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purplepadma

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Hi, I’m Charlotte, I’m late 40s and I relocated from London to #Pembrokeshire in west #Wales five years ago. First year #psychology #PhD student at University of Surrey in the #MentalHealth sector. Interests include #QualitativeResearch, #books, #running, #fitness, #cats and capybaras. Bisexual, cis (pronouns: she/her)

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My favourite autumn meme! IDK the artist, does anyone else? I love it so much

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Four panel black and white comic by lunarbaboon

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Tales From the Kitchen (as overheard through the open door)

“Meow!”
“It’s just olives.”
“Meow!”
“No, you don’t like olives.”
“Meow!”
“I promise you don’t want these!”
“MEOW!”

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ICYMI, as of today the UK has a “Common Sense Tsar” who will personally fight back against the pernicious scourge of wokery. The incumbent is someone who completely failed to be elected Tory leader, held a couple of cabinet jobs, then flounced off to be a TV presenter on Fox-wannabe, GB News. It has physically pained me to type all this out, and not because I have RSI in my tooting finger

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New introduction for a new instance! Thank you very much for letting me join the , I’m pleased to be here. I’m a researcher and in a couple of months I’ll be starting a in looking at sexual risk taking and sexual relationships in people living with a diagnosis of “borderline personality disorder”. I’m very excited about this, I’m pretty old for a PhD student (49!) but I bring a lot of experience in working with people with complex mental health issues. I also have my own, I have lived with and since childhood.

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Just had this message from a friend and I am raging! “Think my running journey is over... Didn't make it2 10k as ran past a man who whistled at me & then stuck his foot out. Couldn't dodge it fast enough so went flying. Not sure I'll have the confidence to go out again
Being a woman feels really hard sometimes... 😔😔” Picture of cut lips and hand.

I have been cat called so many times running, and once a young man slapped my bum from behind and tried to pull me into the bushes, but I think this is worse. Why the fuck is women feeling powerful through running something men feel compelled to try and take away?

Do not “not all men” me

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Never seen so many colanders on social media

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🚨IDEA ALERT🚨 I think universities could do a whole lot better at supporting PhD students & research/teaching staff with mental health conditions. There’s strength in numbers, so I’m thinking of starting a network for academics with MH issues for mutual support. Would YOU be interested, or do you know someone who might benefit?

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I don’t live in a city, but I live in a “15 minute town”, I guess. In 15 minutes I can walk to grocery shops, cafes, pubs, restaurants, pharmacy, opticians, dentist, GP, library, state primary school, bus stop to get to bigger towns, churches of three denominations should you want such a thing, community centre with adult education classes and sports facilities and gym, and swimming pool. The train station is a little further, but only 20 mins’ walk because I live on the opposite side of town. And I absolutely love it. Obviously we have to travel to access big supermarkets (although personally I get home delivery), the local hospital and secondary schools, but that’s inevitable. Why would you not want everything close at hand so you don’t need to jump in a car all the time?

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Seething at the English schools guidance on trans pupils insisting that “gender ideology” is “a contested view” and that children and young people transitioning is some kind of threat to “the school community”. Now teachers are under pressure to inform the parents any time a child confides that they are questioning their assigned gender identity. So now trans kids won’t open up to any adult and will be even more lonely and depressed. I loathe Kemi Badenoch!

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Funny how as soon as you lose a bit of weight, people start commenting on your body. It’s as if the worst thing they can think of is a fat person, so all moves away from that must be applauded. I’m doing it for fitness reasons but people are interested in how I look, not how I feel. Did they find me that unappealing before?

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I was feeling kind of lost and slightly sad but I’ve just been reading my Mastodon feed and checking out interesting articles and boosting cat pics and enjoying shitposts and I really feel so much better. People who think all social media is toxic have no idea

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Now, in old-timey seasonal news…

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If you don’t think dudes, guys, chaps or lads are acceptable ways to address a mixed gender group, why not? And what do you say?

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Best nut?

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Behold the Loaf of Darkness

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So many people on FB getting their knickers in a twist about the new reduced speed limits in Wales. Grow up! It will save lives (especially kids’) and reduce emissions, I’ve no time for people who don’t think those are admirable goals

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I have to say I was really touched by how many Masto folk checked in with me after they heard about the earthquake, having seen my prior posts about being in Marrakesh. It’s amazing to feel like I have made enough of an impact on someone that I have never met in real life that they would worry about me. Slow hand clap however to they guy who took the time to respond to my toots about being near an earthquake epicentre by lecturing me about my carbon footprint

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Oh. I tried to enter a breakout room in my MS Teams training and instead it kicked me out of the whole thing. I can’t be bothered to try to get back in again, I’ll just do something else until lunchtime. I might go for a walk and get some cash out for my hairdresser, who’s coming tomorrow

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Another day, another box… a box of Christmas presents from my mum arrived today and Miss Cinnamon was inside, eyes wild, before I had removed all the contents

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Trapped under the cat. I hunger. I am wasting away.

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Rail travel: How easy is it for all in Wales to access? https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-wales-66847055

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This is really, really depressing. One tiny thing to make trans and queer people feel safe to be open about those identities in healthcare environments, and the UK Government is cancelling it https://www.vice.com/en/article/ak38ak/uk-government-shuts-down-nhs-lgbtq-diversity-program-rainbow-badge-scheme

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