@JoscelynTransient@chaosfem.tw
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JoscelynTransient

@JoscelynTransient@chaosfem.tw

Most of the alphabet soup: Queer Bi Lesbian and Non-binary Trans Woman.

Disclaimer: I am a bimbo, so assume that any claims I share are likely more nuanced and careful than my ditsy ass can put into words at any moment. Apologies in advance. 😅

#ProfessionalTranssexual
#BimboAcademia
#ADHDisaster

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Patreon: https://patreon.com/JoscelynTranspiring

Gender Euphoria Basics:
Gender Euphoria Basics for Trans Fems (https://chaosfem.tw/@JoscelynTransient/110226818047150799)

Transpiring Considerations: https://chaosfem.tw/@JoscelynTransient/109886947900877778

Trans Music Monday:
https://chaosfem.tw/@JoscelynTransient/110911825722130749

Sapphic Music Sundays:
https://chaosfem.tw/@JoscelynTransient/111359295995560251

Profile picture: Photo of me dressed as Dr. Harleen Quinzel lowering her glasses and looking inquisitively at camera

Banner image: A comic panel of Harley Quinn saying "mmm...waffles" and daydreaming about a half-pug, half-waffle

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JoscelynTransient, to random
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Random thought: When people started sharing artist's work without their permission on Napster, there was a freakout by corporations and wealthy artists, and it was criminalized. When corporations started sharing artist's work without their permission through "AI," laws were changed to make it easier and corporations forced it on everyone.

It's almost like whoever owns the means of production will bend the media and government to increase their profits without regard to a consistent ethos. And that whatever they do will be at odds with the interests of those that actually do the work to produce things. Hmmmm.... 🧐

JoscelynTransient, (edited ) to random
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gulp

If you're a US citizen, please contact your senators and representatives about this, ESPECIALLY if they are democrats. Ask them to not support these bills with these anti-trans amendments attached.

I didn't realize the latest version of these has also attempted to ban all federal funding to any hospital that provides gender-affirming care (esp. puberty blockers / HRT), meaning hospitals and HMOs would probably be bullied into dropping almost all gender-affirming care across the entire US.

If these are approved, the world for trans USians will become very narrow and many of us will not be able to live as trans people anymore.

https://www.erininthemorning.com/p/national-anti-trans-bans-loom-will?utm_medium=email

JoscelynTransient, (edited ) to random
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I applied for a new job last night on indeed, and it required a "management skills test" in addition to the application itself. This included a question about how to best coerce your employees to "return to office" even though most them are working remotely and being productive anyway. Like, what the fresh hell is this?

And I should note that it included absolutely zero response options for "don't be an ableist bitch and at least continue hybrid work to enable people with disabilities and especially vulnerable to COVID to keep their jobs." This wasn't the org's fault, as this is like a standardized "test" by the platform, but it sure says something to me that this is being ideologically inserted as something they think employers want you to be prepared to do.

May they step on loose Legos and mysteriously bruise their elbow.

JoscelynTransient, (edited ) to trans
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Poll for TRANS & NONBINARY people:

I want to do an informal survey to get a sense of the age demographics of trans people and at what age they started transitioning or presenting openly. This is the UPDATED version of the earlier poll.

INSTRUCTIONS: Please answer this poll about your current age, then go down the thread to find the poll for your current age demographic and answer the second poll there about transition/presentation age.

Thanks ahead of time to all who participate! PLEASE BOOST

#Trans #Transgender #Queer #NonBinary #Enby

QUESTION: What is your current age group?

JoscelynTransient, to harleyquinn
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Wait, so both Deadpool and Harley Quinn are bi/pan, and they are both some of the only characters of their respective franchises that can engage in meta-commentary....is this a secret bi/pan stereotype? Does everyone believe we have the ability to engage in meta-commentary to an unseen audience and break the fourth wall on reality?!

Joscelyn turns to camera Little do they know, right? Shhh...this is just between you and me...

HeavenlyPossum, to random
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There’s a genre of person who can easily recognize the Holodomor as a genocide by the Soviet state against Ukrainians but will deny that the Israeli state’s starvation blockade of Gaza constitutes genocide.

There’s another genre of person who can easily recognize genocide in Gaza but will deny the Holodomor.

In reality, these two genres are just cheering squads for different states—people who have chosen to recognize or deny genocide based on the national identity of the perpetrators. To them, the world is a team sport and what really matters is whether their favored team is scoring points or not.

