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mariyadelano

@mariyadelano@hachyderm.io

Founder of Kalyna Marketing.
Ukrainian in NYC 🇺🇦 | ADHD + BPD | Cat mom 🐱

Pronouns: she/her

Bigotry not allowed. I do not tolerate homophobia, transphobia, racism, misogyny, antisemitism, or fascism.

Art & creative writing account: ‪https://spacelase.rs/@Riakovbasa

tfr #fedi22 #marketing #content #tech #b2b #adhd

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mariyadelano, to random
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Share some love with the people who care about you, please.

You never know who might need to hear some encouragement. They often don’t look like they do.

mariyadelano, to random
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It’s checks notes a weekday, so time to be sad about the Supreme Court doing something dumb and anti-democratic today

mariyadelano, to ai
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I got early access to Google's new powered search experience, and I wrote about my first impressions here: https://kalynamarketing.com/blog/google-sge-review

Main thoughts:
I'm impressed. Google created a refreshing implementation of generative AI to search.

SGE never made me feel like it was trying to be more than a search engine, or force a clunky chatbot dynamic on me.

I don't know how practical it will be, but I am pleasantly surprised so far

mariyadelano, (edited ) to internet
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So excited to finally announce - I've launched a podcast version of my newsletter, Attention Deficit Marketing Disorder! 🎉

I will be making an accompanying audio version for every public post on there, but today I'm starting with the latest piece about 's and social media.

If you prefer listening to me ramble on about and ... check it out:

https://www.admdnewsletter.com/p/audio-threads-mastodon-and-the-loneliness

Instructions to follow: https://www.admdnewsletter.com/p/how-to-follow-the-admd-podcast

mariyadelano, to random
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I’ve been struggling to spend much time on Mastodon lately because my feed is >50% discussion of Bluesky

Seeing them makes me feel a terrible cocktail of:

  • FOMO for not having an invite
  • Confusion over why everyone cares so much all of a sudden
  • Fear that the wonderful community I’ve found here on Masto in the last 6 months will die because everyone will leave
  • Existential dread over the immense difficulty of managing a community-governed social media platform

It’s been tough 😖

mariyadelano, to random
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Husband found a fun article

https://calnewport.com/on-the-slow-productivity-of-john-wick/

“creating things that are too good to be ignored, regardless of the setting, is an activity that almost without exception requires undivided attention. Are we so sure that the definition of “productive” that defines knowledge work really is the most profitable use of our talents?”

mariyadelano, to mastodon
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My husband looked at my feed and said that he thinks I love because accounts here are “focused on portraying the human experience instead of monetization”

mariyadelano, to mastodon
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PSA: if you run a poll on and then edit the post attached to that poll in any way (yes, even to fix a typo or add a clarification, without touching the actual poll options) ALL OF THE POLL VOTES GET DELETED.

Excuse me as I go stare at the wall because I just deleted 400 votes on my poll 😣

mariyadelano, to SEO
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Not even remotely surprised.

Musk imposed limits on viewing tweets, so now Twitter is getting deindexed from Google Search results

https://www.seroundtable.com/twitter-google-search-drop-35648.html

Good reporting by the wonderful @rustybrick

mariyadelano, to random
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Serious question: friends, give me your best negotiation tips.

Especially if it’s in the business-to-business closing a deal context. But general negotiation advice works too!

I feel like I’ve been operating on crap advice for too long. Want a better way to think about these conversations!

mariyadelano, to Colorado
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My husband and I decided to extend our stay in by a couple of months.

So I’m looking to meet people while I’m here! I’m in , halfway between and .

I work in (specifically ), own a and talk a lot about and being a creator. I’m , and outside of work I love , , , , , and good food / cafes

If anyone is around, knows of any events, meetups, or looking for speakers - hi! 👋

mariyadelano, to random
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What bothers me about a lot of this new 2020s internet (especially on TikTok, YouTube, and Instagram) is the fake “authenticity” of it all

Accounts that fake street interviews

Fake pranks

Fake vlogs with staged conflicts

These people learned that audiences enjoy authenticity and unpolished raw human stories.

But instead of trying to be genuine in the stuff they publish… they copy the aesthetics of authenticity and lose the soul.

It just feels so wrong and off-putting to me.

mariyadelano, to ai
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Hi friends! Looking for sources & suggestions:

I’m writing about the current tension between keeping the internet open (but vulnerable to getting scraped by and exploited by big corporations) and maintaining (but effectively losing open access to information, creating a lot of small locked off spaces, and getting rid of any indexing, search, or APIs)

Would love to hear thoughts or get links. Thank you!

mariyadelano, to threads
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Hold up.

… an app that grew because of a exodus of people fleeing rate limits on their regular activity…. is imposing rate limits to deal with bots that will be affecting active users?

https://www.threads.net/t/Cuzo-AxtZ1o/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

mariyadelano, (edited ) to Russia
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Alright, let’s do some fun speculating since we’ve got time.

What do you think will happen?

mariyadelano, to music
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“Bush v. Gore
I can’t take it anymore”

just made a cover of “We Didn’t Start The Fire” but with updated references to recent history

Crimea and Muskrat both make an appearance

Brilliant

https://youtu.be/2LkVKCWL0U4

mariyadelano, to Russia
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Hi, friends!

showed up with a voice message today. Translating some:

“Wagner is the most experienced and battle-ready military division in Russia, and maybe even in the world”

"As the result of intrigue and bad decisions, our division was supposed to be disbanded by July 1, 2023”

https://t.me/concordgroup_official/1304

mariyadelano, to threads
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LORD HELP ME THIS APP IS LITERAL HELL

mariyadelano, to gaming
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Anybody here into simulation games - what do you find appealing about them? Why do you like playing them?

(Simulation is my favorite genre, so curious to see whether the reasons I’m drawn to it are similar for others!)

This includes games like The Sims, Civilization, Animal Crossing, Truck Simulator, anything by Kairosoft, etc.

mariyadelano, (edited ) to writing
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“But that's the magic of gradual trust compounded by years of loyalty, nothing changes even when you think you're completely different”

An old friend of mine published this beautiful, tender piece on friendship from her personal blog. I think many of you would enjoy it:

https://andsoiwriteagain.wordpress.com/2023/07/12/long-distance-friendships/

mariyadelano, to random
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Don’t give up on the internet.

mariyadelano, to books
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How did The New York Times, one of the world’s most famous and well-established publications, choose to review Geraldine DeRuiter’s ( @everywhereist) new book?

By illustrating her decapitated head on a plate, getting devoured by another woman. No, I’m not joking.

I got mad about it. I wrote about why:

https://www.admdnewsletter.com/platform-responsibility-in-defense-of-geraldine-deruiter/

mariyadelano, to random
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Take the time to grieve lost business relationships.

Colleagues, collaborators, partners, customers - all of these are still people who make a mark on us when we spend time together.

When those relationships end, it’s okay to feel sad.

Don’t shame yourself for hurting.

mariyadelano, to internet
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is down right now so if you're on Mastodon / the Fedi and missing your daily fix of bro content and hustle cringe... I've got the perfect read for you:

https://www.admdnewsletter.com/hustle-bro-culture-is-making-our/

Featuring screenshots of some peak LinkedIn cringe and multiple pyramid scheme references :blobfoxcrylaugh:

mariyadelano, (edited ) to nyc
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Mastodon friends… important poll (please boost for reach!)

The tables in our nearby deli have literal dried beans as decoration (see first reply to this thread for pics)

So…. beans? 🤔

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