autism101, (edited ) to actuallyautistic
@autism101@mstdn.social avatar

Some autistic people find making phone calls extremely stressful and unpleasant and will avoid them at all costs.

Please don’t try and force your communication preferences on others.

image: https://shreyadoodles.com
@actuallyautistic

KydiaMusic, to Creativity
@KydiaMusic@mastodon.social avatar
TeacherGriff, to ADHD
@TeacherGriff@mastodon.coffee avatar

Statistically speaking, someone here on Mastodon probably needs to be reminded to move their laundry to the dryer. So be kind and share this toot around. Every bit helps.

mariyadelano, (edited ) to fediverse
@mariyadelano@hachyderm.io avatar

Alright. Gonna write a piece on the impact of #neurodivergent users on our culture in the #Fediverse

So let’s start with a poll. Boost please!

Are you neurodivergent?

(Self-diagnosis is valid, I know how freaking hard it can be to get the official one!)

@actuallyautistic #ADHD #AuDHD #Autism #ASD #neurodiversity

SECOND POLL WITH MORE TYPES OF NEURODIVERGENCE: https://hachyderm.io/@mariyadelano/110753113559931102

wakehamAMR, to ADHD
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SleepyCatten, to mentalhealth

PSA

If you're struggling right now & finding yourself able to do less than your hypothetical best, whatever you can do currently is you giving 100%.

It doesn't matter if you're only achieving 20% or less of your theoretical maximum: that 20% is your new 100%.

So, please be kinder to yourself, okay? :PleadingFace: :MentalHealthFlagHeart: :DisabilityPrideHeart: :NeurodiversitySymbol:

LaserMistress, to random
@LaserMistress@mstdn.social avatar

Autism facts I did not know:

  • The first person to ever be diagnosed autistic died last year.

  • Autism and ADHD were considered fully mutually exclusive, in the DSM-5, until 2013, and comorbidity rare for a while after.

  • Research shows ~50-80% of Autistic folks show ADHD traits, and ~30-40% of ADHD folks show Autistic traits.

  • The Monotropism questionnaire, which blows previous unified research and theories away, came out last summer.

Sources below.

Sterkpil, to disability

The horrible things we as disabled people are pushed through "because we're able to" do them, is incredibly concerning.

It so often pushes us into survival mode, where getting through the thing is our only focus, and it DEEPLY damages our health and wellbeing in the process.

We deserve the accommodations we need to actually live, not just survive, and as far as possible, thrive and be happy.

autism101, to actuallyautistic
@autism101@mstdn.social avatar

It is often hard for me to switch tasks. Especially when I get into a hyperfocus state. 🧘

I've always struggled to explain to others why it is so difficult. 🤔

“Tendril theory" by Erin Human explains it really well.

image: @theeisforerin

@actuallyautistic

pixelbud, to ADHD

Best visualization of lol.


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aby, to KindActions
@aby@aus.social avatar

I'm a disabled Indigenous queer person who exists on Jobseeker, which means almost 50% ($269/week) below the poverty line ($489/week).

After living in the same house for almost 10 years, I recently had to move as the new landlords decided to renovate so they could increase the rent.

Moving has cost me over $4000, and ended up putting me almost $2500 in debt.

I didn't get rent assistance for the first 6 weeks of living here because they lost my lease copy and they're refusing to backpay it. So I started the first 6 weeks here adding over $180 a fortnight to that debt as well.

I'm in a new house with a new landlord, and am barely able to make rent at the moment, let alone cover bills and food.

I hate asking, but please consider helping if you can - I'd be super grateful.

https://www.paypal.me/kittensmeow

https://ko-fi.com/abydarling

aby, to KindActions
@aby@aus.social avatar

I'm a disabled Indigenous queer person who exists on Jobseeker, which means almost 50% ($269/week) below the poverty line ($489/week).

After living in the same house for almost 10 years, I recently had to move as the new landlords decided to renovate so they could increase the rent.

Moving has cost me over $4000, and ended up putting me almost $2500 in debt.

Because of moving, my JobSeeker payments have been decreased by over $100 a fortnight until Centrelink approves my lease paperwork and I can get rent assistance again.

I'm in a new house with a new landlord, and am barely able to make rent at the moment, let alone cover bills and food.

