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renegadejade

@renegadejade@hachyderm.io

we only grow when we’re willing to sit with our own discomfort and learn from it 🌱

Queer Femme 🏳️‍⚧️💋
Bi Leatherdyke ⛓️
Storyteller & Poet 💜
Zen Witch 🪷
Anarcha-Feminist Killjoy 🏴
Neurodivergent + CPTSD 🧠
Higher Ed Cybersecurity 💻

contains multitudes

posting good vibes, trauma recovery, sex+/kink+, politics, and lots of queer

avatar: selfie of a white person with short hair and shaved sides and dark lipstick

header: graffiti that reads “BE CRIME, DO GAY” next to a tranarchy symbol

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The most punk thing you can do is care about vulnerable people in a society that actively discourages it.

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The first Pride was a riot.

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Caught between “haha, get fucked fascists” and the reminder that simply using a restroom risks violence.

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Protect your peace.

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Billionaires aren’t “self-made men.”

Trans men are self-made men.

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Is it too early for Pride memes?

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Society: You must cover your genitals at all times but wear clothes that represent your genitals because while you’re not supposed to think about other people’s genitals I get very uncomfortable when I can’t tell what genitals other people have.

Genitals.

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More trans stories like this please.

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Pretty disappointing that most gender reveal parties "reveal” genders I already know about. What kind of reveal is that? Where are the new genders?

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The only ethical use of a love potion.

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Explained to my mom that her rich white suburban lady Free Group on Facebook where folks ask for and give stuff away for free is a type of mutual aid and is basically anarchist-style organizing and she and my dad started to get it???

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I don’t ask all of these every time but this is a list of questions I like to ask hiring panels during interviews.

I’ve been told I ask great questions multiple times, so sharing here in case you want to steal some.

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Legal name implies the existence of illegal name.

Legal gender implies the existence of illegal gender.

Be trans, be crime

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Good morning! You are loved. 💜

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At least I’m self aware about it. 😅

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We’re just trying to be ourselves.

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It's punk as fuck to care about vulnerable people, especially when society doesn’t.

Be punk. Wear a mask.

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“Your order has shipped.”

You just mean the label was created and the tracking number doesn’t work yet, right?

“…”

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Cyberpunk is a warning not a goal.

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Overheard my dad on a business call telling a coworker his daughter helped him get Teams working. 💜

He regularly corrects my mom when she accidentally misgenders me.

He’s never intentionally nor accidentally deadnamed me.

A few months ago he asked me if I was “still going to be trans.”

A few years ago he told me my partner’s they/them pronouns were a sign of mental illness.

A decade ago he actively avoided becoming friends with gay people.

He’s 64. Never stop growing. 🌱

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Your yearly reminder to not be weird to non-binary people on International Women’s Day. They aren’t women or women-lite unless they specifically identify as such.

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For I want to shout out those who can’t or won’t come out due to safety concerns, internal struggles, lack of support, or for any other reason.

I see you.

You are valid.

You are loved.

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Queer joy is a radical act
Queer rage is a radical act
Queer fear is a radical act
Queer excitement is a radical act
Queer despair is a radical act

Feeling and expressing all of your emotions like the human you are, in a world that dehumanizes you, is a radical act.

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Being kind is worth it.

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Shout out to all the visible trans people in tech and infosec, specifically, who unknowingly helped me feel safe enough to start my transition.

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