JoscelynTransient,
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@jhall251 @HeavenlyPossum hate to do this, but, um actually, as someone who is trained in the anthropology of violence, the anthropological record generally demonstrates genocide to be rare before states or state-like social organization (I'm including ancient and medieval states like the Babylonians and Mayans). There were certainly wars and acts of violence by past cultures, but it looked very different. There is little evidence to support a systematic elimination of a people or culture, even among groups taking land from others through violence. Wars between groups that weren't states also appeared to have generally involved fewer deaths.

Part of this is because humans generally don't enjoy doing violence to each other. They require systems of both militaristic social organization and cultural processes like dehumanization to engage in that kind of violence.

JoscelynTransient, to animals
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JoscelynTransient, to trans
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Fedi followers:

Would anyone be willing to help back a kickstarter (or equivalent) so I could take time off to turn my "How to Girl: Guide to Gender Euphoria for Trans Fems" into an actual book?

If you're curious, the thread that first launched this project is here: https://chaosfem.tw/@JoscelynTransient/110226818047150799

Since I am looking at a period of being out of work again, I am thinking this is a good opportunity to prioritize this. But I would need to secure enough funds to help pay my end of the rent in my household for a few months at least. Can you comment if you would be willing to contribute to such a kickstarter so I can get a sense if there's interest?

(Also, if anyone has suggestions for a platform other than kickstarter to use for that purpose, please leave me a recommendation and I'll look into it!)

JoscelynTransient, (edited ) to transgender
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ANNOUNCEMENT:
Launching "How to Gender Euphoria" as a zine!!!

Subscribe at: https://patreon.com/JoscelynTranspiring

So, I've been promising to turn my thread on gender euphoria advice (https://chaosfem.tw/@JoscelynTransient/110226818047150799) into something more. Well, the time has come: announcing the "How to Gender Euphoria" zine!

The goal is to create a zine that I will publish every two months. Each issue will focus on an area or topic of gender euphoria, including practical how-to's, short essays reflecting on gendery things, and even an advice column! Yes, you and anyone else can send in questions about how to pursue your euphoria!

The first several issues will be focused upon gender euphoria for trans fems, but if I get enough support I can help pay for trans masc contributors to join the project and expand to trans masc focused issues. That's the goal anyway. If this goes really well, we may branch out into other topics and areas as well.

JoscelynTransient, (edited ) to trans
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Need help deciding what topics to focus on for the first few issues of (fundraising now to launch the new zine: https://chaosfem.tw/@JoscelynTransient/111230406931952571).

Please vote for the topic you are most excited to see discussed and get advice on! And feel free to add others in the comments!

Please BOOST!

JoscelynTransient, to random
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Does anybody else know why so many cis people are blissfully unaware of the anti-trans laws that are passing in the US and the increase in anti-trans hate?

Among people I meet day to day, friends and former coworkers, and my family, I keep finding cis people surprised when I tell them that there are now anti-trans laws on the books in like half the states and when I explain the proposed or current law in their state. Heck, a lot of folks also unaware of the high rate of anti-trans violence even in Southern California. Some of them look really disturbed when I explain how trans people using the bathroom in Florida is effectively a crime now.

These are people who are ostensibly allies and are just completely unaware. I understand some people don't follow the news much. I get that people aren't as likely to follow news that doesn't directly affect them. But how is there this big a blind spot in most of the population when it's a main talking point of one of only two major parties?

JoscelynTransient, to trans
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Looking for recommendations: does anybody know of fellowships or scholarships for pursuing master's in social work or counseling to become a licensed therapist/counselor?

I am a bi lesbian trans woman living in California, and considering a career pivot into becoming a licensed therapist or counselor, but like...how the heck can I cover the cost of pursuing that? Search engines have be enshittified to the point it's hard to be confident that I'm not missing something obvious, so hoping maybe someone on the fediverse knows some options other than just students loans from FAFSA.

(Please boost to help me crowdsource some knowledge!)

JoscelynTransient, to trans
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We really need to educate people on statistical reasoning and mixed methods research...A RANT THREAD (1/?)

Okay, so, cards on the table, I am published as a mixed methods, social science researcher and have helped co-author multiple reports on LGBTQIA+ public mental health and community experiences. Let's just say, I ain't no amateur on this topic.

So, something that drives me nuts in conversations about trans healthcare and especially trans youth gender-affirming care is that people don't understand basic statistical reasoning.

One of the parts of this that clicked for me today on why so many arguments frustrate me is that people don't actually understand how sampling works and how we reason from a specific sample in a study....

JoscelynTransient, (edited ) to random
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Preparing to really begin putting out content here again on the Fediverse, and now I'm curious what my audience looks like.

If you FOLLOW me, can you PLEASE ANSWER this poll? Thanks! Shukran! Arigatou! 😁

(note: genders in alphabetical order, only 5 options allowed so apologies for condensing)

JoscelynTransient, to history
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Looking for recommendations: does anyone know any good podcasts about subsaharan African history or precolumbian history in the Americas?

