freemo, to asd
@freemo@qoto.org avatar

If you are well organized, it is a healthy trait. no one would say you are "on the OCD spectrum".. but when that trait gets out of hand we would say you have OCD, and likely would be diagnosed as such.

I see (autism) ASD and ADHD as much the same way. Most people diagnosed with it who are high functioning dont really have it at all. It is just a personality trait and all in all a positive one. high-functioning ASD are just people without social hangups, good. And people with ADHD who are high-functioning are largely just amazing multi-taskers.

The harm in putting people on a spectrum is they see themselves asa diseased, broken, something that needs "consideration.. they arent, in most cases in the right proportions these "diseases" are in fact just super powers, things more people should wisht hey have really.

aj, to programming in What Programming Languages Do You Wish Were More Popular?
@aj@s.aj.immo avatar

@MajorasMaskForever @CoderSupreme Ada tooling has come a long way. Steps to creating an ada project on linux:
1: curl --proto '=https' -sSf https://www.getada.dev/init.sh | sh
2: alr init --bin myproj
3: cd myproj
4: alr with json json support
5: alr edit
6: alr build # when I'm ready to compile
More info at https://alire.ada.dev/ or https://getada.dev

ajaxStardust, to ADHD
@ajaxStardust@vivaldi.net avatar

People don't bitch about enough. Seriously. What are you afraid of?

I've been on it since I was a youngster. It has become next to impossible to get the Rx filled these days. It's absolutely ridiculous.

I have an accredited doctor who I happen to convene with via Telehealth. She's part of my whole clinical network/ insurance company, .

refuses to fill the script because it's a Dr.

This comes as a surprise because
1.) I've had the Rx filed by Walmart off-and-on over the past 20 years or so.
2.) I had no issues with / no idea that this was "a thing"

Now closer to a WM pharm vs the prev CVS, it made sense to have this month sent here
(Adderall patients are forced through this rigmarole every 30 days).

Why don't more people bitch? Haven't you been affected?

fell, to ADHD
@fell@ma.fellr.net avatar

My wife: "I put the concert tickets in a safe place, but I'm not telling you where, so you can't accidentally misplace them."

I agreed.

I guess people eventually
find ways to work around your disorders. :drgn__w_:

rayckeith, to random
@rayckeith@techhub.social avatar

"in january 2023, i had a simple ultrasound done at SimonMed. they sent me 4 bills totaling $5137 for it.

after a year of emails and phone calls, they finally admitted today that i only owed $140.53 and are mailing me a refund check!

here's how i did it 🧵"
https://threadreaderapp.com/thread/1778230902604378353.html

jackwilliambell,
@jackwilliambell@rustedneuron.com avatar

@rayckeith

I'd like to point out this is a example of how society disadvantages people with , , , and any other syndrome which makes it difficult to perform 'follow up' like this.

I can't begin to tell you how much money having ADHD has cost me because I forgot to do some paperwork or couldn't bring myself to make a series of phone calls.

And all I hear when it happens is, "Why didn't you just do it?"

IF I COULD JUST DO IT I WOULD JUST DO IT!

Sorry rant came out…

macberg, to Futurology
@macberg@mastodon.online avatar

Is there a term for the concept of switching all (or as much) of your digital life to old school text based interfaces for the purpose of reducing sensory input, convenience and dopamine traps? Is there a community for that and how many useful tools are there for that?

alesi, to coffee Hungarian
@alesi@toot.si avatar

schrödinger mikrója: amíg nem nyitod ki, nem tudod mit hagytál bent órákkal ezelőtt

video/mp4

freemo, to ADHD
@freemo@qoto.org avatar

It is so cringe when i hear people hijack general less descriptive terms like "neurodivergent" to mean really silly arbitrary things like adhd and autism... we already have descriptive terms and that word already means something useful before you bastardized it.

hollie, to ADHD
@hollie@social.coop avatar

Folks with ADHD, how did you feel when the acronyms shifted, and instead of having and , now the "correct" term is ADHD?

When I was diagnosed in 2000, it was largely because they'd finally discovered that ADD without hyperactivity was a thing, and that girls/women presented as inattentive more often than hyperactive (thus why they were often overlooked). It still feels inaccurate every time I write "ADHD" in reference to myself (yet I often get corrected if I use "ADD").

fell, to ADHD
@fell@ma.fellr.net avatar

I came to the conclusion that impulsivity is not a symptom of ADD/ADHD but a consequence. Let me explain:

My main issue with ADD is that important thoughts (todos, dates, deadlines, promises, ...) never come up unless triggered somehow. Now, when any important thought comes up in my unreliable brain I have two choices:

  1. act immediately
  2. dismiss the thought, possibly forever

Note: ADD/ADHD is a real disorder in the brain's metabolism and not a popculture phenomenon. If you think you might be affected, contact a neurology clinic for diagnosis, medication and supportive therapy. I have been diagnosed twice by independent doctors.

