... a lot of stitches at the end. But damn I'm getting good at continental purling!

    @knitting @fiberarts (pls remove groups if u reply)

    #knitting #WIP #MySlowLife

    elmyra,
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    @MsHearthWitch thank you 😄

    elmyra,
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    @MsHearthWitch that is lovely. What's the pattern please?

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