I really enjoy history podcasts like History of Rome, Revolutions, History of Japan, and the British History Podcast....but I haven't really encountered anything in this style about the societies and cultures in those places and times. And that's a problem because I should and want to know more!

JoscelynTransient, to trans
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It's official: I have acquired blahaj.

My wife and I went to IKEA to get some things for the new house and this was my first time going to IKEA! So...I was required by law to secure everyone's favorite fish...and ended up getting a big one and a small one... because.

JoscelynTransient, (edited ) to KindActions
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Do you follow @rooster (Jessica)? If you're like me, she brings a lot of delight, joy, and kindness into your feed every day. Well, it's our time to return the favor! Let's help her feel the love she's given so many of us!

Jessica is raising money for gender-affirming care that will help her feel full embodied and good in herself. Her insurance is only covering half of her FFS costs, and she needs our support to take care of herself and her kids.

Her goal is $15,000. I'm not sure how easy it will be to get there, but let's set a goal for $3,000 to start? If we each toss in what we can, we can help her access the care that she needs.

https://www.gofundme.com/f/jessica-pay-for-genderaffirming-care?member=28644003&utm_campaign=p_cp+share-sheet&utm_content=undefined&utm_medium=copy_link_all&utm_source=customer&utm_term=undefined

JoscelynTransient, to random
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Song: Book of Our Names

Artist: Ezra Furman (she/they)

Why?

"Book of Our Names" is like a gospel hymn for the sacredness of trans lives. It is hard not to see it both as about the ritual so many of us perform on TDOR every year, the reading of names and a candlelight vigil, and as a call to faith that we will endure and overcome.

Give yourself a few minutes today to just listen and feel this song.

https://youtu.be/caoGtd0iNwU?si=hRmm2jbc8HpdtJag

JoscelynTransient, to DoctorWho
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When people were surprised Doctor Who started having trans characters, it seemed pretty obvious to me they weren't real fans. I mean, the Doctor changes their face and gender presentation regularly, dresses in a way that doesn't correspond to the gender binary on the planet they were raised on, and goes by a chosen name that confuses everyone.

There was literally a whole story arc during the 11th Doctor where the whole point was that their given name is a secret that is just written down in some Time Lord documents. And the Time Lords require them to use their deadname to verify who they are and answer their security question. And the only people who know it is their wife, who learned it at their wedding (as one might on a legal document), and someone who came across their documents saved in their library.

JoscelynTransient, to random
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Apparently Torrid has an adult shark onesie...and now I'm tempted to get it and see if the trans girls will squeeze me like a Blahaj 😅🥺 :BlobhajReach:

JoscelynTransient, to transmasc
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friends: would any aspiring trans masc writers be interested in contributing a piece to the zine on finding gender euphoria or what gender euphoria means to you?

I am hoping the first issue can speak to most of the trans, non-binary, and gender diverse community, but I obviously can't write firsthand about trans masc perspectives. Finances for this are still tight but I can offer $50 for a piece, ideally 2-3 pages long.

JoscelynTransient, to trans
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PLEASE help out one of my found family? You'll be helping out a trans Latina who just needs help until her food stamps and new job comes through after an accident.

I spent the night at the ER the other day because @SophiaAlcala got in an accident on her electric scooter while commuting. She's okay, thankfully, but this came at a bad time when she had run low on money for food and other basic needs. Not to mention now she needs to fix her scooter, her only means of transportation.

Our goal is to raise $400 to repair her scooter so she can get around again and $600 to pay for food and other basic expenses in the meantime. Please, anything you can spare would be a favor to me as well as helping Sophia.

$30/$1000

https://gofund.me/94edb7cd

PLEASE BOOST! 💜 :QueerCatHeart_Trans:

@mutualaid

JoscelynTransient, (edited ) to trans
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TRANS AND GENDER DIVERSE FRIENDS:

Since coming to terms with your gender, how often have you wished you were just a regular cis person of your gender? (E.g. trans fems wishing they were "just another cis girl")

And if you could reply, I'd love to hear why you have those feelings or thoughts. 💜

JoscelynTransient, (edited ) to trans
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Out of curiosity, TRANS FEMS: have you ever dated, been in, or are currently in a t4t relationship?

JoscelynTransient, (edited )
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Out of curiosity, TRANS MASCS: have you ever dated, been in, or are currently in a t4t relationship?

JoscelynTransient, (edited )
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Out of curiosity, NONBINARY folks: have you ever dated, been in, or are currently in a t4t relationship?

#trans #Transgender #NonBinary #Enby

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