I hate asking, but please consider helping if you can - I'd be super grateful.

https://www.paypal.me/kittensmeow

https://ko-fi.com/abydarling

aby, to ADHD
@aby@aus.social avatar

Can we stop using mental illness as a label when talking about police brutality and white supremacy?

No, they aren't psychopaths. They're racists.

They aren't sociopaths. They're racists.

They aren't narcissists. They're racist.

If you label them as being mentally ill, you're:
a) being shitty towards those of us with mental illness

b) giving them an excuse for their bullshit.

Please stop it.

#Disability #audhd #autism #adhd #Ableism #racism #whiteness #WhiteSupremacy #AbolishPolice #AbolishPrisons #Abolition #anarchism

autism101, to actuallyautistic
@autism101@mstdn.social avatar

As autistic people, we don’t need to apologize to others for our differences.

Illustration by Izzy @autieselfcare

@actuallyautistic

SleepyCatten, to okbuddyretard

As someone who falls into 3 of these categories, I feel very called out by my own meme 😅

+ + +

looneybyron, to random
@looneybyron@autistics.life avatar

I’m thinking of getting officially diagnosed for ADHD and go on meds for that. Will that (negatively) affect my autistic self? Anyone got any input on that?

aby, to KindActions
@aby@aus.social avatar

I'm a disabled Indigenous queer person who exists on Jobseeker, which means almost 50% ($269/week) below the poverty line ($489/week).

After moving house a few months ago (the first time in 10 years), I didn't get rent assistance because of a centrelink mistake. That mistake combined with the moving costs has left me almost $3000 in debt.

I'm in a new house with a new landlord, and am barely able to cover my portion of the rent at the moment, let alone pay for bills, medical costs, and food.

Please if you could consider helping, I'd be super grateful.

https://www.paypal.me/kittensmeow

https://ko-fi.com/abydarling

pitrouillesque, to tea French
@pitrouillesque@ohai.social avatar

Hi everyone! I want new faces in my tl
If you're open and curious, and/or like :







and/or play or learn it

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speak about , ,

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boosting is sweet and appreciated, feel free to follow me or just interact with this if you don't want to. I don't mind people not following ♥
thx ♥

EmilyMoranBarwick, to ADHD
@EmilyMoranBarwick@mastodon.social avatar

I ate the exact same lunch from kindergarten through high school.

Then I really "mixed it up" in adulthood and would eat the same lunch for 2-5 years before shifting to the "next lunch" phase.

Yet it took till my mid-30s to learn I'm 🙃

...just one of so many things I look back at and think "All the signs were there!"

//

On a related note: I know I'm not alone in having my missed...

...then misdiagnosed as neuroses 🙄


@actuallyautistic

st0neybrat, to ADHD
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autism101, to actuallyautistic
@autism101@mstdn.social avatar

It is easy to get overcommitted, which can lead to autistic burnout. Learn to say no to some things. That is exercising good self-care.

image by: @adulting_with_autism_

@actuallyautistic

arcadetoken, to random
@arcadetoken@autistics.life avatar

Inside you there are two wolves
Autistic wolf: Will you stop and get back to the routine?!
ADHD wolf: Make him say bees again!!
Me, echolalia: BEEEEEEEES!!
ADHD wolf: AHAHAHAHAHAHAH
Autistic wolf: Alright that was funny but seriously can you please stop

hannu_ikonen, to ADHD
@hannu_ikonen@med-mastodon.com avatar

Living with in America in 2023 is having to ration your low risk, long-term substance abuse risk reducing, stimulant medication because Richard Nixon decided he wanted to hurt black people with the War on Drugs as a strategy to retain power.

*Hat tip to all the kids on Quillivant who were forced off by Trumps war on Brown Puerto Ricans. I see you ❤️

BZBrainz, to Autism
@BZBrainz@mastodonbooks.net avatar

@actuallyautistic Have you seen this resource yet?

“The Autism Books by Autistic Authors Project is an (ongoing) attempt to catalogue all books — non-fiction and fiction — written about and related to autism by Autistic authors.”

There are over 1,000 books catalogued! Including mine and other authors I see in my feed here on Mastodon.

https://autismbooksbyautisticauthors.com
@bookstodon

inherentlee, to ADHD

I might actually get a real shop to stock these and I'm extremely hyped. Normalize diagnosis being a positive and helpful thing.

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