ADHD

JessTheUnstill,

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Hey, I'm Jess!

I'm , , , , and

I do cybersecurity stuff for large corporations for money to pay for food and rent.

I do things to try and make the world a little bit less shitty for people because I want to.

For some words of wisdom:

In a cruel and fucked up world, choosing to be kind to other people is the most subversive thing you can do.

anna_addis,
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This paragraph by David Graeber makes me think - what if alternating between procrastination and hyperfocus is just how human brains are meant to work i.e. "normal" or dare I say "typical"? What if is just some brains' ultimate refusal to conform to capitalism?

zeh,
@zeh@mstdn.io avatar

@anna_addis
Yes, many people have made that point before. Capitalism has always tried to frame whatever is not conducive to profit and growth as disease, weakness, failure of character, etc. It's not. It is refusal.

Our minds and bodies resist exploitation. We refuse, often at the cellular level, before being conscious about it.

HeavenlyPossum,
@HeavenlyPossum@kolektiva.social avatar
ideogram,
@ideogram@social.coop avatar

Neurodiversity is probably beneficial for groups of humans as it brings different behaviours from the fore, which are different from the Neurotypical crowd.

This leads to new opportunities for everyone.

& autism aren't disorders, they are syndromes or variances.

https://www.theguardian.com/science/2024/feb/21/adhd-may-have-been-an-evolutionary-advantage-research-suggests?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Other

JessTheUnstill,

Because for some reason nobody ever tells anyone this ....

While it's not a "conclusive" measure by any means, in GENERAL, people who feel calmer and more focused on stimulants - including caffeine - are pretty likely to also be somewhere in the realm of brainspace.

So if that sounds like you, try out the self-assessment test and see how your life experiences line up.

https://add.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/adhd-questionnaire-ASRS111.pdf

JessTheUnstill,

@avuko
AuDHD is a thing, btw. I'm one of them.

JessTheUnstill,

FYI Just because you have "A System" to help manage your neurospicyness doesn't mean you aren't neurospicy. It just means you have "A System". And that system "costs something" in your life - extra mental brainpower, money, time, maintenance on your "system". So it's okay to still accept and acknowledge the neurospicyness, or seek diagnosis and accommodations so you don't need to rely on your "system" quite as much to make your life easier.

@markstos

Richard_Littler,
@Richard_Littler@mastodon.social avatar

I totally forgot to hawk!
BUY BOOKS for or, quite frankly, I will perish!
https://scarfolk.blogspot.com/p/scarfolk-gift-shop.html
(Please take pity on an artist who is absolutely useless at self-promotion. At least, now that I've been diagnosed, I know it's probably my neurodivergent brain that's to blame)

Kclemson,
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pixel,
@pixel@social.pixels.pizza avatar

@Kclemson I’d need sticker notes to remind me to look at the other sticky notes. It would be sticky notes all the way down

empunkt,
@empunkt@metalhead.club avatar

@Kclemson More of this: https://izismile.com/2021/12/04/adhd_isnt_fun_but_these_memes_are_32_pics.html I'm sending this link to people who ask me what it's like to have .

shrikant,
@shrikant@noc.social avatar

For people without ADHD, "just do it" is the solution.

For people with ADHD, "just do it" is the problem.

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PacificNic,
@PacificNic@zeroes.ca avatar

Tell me again, every teacher I've ever had, how is not a "real disability".

Study: adults with ADHD have a lower life expectancy than other adults by a staggering 13 years - https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1087054718816164

rjblaskiewicz,
@rjblaskiewicz@mstdn.social avatar

@PacificNic I take a peronal interest in this study. So, the big caveat I see is that it is a small study size.

BeAware,
@BeAware@social.beaware.live avatar

Being unable to focus is just the tip of the iceberg for those of us with ADHD.

Mrfunkedude,
@Mrfunkedude@mastodon.social avatar

is remembering that you haven't ridden the exercise bike today right after you've had a meal and you tell yourself you'll do it later.

But you wont, because you'll forget.

Only to remember the next day after you've had breakfast or lunch, but now there's guilt attached to it from not having done it the previous day.

But don't worry, you can do it later.

DavBot,
@DavBot@nerdculture.de avatar

@Mrfunkedude

Or getting 2 days of hyperfocus, but then other stuff builds up, which leads to task paralysis until the anxiety breaks with 2 days of hyperfocus...

WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!

KydiaMusic,
@KydiaMusic@mastodon.social avatar

I almost forgot it’s ADHD Awareness Month. I was diagnosed in November 2021 after several of my friends posted ADHD memes and I recognized myself in them.

Finally being diagnosed and on meds has been great, overall. It’s not a super power, even tho medication definitely empowers me.

Being on meds doesn’t give me more spoons, but it does mean my spoons are no longer all slotted.

skinnylatte,
@skinnylatte@hachyderm.io avatar

If you have ADHD like me and sending / receiving mail and packages is a problem, consider paying for a mailbox service in your neighborhood. That way, someone's always available to sign for your packages and store your mail in one place, and when you misplace your keys inevitably they can also open the mailbox for you.

I love my mailbox lady, she's an old Asian woman who tells me things like 'did you know that this SF politician is polyamorous? how do they have the time?'

danilo,
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@skinnylatte HOW DO THEY HAVE THE TIME

dying

msquebanh,
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@skinnylatte Pimping Aunties!

hannu_ikonen,
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Living with #ADHD in America in 2023 is having to ration your low risk, long-term substance abuse risk reducing, stimulant medication because Richard Nixon decided he wanted to hurt black people with the War on Drugs as a strategy to retain power.

*Hat tip to all the kids on Quillivant who were forced off by Trumps war on Brown Puerto Ricans. I see you ❤️

#Inequity #StructuralRacism #StructuralViolence #fascism #audhd

riley,

@hannu_ikonen: And then he decided to resign and die, and even though he's never going to run again, the stupid war is still around. :blobcatglare:​

endeavorance,
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For folks in the US with noise sensitivities, you should be aware that this year we’ve seen an apparent record breaking amount of firework purchases in the country. I’m sure you’re hearing it already (as I have been).

You may want to be proactive with noise cancellation if you have headphones or ear plugs or something.

Take care of yourself as best you can!

inherentlee,

I might actually get a real shop to stock these and I'm extremely hyped. Normalize diagnosis being a positive and helpful thing.

NoraReed,
@NoraReed@mastodon.social avatar

@inherentlee oh these are cute as hell

inherentlee,

@NoraReed honestly I would highly recommend joining, I would be happy to hop on a call and tell you more about it sometime.

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