cferdinandi, to ADHD
@cferdinandi@mastodon.social avatar

🐝 New on ADHD ftw! Fun workplaces are a nightmare for ADHD https://adhdftw.com/fun-workplaces-are-a-nightmare-for-adhd/

JEkis, to infosec

I really want to make a career in the field. Security is my passion. I haven't yet decided which role I'd like to get involved in. All I know so far is that Malware Analysis isn't for me. I'm interested to hear from folks in the field who are , have , or both. What roles have been a good fit for you? I'm guessing that Incident Response would be far too high stress, but I could be wrong about that. Boosts appreciated.

nekohayo, (edited ) to ADHD
@nekohayo@mastodon.social avatar

/ / / folks, plz compare:

In your experience, would UX from the 2nd link distract, overstimulate or bother you in a way that represents an issue?

Note: I'm not the one proposing this, I'm not even affected. I ask for the sake of others; polling for statistical sample size.

KitMuse, to ADHD
@KitMuse@eponaauthor.social avatar

I am doing a survey about yoga and neurodivergent folk and your boosts would be appreciated.

If you are neurodivergent (self-realized or Dx'd, it's all good here), and fall under the vast ND umbrella, I'd love to hear from you. Quick 6-7 question survey and you can remain anon if you want.

Thank you!

https://forms.gle/cFa6RzpfDdbfnt6b9

@actuallyautistic @neurodiversity @disability

cferdinandi, to ADHD
@cferdinandi@mastodon.social avatar

🐝 New on ADHD ftw! The Bluey episode about ADHD https://adhdftw.com/the-bluey-episode-about-adhd/

stina_marie, to art
@stina_marie@horrorhub.club avatar

Sitting down to make art & getting overwhelmed with the possibilities. I almost wish I was REALLY good at one specific type of art versus decent at a bunch of them. I know I could seriously level up if I genuinely dedicated myself to ONE particular style & medium, but I'd get so freaking BORED.

cferdinandi, to ADHD
@cferdinandi@mastodon.social avatar

🐝 New on ADHD ftw! Things you can do if you're not ready to ask for ADHD accommodations at work https://adhdftw.com/things-you-can-do-if-youre-not-ready-to-ask-for-adhd-accommodations-at-work/

autism101, to random
@autism101@mstdn.social avatar

Do you use subtitles? I'm using them more and more when they are available? It helps me to keep track of what's going on, and I like that I can turn the sound down when if it gets overwhelming.

PixysJourney, to actuallyautistic
@PixysJourney@beige.party avatar

Question to fellow folks... :confusedparrot:

For what sort of toots could I use hashtags like or the previous two I just used?

I Toot quite a bit about me and my quirky way life. But I never really know if I "should" add any ND hashtags as the "silly" things I Toot about are quite normal to me. If that makes sense 🤔...

I'm proud enough, these days, of who I am. But I wonder if and when it would be good to add some of these tags... Maybe it could help connect with other peeps like me 😇.

Fankoos 🫶🏻 for your help! 🌸

@actuallyautistic

:boosts_ok_gay:

cferdinandi, to ADHD
@cferdinandi@mastodon.social avatar

🐝 New on ADHD ftw! Fidgeting and stimming https://adhdftw.com/fidgeting-and-stimming/

ashleyspencer, to actuallyautistic
@ashleyspencer@autistics.life avatar

Autistic burnout + untreated ADHD =

impulse control issues + inability to force yourself to do anything + drained by no ability to function

Lots of walking pass a mess unable to make yourself clean it, then blame yourself for it.

Distracted, can't focus enough to do fun things and/or take care of yourself.

Forgetting everything. So burned out you can't remember important things + made worse by ADHD.

1/3

@actuallyautistic

adelinej, to ADHD
@adelinej@thecanadian.social avatar

“AuDHD represents a blend of ADHD and autistic traits, leading to unique experiences and challenges. When the underlying needs of ADHD and autism interact, it can feel like a tug of war for the AuDHDer - Do I need routine or spontaneity? Newness or familiarity? Busyness or a steady pace? Though these examples are quite simplistic, they illustrate the internal confusion of the AuDHDer attempting to address their needs.”

https://www.relationalpsych.group/articles/understanding-audhd-the-co-occurence-of-autism-and-adhd

aby, to Autism
@aby@aus.social avatar

Unpacking the dishwasher and then making my bed with one hand.. because I'm holding a bag of oats in my other hand.

