JackTheCat, to random
@JackTheCat@mastodon.scot avatar

At what time of day is it acceptable to eat quality chocolate? 🤔

exador23, to hiking
@exador23@m.ai6yr.org avatar

High Country News has a nice piece up today about Trail

When is it appropriate to call out bad trail etiquette? https://www.hcn.org/articles/when-is-it-appropriate-to-call-out-bad-trail-etiquette/

“Is this something that just bothers me specifically, or is this something that is a safety concern?”

If it’s something that endangers other people or the environment — throwing rocks off a cliff onto a trail below or building a campfire during a fire ban — Matias suggests reaching out to park officials. But if you’re in a wilderness setting, Mapp suggests acting with empathy & respect, rather than accusation. Start, for example, by learning where the other person is coming from and why they may be acting in a certain way.

CultureDesk, (edited ) to food
@CultureDesk@flipboard.social avatar

Apparently it's now a thing for dinner party hosts to ask their guests for money to help with groceries. Eater reporter Amy McCarthy says that's not OK, and offers some suggestions for cutting costs if you want to host but can't afford to. What's your experience with this? Pick as many answers as apply and share any fun stories in the comments.

https://www.eater.com/24083611/is-it-okay-to-ask-dinner-party-guests-to-venmo-you

For more stories like this, follow @Eater's @eater Magazine.

j9t, to random
@j9t@mas.to avatar

Declining 1:1 Meetings Without a Message Is Rude:

It happens everywhere, but it sets a bad example.

https://meiert.com/en/blog/declining-meetings/

acm_redfox, to Plants
@acm_redfox@jawns.club avatar

tfw some of kid's friends give her actual house plants for her birthday. I mean, she loves plants, but (1) it's close to giving somebody a pet without clearing it in advance, and (2) kid will leave for college in two years, and, um...

BonnettsBooks, to random
@BonnettsBooks@mastodonbooks.net avatar

4/5/24 — Open 6-9p Mask Recommended. No open drinks, please.

It seems I haven't seen the "netiquette" portmanteau in years. Is 'net passé?
It's now apps; ne pas? I suppose "appliquette" is too much like "appliqué." If we apply ourselves we can stick a better name on good behavior via social media. An obvious choice sounds rude, making it a perfect descriptor for many spaces... just, "socquette."

tiffanycli, to random
@tiffanycli@mastodon.social avatar

If someone is CCed in an email you receive, and you respond to that email, it’s common knowledge that you’re supposed to reply all to include the CCed person, right? This is a known thing.

doboprobodyne,
@doboprobodyne@mathstodon.xyz avatar

@drustevenson @tiffanycli

I'd second this. If you're the sort of person who likes mail written to you, rather than the often tangential involvement in receiving a carbon copy of mail to someone else, then you may try to spare others from receiving such carbon copies themselves. Or you might have no strong feelings, and as was already mentioned, your email client's reply button default is just repy-to-sender-only.

obrien_kat, to random
@obrien_kat@mastodon.world avatar

Hot take: grosser than taking your shoes off on a flight is following it by putting your feet against window and poking person in front of you with your feet.
Asqueroso 🤮

Tattooed_mummy, to random
@Tattooed_mummy@cupoftea.social avatar

How to eat spaghetti.

How to eat spaghetti

RedtheBean, to internet
@RedtheBean@mastodon.social avatar

I DO NOT HATE ANY PERSON. I HATE CAPITALISM. LIKING EACH OTHER IS HOW WE WILL END THAT SHIT. GOT IT?

CultureDesk, to Travel
@CultureDesk@flipboard.social avatar

It’s a frustrating experience for travelers to arrive at their gate only to be told “I’m sorry, you’ll have to check your bag.” Passengers are finding new, and not necessarily ethical, ways of getting to their seat first and, often, to the detriment of the rest of us. Ahead of a busy spring and summer of travel, USA Today’s Christopher Elliott reviews what is, and isn’t, allowed with it comes to boarding a flight early. https://flip.it/KY0oQX

qkslvrwolf, (edited ) to chat
@qkslvrwolf@mastodon.social avatar

I get this this is an interesting etiquette thing, but in a chat app (slack, etc), I strongly prefer no-salutations before diving into the discussions subject.

How do ya'll feel?

elizarde, to knitting
@elizarde@phire.place avatar

So I've got a new pattern coming out next week, and while I (of course, as a completely unbiased person, ahem) think it's pretty neat, I'm not completely sure about the etiquette about mentioning it in a marketing context here. I mean, part of what I love so much about this space is that I'm not being sold to every minute. But! I love seeing what art people have for sale here too. So what's the feeling here about announcing things like new pattern/art/whatever releases?

tc_morekindness, to random
@tc_morekindness@c.im avatar

Etiquette question. I had a handyman at my house yesterday fixing some things, and he couldn't seem to stop coughing. I should have asked him to put on a mask, but I was wearing a mask and I stayed pretty far away from him. Would it have been impolite to ask him if he had covid? I also felt bad for him because it was cold outside, and I don't think he should have been out there working with that cough. Thoughts?