#ADD #ADHD

RPBook, to Parenting
@RPBook@historians.social avatar

question. We have two kids. The 16yo is , we think the 11yo is .

When one of them does something wrong and we don't know which one, they will both claim it wasn't them. We find that upsetting, because one of them is lying to us.

We don't want to punish. We want a conversation about what happened and why, and an apology.

But it can take days of asking before one of them admits it, and that time is horrible. How can we get whoever did it to admit it sooner?

auguryignored, to ADHD
@auguryignored@dice.camp avatar

GMs and worldbuilders of Mastodon: When there are just too many ideas that seem like they'd be awesome, how do you decide? I'm coming to terms with the fact that I'm mostly like neurodivergent of the or variety, and my creative loop gets constantly sabotaged by hyper-interrogated cool ideas until I lose creative confidence in them. Any advice on this is much appreciated, cause at the end of the day... I just want to build cool worlds and play cool games.

schizanon, to ADHD
@schizanon@mas.to avatar

ADHD is like 50% not working, 50% working frantically to make up for the not working part, 50% thinking about the work I should be doing (but not actually working), and 50% not sleeping (but trying to).

fell, to random
@fell@ma.fellr.net avatar

I've been off my medication ever since I came back from my holiday over christmas.

  • I feel less stressed
  • I sleep better
  • I loose focus after like 3 seconds
  • I'm emotional af with the wost mood swings I've ever had
  • I forget important things everywhere
  • People get mad at me

Do I go back and risk heart problems? :drgn_think_confused:

schizanon, to ADHD
@schizanon@mas.to avatar

I'm real bad to start replying to a message before I read the whole thing. I judge books before I finish them, and start researching things I hear about in YouTube videos before they are over. It's an ADD thing I'm sure, and there's just not enough time to read and comprehend everything that comes across a screen, but it trips me up a lot.

schizanon, to mentalhealth
@schizanon@mas.to avatar

I feel like I cannabis has a very different effect on me than it does on most people; it never made me hungry, if anything it made me put off eating. After quitting I started eating a lot more regularly and gaining weight. I just used it to make boring things interesting, something I now use amphetamines for.

Bearfaced, to Sleeping

ADD and Sleep Apnea: How Sleep Issues Can Look Like ADHD
https://www.additudemag.com/add-and-sleep-apnea-problems-solutions/

schizanon, to ADHD
@schizanon@mas.to avatar

I tried to treat but it didn't do anything for me, so my doctor switched me to , but the pharmacy has been out of stock for nearly a month so I haven't got to try it yet. I'm about ready to just give up again, and go back to and . At least I can actually get those.

LeelaTorres, to actuallyautistic
@LeelaTorres@digitalcourage.social avatar

@actuallyautistic
Question on the bubble :

Some friends of mine who are on the neurodiverse spectrum ( and/or ) think I'm probably on the spectrum too. Their experience is that they get on better with people on the spectrum. They think that they like me is a strong indication.

What is your experience? Do autistic people have a "detector" for this characteristic?
Or is it really the case that you feel more comfortable with other neurodiverse people than with neurotypical people?

DavBot, to ADHD
@DavBot@nerdculture.de avatar

Bah, three hours sleep, and I didn't do anything productive or social last night. Task paralysis is a sonofibitch. I figure the conversation went like:

😁: "Alright brain what thing do next? Chores, server, peertube relaunch, music? Schoo-"

🧠: "Nope."

🧐: "What do you mean nope?"

🧠: "I'm sorry Dave, I'm afraid I can't do that."

😬: "Huh?"

🧠: "Daiiiisy.... Daaaaiiiissyyy..."

genebean, to ADHD
@genebean@fosstodon.org avatar

@ironicbadger - you mentioned journaling in Self Hosted 115… have you looked at the structure / process called bullet journaling? https://bulletjournal.com is the foundation. It really helps with / . Also, you ever want to nerd out on , hit me up... I’m soooo addicted to them!
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BeAware, to ADHD
@BeAware@social.beaware.live avatar

The Lemmy ADHD community seems to consist of a TON of ADHD deniers....🤦‍♂️

Sure there's a lot that support the disorder, but since I started following the community, I'm almost positive I've seen more deniers than supporters.

Mastodon continues to be a consistently better place and more tolerating of certain topics than Lemmy...😬

Webwasp, to Humor
@Webwasp@mas.to avatar

Skittles: Pee the rainbow

Webwasp, to Humor
@Webwasp@mas.to avatar

Have a break, have a Kit Kat

documentcloud, to random

Got some audio you need transcribing? DocumentCloud now has built-in audio transcription tools, and now you can tweak the model to either improve accuracy or boost speed: https://www.documentcloud.org/app?q=#add-ons/MuckRock/documentcloud-whisper-addon

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