Why? Because I have adhd and got distracted before making breakfast, so I've been carrying oats around the house for the last 20 minutes without noticing.

adelinej, to random
@adelinej@thecanadian.social avatar

An online friend announced a few days ago that her son, diagnosed with ADHD a few months ago, has been also diagnosed as autistic and with Tourette syndrome. It took 3 years but I’m happy for him and his mum because they finally know! And she thinks that his dad he’s probably autistic too because it runs in the family. 😉

smu, to random German
@smu@digitalcourage.social avatar

Unpopular Opinion:
Ich kann es nicht mehr hören, wenn nun überall auf den Stärken von neurodivergenten Menschen herumgeritten wird.

Wenn wir das selbst tun, um nach unserer Diagnose aus Depression, Trauma und Burnout wieder herauszufinden - alles fein. Gegen Empowerment sage ich gar nichts.

Wenn aber neurotypische Menschen (v.a. aus der Wirtschaft) unsere (angeblichen) Stärken betonen, so als wären wir allesamt Genies, dann werde ich misstrauisch. Das klingt als wären wir nur eine weitere Resource, die man nach belieben ausnutzen kann. Und wer bei diesem Spiel nicht (mehr) mitmachen kann oder will, fällt dann halt durchs Raster - wie durchgekaut und ausgespuckt.

Das ist genauso toxisch, wie Bodypositivity. Man kommt von einem Extrem ins andere. Es ist absolut in Ordnung, neutral zu sich zu stehen. Wir sind wie wir sind und das ist völlig ok so.

Der Wert eines Menschen bemisst sich nicht an seiner Leistungsfähigkeit!

wakehamAMR, to ADHD
@wakehamAMR@mastodon.social avatar

In a vain attempt to think on something else.

Saw this on Facebook support group page. Hit me right in the feels.

lifewithtrees, to actuallyadhd
@lifewithtrees@mstdn.social avatar

A job post that explicitly requires someone with "high executive functioning"

Is this ?

@actuallyautistic @actuallyadhd

Richard_Littler, to asd
@Richard_Littler@mastodon.social avatar

If you've ever wondered what it's like being autistic with ADHD, it's a bit like this for me. (I always assumed everybody thought like this).


@actuallyautistic

btaroli, to ADHD
@btaroli@federate.social avatar

Today. Was. Just. Too. Much.

Endless work meetings. Slack. Interruptions. HOA Committee Texts. School meetings. School district meetings. Music lesson.

At some point at about 3pm I just had enough. And when this happens I tend to leave chats. Cancel or ignore messages or meetings.

I have to for my sanity. I have learned that if I push on I truly burn out and am not useful for anyone.

Why does our society encourage this???

@actuallyautistic

jbzfn, to ai
@jbzfn@mastodon.social avatar

I'm trying very hard to avoid getting sucked into the AI fad. It reminds me a lot of Crypto and Reactjs irrational exuberance.

Gonna wait til things calm down to resume my research.

It looks like my country will be forced to act as a giant battery for these global gibberish generators. Like it wasn't bad enough with crypto farms left and right.

hosford42, to Autism
@hosford42@techhub.social avatar

This could be the connection between Ehlers-Danlos and neurodivergence. (People with EDS, like me, are 7 times as likely to be autistic and 5 times as likely to have ADHD -- also like me.)

Cartilage-Like Structures Key to Brain Plasticity - Neuroscience News
https://neurosciencenews.com/brain-plasticity-memory-cs6-26042/








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ashleyspencer, (edited ) to actuallyautistic
@ashleyspencer@autistics.life avatar

For AuDHD:

Which terms do you prefer to use?

Do you use ‘have’ or ‘I am’ to describe your autism and ADHD?

Personally, I’m the first one and use ‘I am’ to describe both.

Just curious to see how common each one is. 🙂

@actuallyautistic
@audhd

KitMuse, to ADHD
@KitMuse@eponaauthor.social avatar

I know people with estrogen have said their ADHD gets worse during perimenopause/menopause, but I'm wondering if people with testosterone 50+ also notice their Autism/ADHD symptoms getting worse. Especially more "inattentive"/stuck in their thoughts.

I feel like we really need more research on all of this.

@actuallyautistic @neurodiversity

aby, to Autism
@aby@aus.social avatar

People:
The universe is giving us the intense aurora sightings because it knew we need to see beauty in the world right now

Me, an autistic:
No. It's just solar storms.

lifewithtrees, to actuallyadhd
@lifewithtrees@mstdn.social avatar

“What do you want to do 5 years from now?”

🤔

😬

🤯

I am having a difficult time visioning 5 years from now, what I want to do and then how to get there.

Some of this is due to the chaos of the last few years, but I also think it could be a challenge due to

Also I am 42 so midlife stuff?

That all said, how do you vision 5 years from now?

@actuallyadhd @actuallyautistic

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