CultureDesk, to psychology
@CultureDesk@flipboard.social avatar

New research suggests that people overestimate how big a deal it is if they say no to an invitation. "Invitees have exaggerated concerns about how much the decline will anger the inviter, signal that the invitee does not care about the inviter [or] make the inviter unlikely to offer another invitation in the future," the report says. Here's more from NPR. Tell us in the comments if you struggle to say no to invitations.

https://flip.it/g3xCr9

callisto, to random
@callisto@disabled.social avatar

question for my community: If I take the risk of going to a potluck event, is it rude not to bring food, when I won't be unmasking to partake of anyone else's?

courtcan, to random
@courtcan@mastodon.social avatar

I don't know why I continue to be surprised when people read exactly what they want to read instead of what's actually written.

Hope springeth eternal, I suppose.

YES, THIS IS A SUBTOOT

courtcan,
@courtcan@mastodon.social avatar

Also:

Y'ALL.

If you're arguing with other posters in a thread

and the OP is not joining in the argument

then you need to TAKE THE HINT and untag OP from your argument.

That is all.

CultureDesk, (edited ) to books
@CultureDesk@flipboard.social avatar

We've got 5,000 followers 🎉! To celebrate, we're asking which of these stories that we've previously shared on @Flipboard's The Culture Desk is your favorite — these were all popular picks at the time, and give a good sense of what we're about. We'll link the full stories below. And we want to know what works for you, so please tell us in the comments what you'd like to see more (or less) of.

CultureDesk,
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sonny, (edited ) to GNOME
@sonny@floss.social avatar

The GNOME Code of Conduct applies to everyone including contributors and users/participants/reporters.

Don't hesitate to politely remind each other

• Be friendly
• Be empathetic.
• Be respectful.
• Be considerate.
• Be patient and generous.
• Try to be concise.

https://conduct.gnome.org/

See thread for a Markdown formatted excerpt ready to copy and paste in our online spaces.

the_roamer, (edited )

@sonny

Excellent advice for all online communication, including for our conversations here on Fedi.

ahimsa_pdx, to mastodon
@ahimsa_pdx@disabled.social avatar

I follow a lot of hashtags hoping I'll see posts about those topics.

I understand that individuals may not want to use hashtags. Maybe they forget, or they don't know which tags to use, or don't care about reach.

But I'm not sure why some organizations that post on Mastodon don't use hashtags.

There's no algorithm boosting posts. If you want those posts to be seen by more people I think it makes sense to add at least a few relevant hashtags.

Am I missing something?

hippyjo,

@ahimsa_pdx @santoperdido

As an old guy with over twenty years in the accessibility game, a master's degree in instructional design, and a life long aficionado of reading, writing, and all things creative, I offer this opinion: You are doing everything correctly, and I approve completely.

Even without a screenreader, the hashtags break the flow, and render the entire paragraph more difficult to process.

Natural text has a flowing element to it, and the hashtags are little anchors breaking the flow.

Ask any typographer about text flow of different font faces and get ready for a long discourse. These things are known...

In addition, taking the time and space to list hashtags as a closing block provides an opportunity to reflect on what you are trying to communicate. Always a good thing to have thoughtful posts instead of adding more brainless garbage to the web.

So there you have it, in my admittedly over educated and incredibly biased opinion...


DopeGhoti, to mastodon

When replying to a thread or toot which itself has a number of Hashtags, is it preferable to echo those selfsame tags in the reply, or is that association inferred by way of the connection to the original post?

joel, to random
@joel@fosstodon.org avatar

I have been having some nice conversations via email lately and it's been almost therapeutic for me.

Except for those that leave the whole previous email at the bottom, but because I like the conversation itself, I am giving them a pass...

Still... https://useplaintext.email/#etiquette

kagan, to accessibility
@kagan@wandering.shop avatar

Question for : Someone posted an awesome image with a great concept, but the alt text leaves out so much context as to make it incomprehensible to non-sighted users.

I'd love to re-post with better alt text. But I don't want to strip credit from the person with the original idea. But I also don't want to "call them out" for the poor alt text.

I can't just post it as a comment; it'd take too many characters. (Alts allow 1500! Comments, only 500.)

Thoughts?

brian, to technology

"What’s fundamentally missing in our is a sense of , a broad set of social norms and expectations which set a baseline of dignity and respect."
🙏🏼 https://d3e.co/wc

@caseorganic shares guidelines for in . Thanks, Amber!

selzero, to mastodon
@selzero@syzito.xyz avatar

After the discovery of a racist account yesterday, @PSiReN went through other accounts on the instance and discovered the instance is a cesspit of racism, including constant use of the N word, and accusations that minorities are criminals.

Therefore Syzito.xyz is defederating from its first instance, @mugicha.club.

What is normal etiquette in these circumstances, should we ping their admin?

PSiReN,

@Melpomene @selzero

I don't believe there is an for ...

I certainly wouldn't bother to to the / that their is ...

They'll ...

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